As a friend how can i help?
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Er ok is like this i call my this friend "B",male.He recently confide to me he like a male -.- oh gosh!But then his girlfriend i call "C" is my best friend both of them are friends of mine.Then is like B telling me he losing interest in C ..B ask me to help telling C...i do not know how to start sia how should i tell C caused i had crush in C before...then how?Tell her the truth ...but they C like B alot..=x what should i do to help B salvage their relationship ?=x suggestions pls.!
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wahhhh, this is serious.
babok.
guy like guy..
ask him to reconfirm his interest, might just be a growing stage. -
B loses interest in C only or mainly girls? B might not have confirm his sexual orientation yet or, he is bisexual. Ask your friend what he likes bout that male (i assume he has a target already?) Physically? Emotionally? Or? Does he feel better and happier with a guy? You know that kind of feelin?
You know, as a friend and when a close friend tell you bout him/her regardin her orientation, the first reaction of yours is probably
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, but what you can do is to understand why your friend turns this way, understand his thinkin, and not tryin to turn him straight or whatever right away.... If he's happier this way, why not. -
ur fren how old
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lol... dont do anything...
yr intervene wont help B or C...
yr intervene may even make things worse and complicated...
tat is B and C 's relationship...
u should also reject B's invitation for u to help him with the reason he should face the problem himself but not push it to u...
With tat rejection, u have already helped him liao...
lol... let me guess... u r "A" , hah?? -
agreed..Originally posted by ispyyy:lol... dont do anything...
yr intervene wont help B or C...
yr intervene may even make things worse and complicated...
tat is B and C 's relationship...
u should also reject B's invitation for u to help him with the reason he should face the problem himself but not push it to u...
With tat rejection, u have already helped him liao...
lol... let me guess... u r "A" , hah?? -
=.= nop he my best friend =) er...around 3 yrs plus laios his age 17 =). But then its like dam funny sia..-.- to have a friend whose have a funny interest for guy..I cant just sit there and do anything watching both of my friends..Later things will surely turn ugly laios =x
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WHAT!!!YOUR BEST FRIEND'S BOYFRIEND LIKES ANOTHER GUY?
If i am u i'll tell her abt it. -
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Just tell the GF he likes male . -
you can ask him..
if he prefer to penetrate or get penetrated... -
Ts's friend like TS?
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What is Ts's friend like TS? dont quite get it..Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Ts's friend like TS? -
Hmm i guess i will just do as ya say i see thats the only way out.Thanks ya guys for the solutions~Originally posted by dbowie:
I could not stop laughing
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Just tell the GF he likes male . -
take care of his gf
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If like that is like i stealing someone gf...then people will start to gossip...some more close friend...do you think is really ok to do so?Originally posted by Omniknight:take care of his gf -
Firstly you must know if "B" really interested in guys or he's trying to use this excuse to breakup with "C".
If he's really a homosexual try talking to him and advise him to see a Doctor.
Well as for the breakup part, let him do the talking. You're in no position to help them with this. -
What doctor? B isnt ill or somethin, neither has he contracted a diseaseOriginally posted by ALW:Firstly you must know if "B" really interested in guys or he's trying to use this excuse to breakup with "C".
If he's really a homosexual try talking to him and advise him to see a Doctor.
Well as for the breakup part, let him do the talking. You're in no position to help them with this.
It's best to let B face the problem and say it (breakup) himself. As a close friend of his, listen to what he (B) has to say, understand his thinkin (of turnin homosexual). Sometimes it just happened, theres no why. Personal preference -
"B" can actually go and see psychiatrist to seek help. Homosexual used to be label as mental illness until the early 90s.Originally posted by Lorry`:What doctor? B isnt ill or somethin, neither has he contracted a disease
It's best to let B face the problem and say it (breakup) himself. As a close friend of his, listen to what he (B) has to say, understand his thinkin (of turnin homosexual). Sometimes it just happened, theres no why. Personal preference
There is a lot of social problems for homosexual as some of them feel that the public, family and friends cannot accept their behavior. They need people to talk to they need family members to understand them. -
The R/S is not yours. So Keep out. Don't get involved.
Don't do anything anyone in a r/s ask you to do for them for the r/s. They should be doing whatever needs to be done by themselves -
what it means is the person B likes is youOriginally posted by jlzk:What is Ts's friend like TS? dont quite get it.. -
=.= dam funny sia..you arhhsOriginally posted by de_middle:what it means is the person B likes is you 
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......Originally posted by de_middle:what it means is the person B likes is you 
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this is their jia1 shi4. don't meddle.Originally posted by jlzk:Er ok is like this i call my this friend "B",male.He recently confide to me he like a male -.- oh gosh!But then his girlfriend i call "C" is my best friend both of them are friends of mine.Then is like B telling me he losing interest in C ..B ask me to help telling C...i do not know how to start sia how should i tell C caused i had crush in C before...then how?Tell her the truth ...but they C like B alot..=x what should i do to help B salvage their relationship ?=x suggestions pls.!
IMO, your friend B is a coward!
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ask B first if he's so sure abut his feelings. and if he is, tell him that it would be better if he's the one to tell C, afterall, he's the boyfriend. he should be straightforward if he doesn't want to hurt the girl anymore.
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Originally posted by de_middle:what it means is the person B likes is you