The next step.
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I was a shitty boyfriend.
I could do anything for her except to take initiative to message her. Now we're both apart, someone of a better standard is after her.
For the past 2 months, we're both single, and recently we've been on talking terms again.
On why i don't take initiatives, it's because:
1, i fear i might be disturbing her.
2, i really have no confidence in everything i do.
I know mistakes though, i know it's dumb to not have your boyfriend taking initiatives to even message.
Anyway, I asked friends for some advice, and they told me, ''be a man, wait for her to come back to you.'' but i'm thinking if girls can do the coming back part, what's wrong with a man doing it.
So, peeps, what should i do? Should i actually message her? It's weird cause it's rather outta d blue. If so, what should i say?
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be a man
get some confidence
confidence add overall points.
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nah, everything i've been doing lately is, bad. ): this year rather.
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r u sure she break up with u is because of initiative in messaging???
lol
if it is, then, u just take initiative and msg her lah... It tells tat u have changed tat point liao... -
i think part of u quite prideful thus unwilling to take tat step.
pls, dun wait til she is gone forever.
go all out for the one u love.
if u stil love her, then grab her back again.
does she stil love u?? -
well, i don't really know if she still loves me, but i know i love her. :\
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errr... not to be pouring cold water on you...Originally posted by LordIcarus:well, i don't really know if she still loves me, but i know i love her. :\
& i'm just 70% sure that this is the case.
if the reason for break up is taking initiative in msging, it is a bit unbelievable... ><
Probably, tat reason is a spark towards breaking up ...
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maybe she doesn't love me anymore.
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i will bet a 50 50 on that.Originally posted by LordIcarus:maybe she doesn't love me anymore. -
sms her = disturb her???Originally posted by LordIcarus:I was a shitty boyfriend.
I could do anything for her except to take initiative to message her. Now we're both apart, someone of a better standard is after her.
For the past 2 months, we're both single, and recently we've been on talking terms again.
On why i don't take initiatives, it's because:
1, i fear i might be disturbing her.
2, i really have no confidence in everything i do.
I know mistakes though, i know it's dumb to not have your boyfriend taking initiatives to even message.
Anyway, I asked friends for some advice, and they told me, ''be a man, wait for her to come back to you.'' but i'm thinking if girls can do the coming back part, what's wrong with a man doing it.
So, peeps, what should i do? Should i actually message her? It's weird cause it's rather outta d blue. If so, what should i say?
(:
like that next time when u two get to sleep together and realised the other half snores haha... that one is called disturbed...
Want to savage this relationship... act now. Strike the iron when its hot.
Otherwise, u will regret for life!!!! Be it she still like u anymore. -
there's more to it that caused the breakup........i'm very very sure
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ooookay, so what should i do? *if she doesn't love me.
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ley her go... no point keeping a girl whose heart is not with uOriginally posted by LordIcarus:ooookay, so what should i do? *if she doesn't love me. -
let her go... no point keeping a girl whose heart is not with uOriginally posted by LordIcarus:ooookay, so what should i do? *if she doesn't love me. -
Move on then? I don't understand 1 thing, if you don't even dare to message her.. then how you managed to win her hand at first?Originally posted by LordIcarus:ooookay, so what should i do? *if she doesn't love me. -
singlehood.......its niceOriginally posted by LordIcarus:ooookay, so what should i do? *if she doesn't love me.
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if u ask us, we also dont noe wat u should doOriginally posted by LordIcarus:ooookay, so what should i do? *if she doesn't love me.
Reason : Very simple... Coz, we dont even noe what is the cause of breaking up... Anyway, how long is the relationship??? If the relationship is a short 1, arghhh... just move on lah... if the relationship is a long 1, probably, u may have chance... -
show her that you have changed.
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Hope you have learn your mistake.
Be confident is what you can do.
Forget about ego...
Of course it will be weird to ask her out of the blue...
Find some topics to chat with her first then ask. -
find someone else....Originally posted by LordIcarus:ooookay, so what should i do? *if she doesn't love me. -
Ya thats the only choice.Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:find someone else....