does education matter in a relationship?
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Lately been study why some couples can stay long and some not, whether is $ or paper diff it all voice down to 8 character.
Some say horoscrope or character.
In 8 character(ba zhi), there r 5 element. Every1 belong to 1 of them.
Sometime u can't understand why u like that person or u hate that person.
It's beco both u and that person element attract or compel.
If u r metal, u will attract to water. But that water may not like u, cos only earth can control water. So water is earth wife......so on and so for.
In birth date, the day element is yrself.
Can refer to here.
http://www.fengshui-chinese.com/discuz/viewthread.php?tid=4069&extra=page%3D1
There r luck for every 5 yr and 10 yr. And inside this 5/10yr there r 2 element that may be the other partner is looking for, and after this 5/10 year yr luck change and the element change too. So he/she will leave u.
Many ppl tell me not to believe in all this, but if u had a strong instinct in identify the right person to love then u no need to see all these. -
Hahaha, I m not one who is afraid to swim against the flow. That actually makes you a stronger swimmer.Originally posted by jojobeach:o hope you will not try so hard to swim against the flow.
When you continue against those educated nincompoops, you will start to sound like a sour grape.
As for nincompoops, educated ones are inexplicable while uneducated ones are forgivable. I m not a sour grape, I already have many grapes! But I wanted vineyards not just grapes. -
actually i kinda believe in these. i felt there are greater forces out there governing us. sounds like a nutcase but i have seen it happenOriginally posted by T.Ryousuke:Lately been study why some couples can stay long and some not, whether is $ or paper diff it all voice down to 8 character.
Some say horoscrope or character.
In 8 character(ba zhi), there r 5 element. Every1 belong to 1 of them.
Sometime u can't understand why u like that person or u hate that person.
It's beco both u and that person element attract or compel.
If u r metal, u will attract to water. But that water may not like u, cos only earth can control water. So water is earth wife......so on and so for.
In birth date, the day element is yrself.
Can refer to here.
http://www.fengshui-chinese.com/discuz/viewthread.php?tid=4069&extra=page%3D1
There r luck for every 5 yr and 10 yr. And inside this 5/10yr there r 2 element that may be the other partner is looking for, and after this 5/10 year yr luck change and the element change too. So he/she will leave u.
Many ppl tell me not to believe in all this, but if u had a strong instinct in identify the right person to love then u no need to see all these. -
what doesnt kills u make u strongerOriginally posted by TheGoodEarth:Hahaha, I m not one who is afraid to swim against the flow. That actually makes you a stronger swimmer.
As for nincompoops, educated ones are inexplicable while uneducated ones are forgivable. I m not a sour grape, I already have many grapes! But I wanted vineyards not just grapes. -
Yes, there is nothing wrong with swimming against the currents.Originally posted by TheGoodEarth:Hahaha, I m not one who is afraid to swim against the flow. That actually makes you a stronger swimmer.
As for nincompoops, educated ones are inexplicable while uneducated ones are forgivable. I m not a sour grape, I already have many grapes! But I wanted vineyards not just grapes.
Although it will take you more effort to get to your destination this way.
Smart people uses the currents to their advantage.
If you want vineyards, then you must know how to maintain one.
Or else, it is nothing but a big piece of wasteland in your management -
My ex gf left me for a maple story guy fren a year ago. She was a uni grad and the guy had only PSLE cert. He claimed that he wanted to do a ITE course.
back then, i was devasted and questioned myself. In what ways am i inferior to that PSLE, low salaried, MAPLE freak guy.
Does education matter in a relationship ?
I dont't think it does.
Its the providence, security and amount of love you are willing to give that matters.
Back then i spend most of my time studying, doing research, trying to build up my carrer.
i neglected her back then. -
Now we know, why our parents keep insisting we focus on our studies and building our career first, BEFORE we go into a relationship.Originally posted by FireToad:My ex gf left me for a maple story guy fren a year ago. She was a uni grad and the guy had only PSLE cert. He claimed that he wanted to do a ITE course.
back then, i was devasted and questioned myself. In what ways am i inferior to that PSLE, low salaried, MAPLE freak guy.
Does education matter in a relationship ?
I dont't think it does.
Its the providence, security and amount of love you are willing to give that matters.
Back then i spend most of my time studying, doing research, trying to build up my carrer.
i neglected her back then.
Sometimes I hate to admit it, but they can be very annoyingly accurate. -
Originally posted by jojobeach:Yes, there is nothing wrong with swimming against the currents.
Although it will take you more effort to get to your destination this way.
You must be living in a cocoon. The real world is not plain sailing. A strong swimmer can go against the tide.
Smart people uses the currents to their advantage.
Smart people think they won't fall into rough waters.
If you want vineyards, then you must know how to maintain one.
Or else, it is nothing but a big piece of wasteland in your management.
Hmmm ... quite true. Need showers of love and spurts of fertiliser to bring the vine to fruition, preferably by more than a yard. -
If someone wanna to leave u, any reason she/he can give.Originally posted by casshern:actually i kinda believe in these. i felt there are greater forces out there governing us. sounds like a nutcase but i have seen it happen
The main thing is love no longer exist liao, so dun force.
So Casshern how's yr Altis? still driving? -
yeah i guess so. had already let it go liao.Originally posted by T.Ryousuke:If someone wanna to leave u, any reason she/he can give.
The main thing is love no longer exist liao, so dun force.
So Casshern how's yr Altis? still driving?
yup still driving around. doing good, however it had been sucking up alot of my cash.
but i guess i saved alot alot of time. my friends say its like using money to buy time. -
education really play a big role in the relationship when u getting older or more mature. Because ur thinking will change and there will be other factors affecting the relationship..
unless ur relationship or bond will the person is strong enough..