i've one more problem in my r/s

• DjMatrix

  2 Aug 07, 23:07

  i realise i cant bring myself to have sex with my gf...i dont noe why but like i feel like i will hurt her and stuffs..however i dont haf such thinking last time when i go bonk at geylang..i dont know why leh...my gf leaving the country soon too..6 mths no see..but when we wan to do it, i jus canot bring myself to do it..
  
  why like dis ah?
• FireIce

  2 Aug 07, 23:09

  keep it up! (no pun intended)
  
  wait till wedding night lah
• DjMatrix

  2 Aug 07, 23:12

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  keep it up! (no pun intended)
  
  wait till wedding night lah

  only 18 leh lol wedding still long long long
• sEphIrOth

  2 Aug 07, 23:13

  just do it! if not,i help u do it!
  
  aiya she wan u give it to her la, if not u regret how? but responsibilities u take lor.
• bladez87

  2 Aug 07, 23:13

  u 18 yo go geylang? tmd your life too long? wanna shorten it ah
• Darkness_hacker99

  2 Aug 07, 23:14

  Go Hospital check for HIV and STDs first before you want to having sexually activities with your gf.
  
  Also, better do a finanacial plan earlier.
  
  Use condom if you don't want to commit. I don't want to see you post in AA "My gf is pregnant".
• DjMatrix

  2 Aug 07, 23:14

  Originally posted by sEphIrOth:

  just do it! if not,i help u do it!
  
  aiya she wan u give it to her la, if not u regret how? but responsibilities u take lor.

  the thing is like, i feel if i haf sex with her, its gonna hurt her or something..i dont wan like dis leh, plus i see porn the girl face scared scared if i see her like dis i will feel v fuc k up leh
• Xcert

  2 Aug 07, 23:15

  Originally posted by DjMatrix:

  last time when i go bonk at geylang..

  Originally posted by DjMatrix:

  only 18 leh lol wedding still long long long

  only 18 go bonk at Geylang already leh...mai geh geh lar...
• FireIce

  2 Aug 07, 23:15

  since u not ready then dun want lah
  why have to force urself
  nobardie will call u a loser
• sEphIrOth

  2 Aug 07, 23:18

  if u so scared and really cannot, then eliminate all thoughts, since sex comes with responsibilities and repercussions, so dont do it, dont bonk anyone, play with urself. simple.
• DjMatrix

  2 Aug 07, 23:19

  its like totally normal right? nth wrong with me right? man for a fuc king moment i thought i was gay
  
  geylang is try try lah..1st time for everything ma
• WiNtEr'SkiLL

  2 Aug 07, 23:21

  nah nothing wrong with u.. u are nice guy
• Xcert

  2 Aug 07, 23:21

  Originally posted by DjMatrix:

  its like totally normal right? nth wrong with me right? man for a fuc king moment i thought i was gay
  
  geylang is try try lah..1st time for everything ma

  this excuse is so cannot make it lor...
  
  anyway for the sake of everybody physically involved...go do a blood test for STD/HIV.
• DjMatrix

  2 Aug 07, 23:23

  Originally posted by Xcert:

  this excuse is so cannot make it lor...
  
  anyway for the sake of everybody physically involved...go do a blood test for STD/HIV.

  i only go once den hum liao go poly clinic check up..anyway thanks for the help
• de_middle

  3 Aug 07, 08:48

  good......leave it that way
• ghimpheng

  3 Aug 07, 09:21

  Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:

  Go Hospital check for HIV and STDs first before you want to having sexually activities with your gf.
  
  Also, better do a finanacial plan earlier.
  
  Use condom if you don't want to commit. I don't want to see you post in AA "My gf is pregnant".

  you plan very far ahead of the present
• angel7030

  3 Aug 07, 11:56

  Originally posted by ghimpheng:

  you plan very far ahead of the present

  Ya, agreed, by that time, stand down already, me as a gal also go home liao.
• bigmouthjoe

  3 Aug 07, 12:04

  Doesn't mean that you need to have sex when you are in a relationship with a girl. It's something both should be comfortable with.
• jondizzle foshizzle

  3 Aug 07, 12:27

  just do it. if she's a virgin it might hurt a little but just go easy and gentle.