Older guys ? How??
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there are alot of other things besides maturity level of both parties when there is a huge age difference.Originally posted by Throttle:I'm 29 and if a 17 yr girl is interested in me, I'll probably treat her very well but more like a little sister.
dont think it'll work becos the level of understanding of LIFE is way too far apart.
A 17 yr old girl however mature is probably still too kiddy.
By the way does any 17 - 21 yr old girl wanna go out with me.
ha ha .
For example, the older guy may wanna settle down and the much younger gal is far from ready - i guess that could be linked back to maturity level.
But how about activities? She likes to cheong disco while he rather a quiet pub or lounge where u don't have to have a sore throat to hear each other speak.
Other things like communication, one thing pple like to talk about is how shit life is at work. He's a middle manager with a shit boss and incompetent subordinates, but would she understand what he's going thru if she's not working yet?
i guess the list could go on... i'm not saying it's impossible, but there are things like these that could come up and prove the reln unsuccessful.
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as a guy ... i do feel that older man attracts young girls more too ..
maybe.. at the monment this guy is able to provide what the young girls needs... older guy are much quieter and seem like more manly.more protective, seem like they listen.. can afford more things ..lucky got transport got home.... does things with most focus .. that why young girls tense to compare young guys who they feel they are less mature.. to the older guys.. even a few years different is alot..
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It's actually how one's mindset on how one will treat the other party.. Be it 17 or even if she is 37. If you always see her as a 17 year old. she will always be a little sister.. but if you see her as a person, it's a whole different story.Originally posted by Throttle:I'm 29 and if a 17 yr girl is interested in me, I'll probably treat her very well but more like a little sister.
dont think it'll work becos the level of understanding of LIFE is way too far apart.
A 17 yr old girl however mature is probably still too kiddy.
By the way does any 17 - 21 yr old girl wanna go out with me.
ha ha .
What I think of life now and how I think of life when I was 17 isn't very much of a difference, maybe plus here and there.. but the core value is still there.
I've seen girls even if she is 30s is still very like a kiddy still.. (I'm still wondering how her husband(just 2 years older) handles her, everytime see them like big brother scolding little sister)
Hey, even a 29 year old can be kiddy if one wants to be. it's how you want yourself to be.. (mostly being set by the social circle norm as how one is to be.) -
Communication is to a certain extend true in a way.. but then again, even if the other party is older. say 27, won't she be talking about some other stuffs that may happen to differ from one jobs problems, like one is from the shipping line and the other is in the services line.. each will be blur as to what is going on to each other's job. Add this to the housewife and house husband role(ok, that's after marriage) won't one party be talking about house work and the other party be talking about how one's job sucks..Originally posted by jOhO:there are alot of other things besides maturity level of both parties when there is a huge age difference.
For example, the older guy may wanna settle down and the much younger gal is far from ready - i guess that could be linked back to maturity level.
But how about activities? She likes to cheong disco while he rather a quiet pub or lounge where u don't have to have a sore throat to hear each other speak.
Other things like communication, one thing pple like to talk about is how shit life is at work. He's a middle manager with a shit boss and incompetent subordinates, but would she understand what he's going thru if she's not working yet?
i guess the list could go on... i'm not saying it's impossible, but there are things like these that could come up and prove the reln unsuccessful. -
hi there
it is ok to fall for older men cause they are understanding and caring
well as for me my gf is 19 and i am 29. all i wanna say is it is all base on feeling
well i hope i answered clearly
if u wanna know more u can email me [email protected]
bye take care
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Amransan,
believe me, brother. your galfriend will break off with you within 3 years. -
Anyway, I also go out with younger girls.
The current babe is 8 years younger than me
maybe next month it's time to break off and get a new babe?