need some help in helping a fren

• ifish

  29 Jul 07, 00:37

  my buddy and her gf recently fight..
  
  after hearing both side of the story, i realise that my buddy is in the wrong.. and he's backstab, betrayed, hurt her feeling alot
  
  but
  
  the gal still wants to be with him. she dont want to lose this r/s.
  
  i feel like telling the gal to leave him but, its against my conscious to break my buddy r/s..
  
  how ahh?
  
  to tell or not to tell? if other ppl i will have already say it to the gal but this one abiit hard for me to say la..
• magical_wen

  29 Jul 07, 00:38

  tell the truth.
• rathcycle

  29 Jul 07, 00:40

  Shun Qi Zi Ran
  in other words,
  let the girl do what she wants, and if the guy wants to patch, they will patch 1..
• BrUtUs

  29 Jul 07, 00:41

  Originally posted by ifish:

  my buddy and her gf recently fight..
  
  after hearing both side of the story, i realise that my buddy is in the wrong.. and he's backstab, betrayed, hurt her feeling alot
  
  but
  
  the gal still wants to be with him. she dont want to lose this r/s.
  
  i feel like telling the gal to leave him but, its against my conscious to break my buddy r/s..
  
  how ahh?
  
  to tell or not to tell? if other ppl i will have already say it to the gal but this one abiit hard for me to say la..

  she ah lian? the more u wan her to leave the more she wun... so jz show her how bad her bf is n let her choose...
• ifish

  29 Jul 07, 00:42

  seeing the gal holding on to a "it wont work r/s" very pitiful leh..
• pervertboi

  29 Jul 07, 00:42

  Originally posted by rathcycle:

  Shun Qi Zi Ran
  in other words,
  let the girl do what she wants, and if the guy wants to patch, they will patch 1..

  well said
• ifish

  29 Jul 07, 00:43

  Originally posted by BrUtUs:

  she ah lian? the more u wan her to leave the more she wun... so jz show her how bad her bf is n let her choose...

  actually she already seen her how bad the bf treat her..
  
  how bad my fren 2 time her..
  
  how bad she got abuse..
• rathcycle

  29 Jul 07, 00:46

  Originally posted by pervertboi:

  well said

  
  
  

  Originally posted by ifish:

  actually she already seen her how bad the bf treat her..
  
  how bad my fren 2 time her..
  
  how bad she got abuse..

  if the girl wants to patch, please dont break them up.
  its cruel.
• ifish

  29 Jul 07, 00:50

  ok la.. i think i mind my own business..
  
  but it's getting abit irritating being the middleman.. esp when i hardly know the gal..
  
  shall not tell them anything..
• rathcycle

  29 Jul 07, 01:13

  Originally posted by ifish:

  ok la.. i think i mind my own business..
  
  but it's getting abit irritating being the middleman.. esp when i hardly know the gal..
  
  shall not tell them anything..

  thats the right way.
  when the girl really want to break.. she will break de.
• icyboiz

  29 Jul 07, 01:16

  gan qing de shi let them handle themself
• bb_mm

  29 Jul 07, 01:31

  Originally posted by ifish:

  my buddy and her gf recently fight..
  
  after hearing both side of the story, i realise that my buddy is in the wrong.. and he's backstab, betrayed, hurt her feeling alot
  
  but
  
  the gal still wants to be with him. she dont want to lose this r/s.
  
  i feel like telling the gal to leave him but, its against my conscious to break my buddy r/s..
  
  how ahh?
  
  to tell or not to tell? if other ppl i will have already say it to the gal but this one abiit hard for me to say la..

  get out of it. dun bother. just lend them your ears can liaoz...
• WiNtEr'SkiLL

  29 Jul 07, 01:32

  tell him to do what he thinks is right
• BrUtUs

  29 Jul 07, 02:46

  Originally posted by ifish:

  actually she already seen her how bad the bf treat her..
  
  how bad my fren 2 time her..
  
  how bad she got abuse..

  if she already knew tis, then i must say she need to see doctor... cos tis is already mental problem...
• allentyb

  29 Jul 07, 03:26

  is the girl pretty?
  
  if pretty, give me her lumber, i help her to forget that guy
  
  if not pretty, look at the following sentence, i don't care
• ghimpheng

  29 Jul 07, 10:57

  http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=270476&page=2
  
  read last post
  
  your buddy betray her she still can forgive
  
  but when break already cry and whine or watever will come in
  
  tell her the truth man better than the guy break with her then she goes into depression
  
  if she still insist on being with him after you tell the truth
  
  let her be since u already did your part u can't do anything much since she is so stubborn
• RaTtY8l

  29 Jul 07, 11:01

  tell her the truth now, or u wanna wait til the trouble snowballed...
• spinsugar

  29 Jul 07, 14:18

  I'd tell the girl the truth, but I'd wanna be ...very... tactful.. with this one. You gotta put it to her in a fair, balanced way, without sounding like u're backstabbing ur fren. And if they get back together, u gotta be prepared to be snubbed.
• de_middle

  30 Jul 07, 10:29

  Originally posted by ifish:

  my buddy and her gf recently fight..
  
  after hearing both side of the story, i realise that my buddy is in the wrong.. and he's backstab, betrayed, hurt her feeling alot
  
  but
  
  the gal still wants to be with him. she dont want to lose this r/s.
  
  i feel like telling the gal to leave him but, its against my conscious to break my buddy r/s..
  
  how ahh?
  
  to tell or not to tell? if other ppl i will have already say it to the gal but this one abiit hard for me to say la..

  just be a listening ear, stay out of this. Dun say i didn't warn u
• ifish

  6 Aug 07, 15:40

  my ass got burn when my friend find out that i talking to his gf..
  
  lucky nvr ask them to break up..
• rathcycle

  6 Aug 07, 15:41

  Originally posted by ifish:

  my ass got burn when my friend find out that i talking to his gf..
  
  lucky nvr ask them to break up..

  told u dun disturb liao rite
• allentyb

  6 Aug 07, 15:42

  Originally posted by ifish:

  my ass got burn when my friend find out that i talking to his gf..
  
  lucky nvr ask them to break up..

  tell him the following lyrics
  
  i sleep with your girlfriend - it wasn't me
  i talk to your girlfriend - it wasn't me
  you just got owned by me - it wasn't me
• ifish

  6 Aug 07, 15:54

  Originally posted by rathcycle:

  told u dun disturb liao rite

  talk only ma.. and also half of the convo not about him..
  
  wrong meh talk to gal?
• rathcycle

  6 Aug 07, 15:54

  Originally posted by ifish:

  talk only ma.. and also half of the convo not about him..
  
  wrong meh talk to gal?

  ppl will jealous
• ifish

  6 Aug 07, 15:57

  Originally posted by rathcycle:

  ppl will jealous

  he jealous his problem la.. for not trusting his gf..