My boyfriend is Gay!
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I can't believe it. We have been in relationship for more than 2 years. I only discover that day when I ask to have sex with him. All those years, I feel like cheated! Is he using me to cover up his identity or what?
He said that he loves me very much, emotionally. He said that he has changed and will not involve in those relationship again. But he did not swear.
But I really love him. He has done so much things for me. What should I do? I very frustrated and confused!
Any suggestion?
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hw u know he gay? he told u ? hmm as long as u love him..n he love u .y mind he's a gay in the pasT?
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The world keeps changing
and so are the humans
give him a chance coz he mite have alrdy repented... -
Wah..he dual band sia..=x
Givache 
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Ommisexual
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Dun b sad...
does he hv a gay partner now?
If not, then not so bad....need to give him time -
yah..i tink this the best solution laio...TIME TIME TIMEOriginally posted by FoRsAkEn:Dun b sad...
does he hv a gay partner now?
If not, then not so bad....need to give him time Givache -
well, if u wanna noe a guy who is not a gay, dats me.
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poor thing...really...
anyways if u really love him i'm sure you will find ways (by yourself) to accept him. that is then called love. -
Homo
Straight . Possible.
Homo Straight Homo again. Also possible.
Time to ask yourself if your love for him is strong enough for you to forget his past. -
He could be bisexual though.
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...... Hmm... Caught ANY fish there...?Originally posted by Wes Brown: -
Try rapping him.If he's D*** can't stand, it's either he had just have a good time or there's no more hope for him.
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Give him some time..how do u know that he is gay??Originally posted by Cindy:I can't believe it. We have been in relationship for more than 2 years. I only discover that day when I ask to have sex with him. All those years, I feel like cheated! Is he using me to cover up his identity or what?
He said that he loves me very much, emotionally. He said that he has changed and will not involve in those relationship again. But he did not swear.
But I really love him. He has done so much things for me. What should I do? I very frustrated and confused!
Any suggestion?
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There are a lot of reasons why 1 wish to be a gay:
1) can escape NS.
2) Been rejected by gals too much
3) hormones factor
It may be a harsh reality to u...jiang shan yi gai, ben xing na ye..
Sexuality preference is not like bargaining for an item...gays are not easy to change it mentality.
I hav got 2 friends who are gay...they were my former schoolmates...they tried to change too...but failed miserably...till the gers almost commited sucide. They are not able to "mari kita" in front of gals...simply not interested at all.
U can still try to change him...some pple will not give up without a try...but b mentally prepared...if possible, let a psychitrist take a look at him...to c if he can change or not.
Frankly, I did cry over lost gf...now thinking of it...relationships are like tat...now i got a good gf, and stop looking into the past oredi.
Take care and come here to "talk" with us if u need more advice.
Good luck and best regards
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This past weekend I have also just found out my boyfriend of 1 year is gay. I am having a terrible time dealing with this. Not only do I love him very much and we talked about getting married I am pregnant and due to have his child in June. I have been looking for a support group in my area to help me deal with this and come to terms with it as I am totally going through the denial thing. I just can't believe that someone I love and loves me in return is gay. I have found on a few webpages that even tho a man is gay he may still want to have a girlfriend. This is not to cover up is sexual preference by because he can be physically attracted to women but have a preference to be with men. I am told it is common for a gay man to have very real and true feelings for a women and want to be with that women forever and that although he prefers men he may never be with a man in that way. This is helping me somewhat as my boyfriend tells me he doesn't want to be with anyone else and does truely love me and doesn't want to loose me because of this. I love him with all my heart and because of this I want to be there for him no matter how hurt and used and betrayed I feel. I keep trying to remind myself that this can't be easy for him either. Try to be strong for your boyfriend and in time I'm sure we will get through this and be better people for it, and if all else fails we will have one of the best friends anyone can ask for.
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Originally posted by Cindy:I can't believe it. We have been in relationship for more than 2 years. I only discover that day when I ask to have sex with him. All those years, I feel like cheated! Is he using me to cover up his identity or what?
He said that he loves me very much, emotionally. He said that he has changed and will not involve in those relationship again. But he did not swear.
But I really love him. He has done so much things for me. What should I do? I very frustrated and confused!
Any suggestion? Now this is something new. My heart goes with you. -
Originally posted by Givache:Wah..he dual band sia..=x Givache
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Do you know wad u should do? You should drug him, tie him up, and then suxually abuse him and rape him up the ass with a brromstick and a strap-on. Then, he'll be cured of his fag nasties.
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hi, sorry to hear that.. but i must say that ure really strong... so good that u are willing to stand by him.....he must be very happy and good also to derserve you as his gf...Originally posted by SparkleOne:This past weekend I have also just found out my boyfriend of 1 year is gay. I am having a terrible time dealing with this. Not only do I love him very much and we talked about getting married I am pregnant and due to have his child in June. I have been looking for a support group in my area to help me deal with this and come to terms with it as I am totally going through the denial thing. I just can't believe that someone I love and loves me in return is gay. I have found on a few webpages that even tho a man is gay he may still want to have a girlfriend. This is not to cover up is sexual preference by because he can be physically attracted to women but have a preference to be with men. I am told it is common for a gay man to have very real and true feelings for a women and want to be with that women forever and that although he prefers men he may never be with a man in that way. This is helping me somewhat as my boyfriend tells me he doesn't want to be with anyone else and does truely love me and doesn't want to loose me because of this. I love him with all my heart and because of this I want to be there for him no matter how hurt and used and betrayed I feel. I keep trying to remind myself that this can't be easy for him either. Try to be strong for your boyfriend and in time I'm sure we will get through this and be better people for it, and if all else fails we will have one of the best friends anyone can ask for. -
I have accepted him. He truely loves me and I truely love him. He said he has changed and has made the choice to live in the normal life. I believe nothing is impossible in this world. I gave him a chance to prove himself and the time will tell. Moreover, no one is perfect and will not make mistake in life. I asked him not to look into the past and just move forward. I won't bother about his past now because he also don't bother about my past. Guess that is what love is all about.
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i thought i had problems in my relationships but its nothing compared to yours....at least you have thought things through and are willing to take it step by step and give things a go!Originally posted by Cindy:I have accepted him. He truely loves me and I truely love him. He said he has changed and has made the choice to live in the normal life. I believe nothing is impossible in this world. I gave him a chance to prove himself and the time will tell. Moreover, no one is perfect and will not make mistake in life. I asked him not to look into the past and just move forward. I won't bother about his past now because he also don't bother about my past. Guess that is what love is all about.
All the best for the future
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all e best 2 yaOriginally posted by Cindy:I have accepted him. He truely loves me and I truely love him. He said he has changed and has made the choice to live in the normal life. I believe nothing is impossible in this world. I gave him a chance to prove himself and the time will tell. Moreover, no one is perfect and will not make mistake in life. I asked him not to look into the past and just move forward. I won't bother about his past now because he also don't bother about my past. Guess that is what love is all about. -
yes, if you love him, you must accept his past. gd luck.Originally posted by Cindy:I have accepted him. He truely loves me and I truely love him. He said he has changed and has made the choice to live in the normal life. I believe nothing is impossible in this world. I gave him a chance to prove himself and the time will tell. Moreover, no one is perfect and will not make mistake in life. I asked him not to look into the past and just move forward. I won't bother about his past now because he also don't bother about my past. Guess that is what love is all about.