Originally posted by Nikar2:
personally, for me, if a girl i like or my future gf is not a virgin never mind.
even if she got kid and is a single mom i also heck-care.
as long as i like her, i'm blind to everything else. she can be the next osama or hitler, don't care. if i like or love, can liao.
You can say that... but are you sure you really want to marry a woman like Osama and Hitler? You must be really blinded if you fail to even see what an evil woman she is! Love can never be found in an evil person - because true love is what the righteous cherishes, not the evil-doers! Even if you love her, she may not have that same amount of love to 'love you back'... it will be a one-way transmission. In a successful relationship, love has to work both ways, in a two-way transmission!
Love is not something where you can roll a dice to predict whether you will be with the person forever or not... Love needs development between two people, they may be friends at first, but slowly they become best friends and become closer and closer... getting to know more about one another before reaching the stage of getting together as a lovely couple...
My main point is: If you KNOW that she is the next Osama and Hitler, it will take a lot of love to really love and change the person around! Only love can make the unlovely lovely, and only love can change someone evil to someone good. The reason why Osama and Hitler are bad is because they lack the love to love others and are themselves unloved. However, it is very very hard to love people like them... but if you (Nikar2) does not mind loving and influencing someone evil into someone good, which costs you alot of energy, love and strength... then good luck to you!