Catharsis
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Older but not wiser.
I end up making the same mistake again. Relying too much on a person, only to feel the same despondency when he leaves.
I have always built my defenses so carefully. I have constantly reminded myself not to expect too much out of any one person.
Its just another game. I started out strong because I didnt care as much. But he has won. I have lost. He won because he knows its just a game. I have ran afoul of the rules by taking it too seriously. The first half is even not over and I have lost.
Some day when I chance upon this thread again, I will laugh at my own foolishness. If only that day is this moment. -
time will heel
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what will time "heel"?
thanks anyway.
anyway, for record's purpose (becoz he visits this forum as well), he and I are just friends. -
Life is a game. Everything's a gamble. You don't win all the time.
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i tink you r right when you say you shouldn't rely too much on 1 person.. i m gonna be talknig about my personal experience
cos... there are a few times when i get over-involve in another person's life... and... the person seems to keep coming to me for everything, advice, help, asking me to go out few times a week, lamenting over thee same thing over and over again...
it is very very tiring, esp when you try to help them and they keep having problems, being negative
which is why i tink it is always better to have a group of friends...
if you mean bgr... well... i tink it ought be a case of self-reliance and mutual support -
Originally posted by newg:Older but not wiser.
I end up making the same mistake again. Relying too much on a person, only to feel the same despondency when he leaves.
I have always built my defenses so carefully. I have constantly reminded myself not to expect too much out of any one person.
Its just another game. I started out strong because I didnt care as much. But he has won. I have lost. He won because he knows its just a game. I have ran afoul of the rules by taking it too seriously. The first half is even not over and I have lost.
Some day when I chance upon this thread again, I will laugh at my own foolishness. If only that day is this moment.