new goal in my life..

• vice_edge

  24 Jul 07, 23:38

  yea the day be4 really sux la.. confession again to same girl same results
  only can be good friends.. i like her , she dun like me .. she dun wan bf during her poly days..til she meets sum1 she really like and he really like her .. therefore she said she does not deserve me to wait for her.. with tat
  
  ive decided to move on with my life and not dwell on the past .
• Cool-gal

  24 Jul 07, 23:49

  yeahhh, u have wake up!!
• CannyOng

  24 Jul 07, 23:54

  Originally posted by vice_edge:

  yea the day be4 really sux la.. confession again to same girl same results
  only can be good friends.. i like her , she dun like me .. she dun wan bf during her poly days..til she meets sum1 she really like and he really like her .. therefore she said she does not deserve me to wait for her.. with tat
  
  ive decided to move on with my life and not dwell on the past .

  So... It is not agony anymore but liberate from pain.. Well done,moving on with life and u will find yr one soon. But the way,u are still young. The better gals are ahead. Trust me!
• vice_edge

  24 Jul 07, 23:57

  yea if i dun move on she feels bad for hurting me to much our frenship at stake . to i haven to gib her up such a super duper nice girl but does not belong to me .. yea .. so near yet so far..
• Darkness_hacker99

  24 Jul 07, 23:57

  Originally posted by vice_edge:

  yea the day be4 really sux la.. confession again to same girl same results
  only can be good friends.. i like her , she dun like me .. she dun wan bf during her poly days..til she meets sum1 she really like and he really like her .. therefore she said she does not deserve me to wait for her.. with tat
  
  ive decided to move on with my life and not dwell on the past .

  What I see from you is your Infatuation for her.
• vice_edge

  24 Jul 07, 23:58

  its not infactuation to me . its tat i really like her a lot and willing to gib her its over anyway ..
• vice_edge

  24 Jul 07, 23:59

  go slp le la tmr bye !
• BrUtUs

  25 Jul 07, 00:26

  Originally posted by vice_edge:

  yea the day be4 really sux la.. confession again to same girl same results
  only can be good friends.. i like her , she dun like me .. she dun wan bf during her poly days..til she meets sum1 she really like and he really like her .. therefore she said she does not deserve me to wait for her.. with tat
  
  ive decided to move on with my life and not dwell on the past .

  gd to hear tat... better luck next time n improve urself...
• icyboiz

  25 Jul 07, 00:30

  Originally posted by vice_edge:

  yea the day be4 really sux la.. confession again to same girl same results
  only can be good friends.. i like her , she dun like me .. she dun wan bf during her poly days..til she meets sum1 she really like and he really like her .. therefore she said she does not deserve me to wait for her.. with tat
  
  ive decided to move on with my life and not dwell on the past .

  i have the same situation as u leh. but the girl is my ex, we broke 1 year ago,shes always contradicting me, sae love me, but i ask her to be couple agian, she dun wan. i dono what the heck girls is thinking. den she ask me dun wait for her animore, wth. den i keep told myself to move on, but it seems so hard..
• SingaporeMacross

  25 Jul 07, 01:07

  Originally posted by vice_edge:

  yea the day be4 really sux la.. confession again to same girl same results
  only can be good friends.. i like her , she dun like me .. she dun wan bf during her poly days..til she meets sum1 she really like and he really like her .. therefore she said she does not deserve me to wait for her.. with tat
  
  ive decided to move on with my life and not dwell on the past .

  Congratulations that you see things clearly!
  
  A personal observation: When girls say this, they always never follow what they say. Want to concentrate on studies? Excuses! I assure you that you will see her with a boyfriend by next year.
• vice_edge

  25 Jul 07, 07:12

  dun think she will be attached soon , shes not the kind that go back on her words la, she mostly hang out with girls and regards friends more impt than relationship , but who nos what might happen in the 3 yrs in poly ?
  
  whats mine is not mine ,..la its hard to accept but goota face it lor..
• Uncertain

  25 Jul 07, 07:55

  congratulations, u have released urself from more agony and pain....
  
  
• de_middle

  25 Jul 07, 08:45

  Originally posted by vice_edge:

  yea the day be4 really sux la.. confession again to same girl same results
  only can be good friends.. i like her , she dun like me .. she dun wan bf during her poly days..til she meets sum1 she really like and he really like her .. therefore she said she does not deserve me to wait for her.. with tat
  
  ive decided to move on with my life and not dwell on the past .

  thats the spirit
• Darkness_hacker99

  25 Jul 07, 11:44

  I find something nice for you.
  
  http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=266961
• Sakuraflower

  25 Jul 07, 19:21

  Dun be sad la...
  
  Who is the gal, come i help u talk to her... lol..
  
  concentrate on studies, then maybe after poly yrs, try contacting her and ask when she is ready...
  
  if not ,
  
  move on!
  
  but it is easy to say but hard to do!
  
  Just concentrate on studies and make more friends....
  
  
• vice_edge

  25 Jul 07, 21:40

  1. Let's be friends. (I want you to stay around so I can tell you in excruciating detail about all the other men I meet and lay. It's the male perspective thing.)
  
  so god damn thru la .. but i give up la .. no use trying again after 2x ..
• popikachu

  26 Jul 07, 18:51

  Originally posted by vice_edge:

  yea the day be4 really sux la.. confession again to same girl same results
  only can be good friends.. i like her , she dun like me .. she dun wan bf during her poly days..til she meets sum1 she really like and he really like her .. therefore she said she does not deserve me to wait for her.. with tat
  
  ive decided to move on with my life and not dwell on the past .

  That's good!
  
  But just to tell you that, Being happy is the most important thing living...
  
  Money and relation does not equal to happiness...
  
  
• Aaron8209

  26 Jul 07, 18:53

  well done..LOL
• vice_edge

  26 Jul 07, 21:45

  yea .. but my irritating guy fren keep asking me to built up my body lol
• NekoRin

  27 Jul 07, 09:50

  reminds me of what happened to me 2years back.... during that time I made the decision that it will be better if we remain as good friends rather than me keep on getting rejected. And if I didn't do that I wouldn't have found my precious dear le
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  All the best to TS, may you find happiness and true love soon
• vice_edge

  27 Jul 07, 10:28

  yea will do thx
• krautfuher

  27 Jul 07, 11:04

  Originally posted by SingaporeMacross:

  Congratulations that you see things clearly!
  
  A personal observation: When girls say this, they always never follow what they say. Want to concentrate on studies? Excuses! I assure you that you will see her with a boyfriend by next year.

  Sadly I think SingaporeMacross is right.
  
  I had a friend who chased this girl for 7 years, kena rejected countless times. Bugger never gave up nonetheless and now they are happily married and just got a HDB flat
  
  Its good that you can see the light. You can still continue to monitor her and treat her with sincerity and friendship and maybe someday she will have good feelings towards you. Don't bank on it though.
• Uncertain

  27 Jul 07, 11:25

  Originally posted by krautfuher:

  Sadly I think SingaporeMacross is right.
  
  I had a friend who chased this girl for 7 years, kena rejected countless times. Bugger never gave up nonetheless and now they are happily married and just got a HDB flat
  
  Its good that you can see the light. You can still continue to monitor her and treat her with sincerity and friendship and maybe someday she will have good feelings towards you. Don't bank on it though.

  The feeling is one-sided... not long lasting one... 7 years then succeeded.. it means the girl cannot find other people liao... lan lan choose ur fren
• vice_edge

  27 Jul 07, 13:45

  sum how true leh