is love the most important thing in ur life?
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Some story-writing going on here...
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Don't you agree that to spell out all the negative factors now then later is good for a relationship between a rich gal and a poor boy. Have you ever consider the so call look down of the poor boy's parents by the rich gal ones?Originally posted by parn:Hopefully the rich girl is not the only child in the family, else she would be able to convince her parents to accept the relationship if she's independent of them. Of course if she's still dependent, the in-laws will be a really naughty bunch to skip.
But then if we keep adding in all the negative factors in the relationship, I think even snow white will eventually be raped by the seven dwarfs.
I don't think everyone would like to have a bad ending to their lives or relationship when they are already living in a bad movie of their lives.
So even snow white get what you guys used to call gang banged by the seven dwarfs, she still need to consider all negative factors in her love relationship in order to ensure that she gets married and live happily everafter.
One should know onself for what he/she is doing. Blind love do exist, and because of Blind love, divorce cases are on the rise. -
I would agree with you if it were many years ago, but I wouldn't agree with you now since I realised that spelling out all the negative factors doesn't necessary means things will work out fine in the end. Alot of people spent most of their time worrying about all the millions of negative factors in their life before they have the confidence to take the next step in their life.Originally posted by angel7030:Don't you agree that to spell out all the negative factors now then later is good for a relationship between a rich gal and a poor boy. Have you ever consider the so call look down of the poor boy's parents by the rich gal ones?
So even snow white get what you guys used to call gang banged by the seven dwarfs, she still need to consider all negative factors in her love relationship in order to ensure that she gets married and live happily everafter.
One should know onself for what he/she is doing. Blind love do exist, and because of Blind love, divorce cases are on the rise.
The reason that people do that is mainly because they do not have sufficient self-confidence in themselves. And whenever they focus too much on the negativity of their lives, it will stop them from progressing up in their lives. It's called Self-Sabotage.
It doesn't necessary means that the rich gal's parents will Definitely looked down on the boy's parents. There are always at least two possibilities in any situation. Maybe you're a pessimistic and that's why you often chose to view situations in a negative manner, but I'm sure you're also capable to view the situations in a positive manner too. It's a choice that you have to make within yourselves and how much hopes you have within you that you may share/inspire others in your life.
Ultimately, when the time comes...everyone is going to die eventually. But that doesn't means we have to stop breathing and miss the opportunity to lived a fulfilling life before we meet our negative end. Things in life will never transformed themselves positively to you, if they do...then you're blessed and should appreciate that moment into memories. It is YOU who must determine your resolve within yourselves that you are going to remove your own negative perspective and replace it with a positive perspective. Else, how do you plan to live out your life?
Love itself is already rare and doesn't comes around easily and often, so if you do find love in another girl and she loves you too. Don't you think you should dump all your negative forecast on your relationship and start telling yourself that you will make it through? If a guy does not have the courage to brave the weathers of a relationship with a girl, then isn't it an insult to the love and trust that she have placed on the guy? And if a girl is willing to bear the risks of giving birth in the future, what's the reason that the guy is behaving like a wimp?
Guys who focus too much on the negative areas of their own potential relationship are usually the ones that finds it most difficult to get into any relationship with the girl that they liked.
Maybe that's the reason why there are more single guys out there than divorce cases. -
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