It could be that you are expecting too much of yourself. You must find your own level. Life is not about chasing perfection but life is being the best you can be.Originally posted by LordIcarus:suddenly, everything i aimed for seems impossible. confidence gone. studies, girl, all lost within 6 months. okay, maybe studies all the while not there. but no matter how much i study now, it's like, gone. what can i do?
It is unfortunate indeed that a set of setbacks seems to happen 1 after another. But ask yourself this, what SHOULD You do? Continue to whine in ur misery? Or just buck up, and look ahead?Originally posted by LordIcarus:suddenly, everything i aimed for seems impossible. confidence gone. studies, girl, all lost within 6 months. okay, maybe studies all the while not there. but no matter how much i study now, it's like, gone. what can i do?
lol... when we say lower the aim , means u improve step by step...Originally posted by LordIcarus:but it hasn't happened in the past. cannot lower la. lower i can't even go poly.
Do you have a religion? How about searching for a religion for yourself? Life isn't living for yourself and making yourself look SUPER in your life. Life is about living for others and how many people you have lived for in your lives.Originally posted by LordIcarus:suddenly, everything i aimed for seems impossible. confidence gone. studies, girl, all lost within 6 months. okay, maybe studies all the while not there. but no matter how much i study now, it's like, gone. what can i do?
Then do concrete things. Like do ten year series instead of "studying"Originally posted by LordIcarus:but it hasn't happened in the past. cannot lower la. lower i can't even go poly.
Everybody have their low point of life in every stages of life. Teen,young adult,middle age and old....Originally posted by LordIcarus:suddenly, everything i aimed for seems impossible. confidence gone. studies, girl, all lost within 6 months. okay, maybe studies all the while not there. but no matter how much i study now, it's like, gone. what can i do?
Find your reason why you want confidence. Why you want to do well in your studies. Why you want a gal and other stuffs. Find a PROPER reason hor.Originally posted by LordIcarus:suddenly, everything i aimed for seems impossible. confidence gone. studies, girl, all lost within 6 months. okay, maybe studies all the while not there. but no matter how much i study now, it's like, gone. what can i do?
you may wanna consider this as a low point in your life. We all have or had ours too.Originally posted by LordIcarus:suddenly, everything i aimed for seems impossible. confidence gone. studies, girl, all lost within 6 months. okay, maybe studies all the while not there. but no matter how much i study now, it's like, gone. what can i do?
i also went thru 5 yeras of secondary education coz i was from the normal stream back then.Originally posted by LordIcarus:thanks everyone! (:
yeah, doing my o's this year. but it's just that, i'm already feeling like an old dortard there cause i'm sec 5. i don't wanna lose to myself and lose to a national examination once again.
i just took my term 3 examinations, and, it seems like everything i've been doing is useless.
school examinations are usually more difficult than O'lvl...Originally posted by LordIcarus:thanks everyone! (:
yeah, doing my o's this year. but it's just that, i'm already feeling like an old dortard there cause i'm sec 5. i don't wanna lose to myself and lose to a national examination once again.
i just took my term 3 examinations, and, it seems like everything i've been doing is useless.