Guys... how do you tell or show a girl tat u r interested in
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Guys... how do you tell or show a girl tat u r interested in them and wan her to be ur g/fren?
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ASK... Eye contact... BODY CONTACT..??
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Get nearer? Tok more? Give more attention?
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Thomas Edison definition of genius :
"1% inspiration, 99% perspiration" -
haizzzzzzzzzz
me to shy to aproach
me haizzzzzzzzzzzz
i cant really speak well in front of gers
really
but i can talk well through the phone
i also dont know well
haizzzzzzzzzzzzzz
can any one help me too????
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Juz go and tok, and build confidence. I was really shy b4 I go JC. Cuz came from single sex sch, neva interact much wif gals at all, so dun even dare to tok.
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Thomas Edison definition of genius :
"1% inspiration, 99% perspiration" -
"hello, tonite/later doing wat/going where?"
"wanna go for a ride?"
"i like you."
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vroom...tingtingtingtingti...vroom~ -
Guys show their love by doing things for the girl they love. Whereas..women show their love in a very much percuiliar method-->Talk.
So for a girl to know whether the guy really fancies you or not.. He will win you over with his actions... NOT HIS WORDS! Words can be easily said by everyone. Though they have a different weightage depending who says it....TRUST ME AS I AM A GUY! A guy that is really in love with a girl will do things for the SHE.. But the do take note, coz if wat the guys does is something which can be done easily by money... not by using real effort...BEWARE!
As for a guy....open up...talk more.Need feel shy over a girl. Coz both are developing adults already..they will not feel shy talking or listening to a human of the opposite gender... Okie dokie?
If you really wanna understand more..go read up the book <<Man are from Mars; Women are from Venus>> a very good book from John Gray -
TOPICAL FLIRT!!Originally posted by kof-guy:"hello, tonite/later doing wat/going where?"
"wanna go for a ride?"
"i like you." -
BUT I'm a GUY too..??Originally posted by TA150:TRUST ME AS I AM A GUY! -
BUT I'm a GUY too..??Originally posted by Devil1976:[QUOTE]Originally posted by TA150:
[b]TRUST ME AS I AM A GUY![/B][/QUOTE]
Guess my posting tells u ppl that i am a guy. -
How to differiate whether the action he is showing is interested in you or just a platonic fren will do one?
Cos you can't really read ones mind. We may just interpret it opposite to what he does. -
This is the hardest part, interpreting actions. Same thing for guys too. How to differentiate whether action a gal is showing is interested in us or juz a fren.Originally posted by XinYi:How to differiate whether the action he is showing is interested in you or just a platonic fren will do one?
Cos you can't really read ones mind. We may just interpret it opposite to what he does.
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Thomas Edison definition of genius :
"1% inspiration, 99% perspiration" -
So your conclusion is, that person actions will not tell you whether the person like you or not lah, is it?Originally posted by eagle:This is the hardest part, interpreting actions. Same thing for guys too. How to differentiate whether action a gal is showing is interested in us or juz a fren.
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actions are not enough.
we humans have not reached the stage in evolution whereby we are pyshic.
you have a mouth. use it.
if humji...then... write letter loh.
but ah say nicely, letter = romantic and sweet. say truthfully, letter = not sincere enough, fake.
coz letters this kinda thing is unless you every week send her at least 1, then defeat the purpose liao mah. 1st time she recieve she'll think you're the romantic type. but if she never recieve anymore letters, the impression will change to ah hum type.
ok lah actually this is a guy's point of view hahaha
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Sorry, no better suggestion.Originally posted by XinYi:So your conclusion is, that person actions will not tell you whether the person like you or not lah, is it?
So you got better suggestions?
But letters leh, oso very difficult to write. Write too many may have a negative effect oso.
Wat I think is mutual understanding. If there isn't any, can't have lasting relationship too. :p
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Thomas Edison definition of genius :
"1% inspiration, 99% perspiration" -
If you oso love him, better give him more attention... but don't talk about love, just "good night" or "good morning" with simple joke SMS will do ... send him 1 SMS per 2 days, then after a week, send everyday.Originally posted by XinYi:So your conclusion is, that person actions will not tell you whether the person like you or not lah, is it?
So you got better suggestions?
If he oso love you, then he will have more confidence to tell you "love" ...
but if you don't have any feeling abt him (just curious whether he loves you onot) ... then better don't do anything ... if he tell then let him tell, if not then oso do nothing... cos if you curious(only), and then do something to lure his feeling... 70% confirm .. this can make your friendship gone ... -
if u go out with him he very shy and paiseh easily, that means he like u lor. haha but normally guys very paiseh one, dare not make the 1st move hahaha... if u ask him acoompany u this and that he very willingly means positive liao lor. If he say "ahh no time lah, go yourself" that kind thats mean negative. heheheOriginally posted by XinYi:Guys... how do you tell or show a girl tat u r interested in them and wan her to be ur g/fren? -
I agree a bit.Originally posted by TZR:if u go out with him he very shy and paiseh easily, that means he like u lor. haha but normally guys very paiseh one, dare not make the 1st move hahaha... if u ask him acoompany u this and that he very willingly means positive liao lor. If he say "ahh no time lah, go yourself" that kind thats mean negative. hehehe
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Thomas Edison definition of genius :
"1% inspiration, 99% perspiration" -
Hi Xinyi, why u ask this question leh? Eee, isit u are interested in some guys?... Although I am not a guy, but I feel that usually a guy will show their interest in a girl by asking her out often, or calling her often.Originally posted by XinYi:Guys... how do you tell or show a girl tat u r interested in them and wan her to be ur g/fren?
As for wanting the gal to be his gf, usually most guys will hint a bit. Some guys are more daring and direct... and they will just tell the gal directly.
Hope wat I had answered has cleared your doubts
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I'm not the daring sort. Dunno how to hint oso.Originally posted by autumn:Hi Xinyi, why u ask this question leh? Eee, isit u are interested in some guys?... Although I am not a guy, but I feel that usually a guy will show their interest in a girl by asking her out often, or calling her often.
As for wanting the gal to be his gf, usually most guys will hint a bit. Some guys are more daring and direct... and they will just tell the gal directly.
Hope wat I had answered has cleared your doubts
[This message has been edited by autumn (edited 10 October 2001).]
I wonder, do gals prefer a direct approach or a more subtle approach, making the gal guess wat is happening. Or obvious to the gal and subtle to others at the same time.
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Thomas Edison definition of genius :
"1% inspiration, 99% perspiration" -
IMHO I think most gals won't mind which approach as long as they have a feeling for the guy.Originally posted by eagle:I'm not the daring sort. Dunno how to hint oso.
I wonder, do gals prefer a direct approach or a more subtle approach, making the gal guess wat is happening. Or obvious to the gal and subtle to others at the same time.
If the gal doesn't like the guy at all... I feel that no matter which approach the guy uses also no use... cos ultimately, the gal also won't feel anything for the guy... -
But the thing is, when will we noe whether the gal haf feelings for the guy? Same prob for the gals too, I believe.Originally posted by autumn:IMHO I think most gals won't mind which approach as long as they have a feeling for the guy.
If the gal doesn't like the guy at all... I feel that no matter which approach the guy uses also no use... cos ultimately, the gal also won't feel anything for the guy...
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Thomas Edison definition of genius :
"1% inspiration, 99% perspiration" -
Hi eagle... To answer your question as to whether a gal has feelings for the guy... it's quite simple to know actually...Originally posted by eagle:But the thing is, when will we noe whether the gal haf feelings for the guy? Same prob for the gals too, I believe.
Hee, I dunno abt other gals, but for me, a gal will usually express her interests for a guy by agreeing to go out wif the guy when asked, or sometimes, the gal will take the initiative to call the guy up... or the gal will sound quite happy on the phone when the guy calls her...
This type of things, maybe u hv to do some minor observation... -
But the prob is most guys dunno, or dun dare to call the gal up. It is not tt simple actually.Originally posted by autumn:Hi eagle... To answer your question as to whether a gal has feelings for the guy... it's quite simple to know actually...
Hee, I dunno abt other gals, but for me, a gal will usually express her interests for a guy by agreeing to go out wif the guy when asked, or sometimes, the gal will take the initiative to call the guy up... or the gal will sound quite happy on the phone when the guy calls her...
This type of things, maybe u hv to do some minor observation...
I think easier for guys to show. If the guy brave enuff, will tok and give special attention to u. tt's wat I think and observed sometimes.
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Thomas Edison definition of genius :
"1% inspiration, 99% perspiration" -
This is the tough part lor, but it shd b easier for a girl to sense whether a guy likes her than the other way round. For me, I misunderstd some girls' actions and learnt my lessons from there, but for guys, most probably they will giv you some hints like what autumn had said...Originally posted by XinYi:How to differiate whether the action he is showing is interested in you or just a platonic fren will do one?
Cos you can't really read ones mind. We may just interpret it opposite to what he does.
the hint may b like asking u whether u had any close friends whom r guys and when do you think is the suitable age for dating, etc, got it? Watch out for the hints, guy's hearts r not that difficult to catch, unlike girls...
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off