Friends??
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hi all,
if you treat a gal friend good( eg taking care of her when she sick, stuff like that, buy cold remedy for her during her exams period scare her fall sick) and she treats you like "not enough friend", wat ya think of such gal?
senario:
1)we suppose to go out for outing, morning sms her want to meet, she says ok, so waot wait no reply, so i sms her again, she says she someone meeting her up, want come come along.. we live near ...
2)work in same company, she come in 1st, busying signing in for ppl who also arrives at that time, then i come in, she sees me, dun sign for me, instead passes me the pen and walk off..
or am i thinkikng too much( but ask her y, she tells me she "wen xin wu kui", then i think she no liang xin and took me for granted)
so question is if you treat a person good, do you expect ppl to treat you good back?
so wat ay all think of such a person. -
poor cable,
if it's not obvious to you by now... you're taken for a ride. if you think trying a little more tenderness, putting more love and attention to this. it's just going to hurt even more. it happened to me once, and all i've got to show is scars on my heart, and a big pile of crappy love poems.
it's up to you to figure out what to do. here's something i read a while back. i think it's nice. it's from acmelove.com
Letting go has never been easy and holding on can be as difficult. Yet strengths measured not by holding on but by letting go.
There are so many stars in the sky only some are radiant enough to be noticed. Among those you choose to ignore is the one which was willing to shine for you forever even if your glance remained elsewhere.
That's all. -
People come and go... Why Bother? Ive seen too much of hypocrites!!!
done so much for them... stab on my back!! *shakes head*
Pussy of the kind flocks together...
heng i shaved
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yup, true...this kind of friend when i ask her, she tell me to cool off.after new yr then say...
wah kao...as if my fault all along..but hor, i pissed off is i treat her like a friend, she doesn't, now i see her everyday in office she behaves like nothing happen. Gosh how i wish to caution my friends abt her....if she can do this to me, she can do this to anyone..true rite.Originally posted by Klactovak:poor cable,
if it's not obvious to you by now... you're taken for a ride. if you think trying a little more tenderness, putting more love and attention to this. it's just going to hurt even more. it happened to me once, and all i've got to show is scars on my heart, and a big pile of crappy love poems.
it's up to you to figure out what to do. here's something i read a while back. i think it's nice. it's from acmelove.com
Letting go has never been easy and holding on can be as difficult. Yet strengths measured not by holding on but by letting go.
There are so many stars in the sky only some are radiant enough to be noticed. Among those you choose to ignore is the one which was willing to shine for you forever even if your glance remained elsewhere.
That's all. -
Yes! She's not worth the trouble at all but if you've to go through it don't waste as much time as i did. i think about 3 years... can you imagine what i could've done in 3 years?!?Originally posted by cable:yup, true...this kind of friend when i ask her, she tell me to cool off.after new yr then say...
wah kao...as if my fault all along..but hor, i pissed off is i treat her like a friend, she doesn't, now i see her everyday in office she behaves like nothing happen. Gosh how i wish to caution my friends abt her....if she can do this to me, she can do this to anyone..true rite.
just leave her to her own devices, you don't have to warn any of your friends. they will find out for themselves. they might even say you're sour grapes for spreading such "rumours". it's an unfair world. tread carefully.
also pretend that you've never ever known someone like her. but admit to yourself that you've made a big emotional mistake, accept the fact, otherwise they'll be back to haunt you. ;o) take care.