How would u feel if your partner...
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I feel that gals are more to attention seekers..how would u feel if your partner are who is the one wans attention from you? E.g. he is comparing and complaining that u sms/communicate whoever is more than him..or jus when both of you together, he dislike others to sms you..or in group with frnds he get jeaslous when others talk to you, meaning to says.."Your eyes are for him only"
Do you consider this as attention seeker? Will you consider that he is mainly only jealous? Or his is not confidence in himself?
Gals, How would u feel? Anyone experience this b4? -
I consider that as a male chauvinist and super posessive bf. He is quite selfish and only consider his feeling...Originally posted by apple*:I feel that gals are more to attention seekers..how would u feel if your partner are who is the one wans attention from you? E.g. he is comparing and complaining that u sms/communicate whoever is more than him..or jus when both of you together, he dislike others to sms you..or in group with frnds he get jeaslous when others talk to you, meaning to says.."Your eyes are for him only"Do you consider this as attention seeker? Will you consider that he is mainly only jealous? Or his is not confidence in himself?
Gals, How would u feel? Anyone experience this b4? -
maybe he is more of the emotional type of guy
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too much = bad
too little = bad
must balance really well
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thanks..puzzled cos i also tot he is chauvinist..but this is onli complaining these 2 things, other than that, this guy is ok....but strange is he always comparing or make remarks like.."u can sms who and who but when i sms u, ur sms is short"...at times wondering is the gal at wrong?Originally posted by CannyOng:I consider that as a male chauvinist and super posessive bf. He is quite selfish and only consider his feeling...
e.g when during arguement, is veri natually for gal to explain if she feels her partner has misunderstood her..but to guy he feels the gal is defensive and every time the partner will end argue by saying sorri...at times she cant realli catch the guy's mind... -
Ur guy haven't grown upOriginally posted by apple*:I feel that gals are more to attention seekers..how would u feel if your partner are who is the one wans attention from you? E.g. he is comparing and complaining that u sms/communicate whoever is more than him..or jus when both of you together, he dislike others to sms you..or in group with frnds he get jeaslous when others talk to you, meaning to says.."Your eyes are for him only"
Do you consider this as attention seeker? Will you consider that he is mainly only jealous? Or his is not confidence in himself?
Gals, How would u feel? Anyone experience this b4?
still very childish -
hes scared u gona leave him...?
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your bf is the jealous typeOriginally posted by apple*:I feel that gals are more to attention seekers..how would u feel if your partner are who is the one wans attention from you? E.g. he is comparing and complaining that u sms/communicate whoever is more than him..or jus when both of you together, he dislike others to sms you..or in group with frnds he get jeaslous when others talk to you, meaning to says.."Your eyes are for him only"
Do you consider this as attention seeker? Will you consider that he is mainly only jealous? Or his is not confidence in himself?
Gals, How would u feel? Anyone experience this b4?
MCP is the type when he orders you must listern. If not he will scold you and scream at you.
He loves you thats why he does this things, if he does not love you, do you think he cares? -
This kind of relationship will not last long.Originally posted by apple*:I feel that gals are more to attention seekers..how would u feel if your partner are who is the one wans attention from you? E.g. he is comparing and complaining that u sms/communicate whoever is more than him..or jus when both of you together, he dislike others to sms you..or in group with frnds he get jeaslous when others talk to you, meaning to says.."Your eyes are for him only"
Do you consider this as attention seeker? Will you consider that he is mainly only jealous? Or his is not confidence in himself?
Gals, How would u feel? Anyone experience this b4?
You will feel suffocated.
You will no longer be happy.
You will want out.
For a guy like him, he will have a hard time letting go.
During break-ups... he will not let you go so easily. Be prepared for a very messy break-up.
He is a guy with big egos.... my suggestion is to let him break up with you. This way he will not come and keep pester you to patch up with him so that he can be the dumper instead of the dumpee. -
this shows that the other half is feel un-secure being around with you.Originally posted by apple*:I feel that gals are more to attention seekers..how would u feel if your partner are who is the one wans attention from you? E.g. he is comparing and complaining that u sms/communicate whoever is more than him..or jus when both of you together, he dislike others to sms you..or in group with frnds he get jeaslous when others talk to you, meaning to says.."Your eyes are for him only"
Do you consider this as attention seeker? Will you consider that he is mainly only jealous? Or his is not confidence in himself?
Gals, How would u feel? Anyone experience this b4?
worried that others might stand higher chance of winning your heart over..
my ex was always bothered by such issues before..
such problems are acts of selfishness..
back than i felt stressed up..having to report these and that to her..and she can check my hp ask me to tell her my secrets etc...but she refuse to tell me her secrets etc..
if your bf seeks attention, than give him/her a reasonable amount of attention, but not too much..leave some space for yourself, family members and your frens as well. -
oic..thanks...i understand to what u mean..so how is the relation getting on now? does it help/improve the situation like what u had advise me?Originally posted by the_fallen:this shows that the other half is feel un-secure being around with you.
worried that others might stand higher chance of winning your heart over..
my ex was always bothered by such issues before..
such problems are acts of selfishness..
back than i felt stressed up..having to report these and that to her..and she can check my hp ask me to tell her my secrets etc...but she refuse to tell me her secrets etc..
if your bf seeks attention, than give him/her a reasonable amount of attention, but not too much..leave some space for yourself, family members and your frens as well. -
like i mention, she's an ex..Originally posted by apple*:oic..thanks...i understand to what u mean..so how is the relation getting on now? does it help/improve the situation like what u had advise me?
if you cherish your bf, than speak to him and let him understand..
if he choose not to listen, it's best to leave him for good..
as when i meet up with her previously...it's always a 1-sided Q&A whereby she's asking, and me answering...thus the relationship can only go from bad to worse..primary reason - no communication (2-sided) and lack of knowing what the other party wants or expect from each other.
we have since stop seeing each other (due to her hiding and refusing to discuss about the problems), but still maintain as frens for chit-chat once in a while.
learn to cherish someone..often it's good to find such a partner who cherish you so much, but a good heart-to-heart talk will be good to address to the problem and the stress that you're getting from being with him..
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i very anger when read ur thread.. i feel like !@#%@#%#^!%#@% you, do you knw?
next life, i want to be a stone rather thn human with emotional
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he unsure or insecure in r/s? also must ask what is the cause...
you guys need to talk to strike a balance