Bullies
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Greetings ..
Well things isn't going well ... these few days ..
I am here to seek for advise ..
What if .. :
Your classmate , which is fat and "like to bully" people type. He tends to joke alot and sometimes giving facetious remarks .. during class . He is those type of "not scare" of teachers ..
If you happen to "fight" with him .. He seems to be "losing" .. and he started calling you names : "Gay" , "prositute"(sp) , idiot .. etc etc .
What will you do ?
Remember : You are not those type of "love to fight" people , you are respected by most of your classmates because of your good results and so on ..
You told him : Leave me alone , your negative comments will not affect me and i won't be bother about it . You can say bad things about me , i won't bother much about it ..
One thing about him is : He love calling people "Extra"
What will you do ? Ignore him for life or what ?
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Your friend told you that : "I will call the seniors the beat him up" ..
Do you think I should call the seniors to beat this pest up >? Or forgive and forget ? -
in ur case, just will ignore him.
he will get tired after many no-response.
personally, i will attack him back with words. do wad he did to u. just dun fight. -
Teachers are paid $2500 to $8000 per monthOriginally posted by MrSotong:Greetings ..
Well things isn't going well ... these few days ..
I am here to seek for advise ..
What if .. :
Your classmate , which is fat and "like to bully" people type. He tends to joke alot and sometimes giving facetious remarks .. during class . He is those type of "not scare" of teachers ..
If you happen to "fight" with him .. He seems to be "losing" .. and he started calling you names : "Gay" , "prositute"(sp) , idiot .. etc etc .
What will you do ?
Remember : You are not those type of "love to fight" people , you are respected by most of your classmates because of your good results and so on ..
You told him : Leave me alone , your negative comments will not affect me and i won't be bother about it . You can say bad things about me , i won't bother much about it ..
One thing about him is : He love calling people "Extra"
What will you do ? Ignore him for life or what ?
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Your friend told you that : "I will call the seniors the beat him up" ..
Do you think I should call the seniors to beat this pest up >? Or forgive and forget ?
Principles are paid 10000 to 20000 per month
Headmasters are paid an extra $500 allowance
This years teachers bonuses is going to be 3 months +++
What are they doing?
Please approach them if you have any problem in school, if not they will just shake legs and chit chatting in the net. Give them some job ya -
teachers and principals are useless when coming to settle bullying. Why i know that because i ask for their help before.
In my case its the vice principal. he dun care to hear the whole story just call both of us to shake hand and then go to the discipline master office to receive punishment which is to pick rubbish. Who wack me first, who suffer the bruises and please i did not retaliate at all n in the end i got punish too. F
The teacher prefer to ignore what the hell is going on until i cried. Even when i cried she just ask what happen say stop throwing things at him and then continue on which the lesson while the boys keep throwing things at me.
Okay these happen like 10yrs ago in primary school so the system might chg i do not know. -
heck care to avoid trouble,,,,
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how many sotong are there in SGF
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like kids. -
Dunno, some become cuttlefish liao.Originally posted by de_middle:how many sotong are there in SGF -
bingo. they are totally useless because most of the time they'll bo chup. make you shake the bully's hand and be friends etc. then tml get bullied again lol.Originally posted by NewAge:teachers and principals are useless when coming to settle bullying. Why i know that because i ask for their help before.
In my case its the vice principal. he dun care to hear the whole story just call both of us to shake hand and then go to the discipline master office to receive punishment which is to pick rubbish. Who wack me first, who suffer the bruises and please i did not retaliate at all n in the end i got punish too. F
The teacher prefer to ignore what the hell is going on until i cried. Even when i cried she just ask what happen say stop throwing things at him and then continue on which the lesson while the boys keep throwing things at me.
Okay these happen like 10yrs ago in primary school so the system might chg i do not know. -
around 3Originally posted by de_middle:how many sotong are there in SGF -
as long as he don't get physical is okay
try not to answer his negative comments
share with the teacher if u need this kind of negative comments everyday can affect you -
There was once a bully in school who used to pick on me, but after I found out we shared the same interest after I bumped into him at Serene Center, we became fast friends.
Ah... the good old days. -
Any sacastic remarks ??
Well he probably use the same "style" ..
Just can't stand this fatting smelly pig ..
BTW ... he is sitting beside me :S
Physical > Sometimes .. maybe . ?
Yes , school teachers SUCKS ..
They don't take any actions even the person or whomever scolded Chicken word or whatsoever . .
Arrrgghhh .. .. just don't go to any of those neighbourhood school .. maybe ? -
I had a Ex Classmate who was damm beng and kept using his threats to Disturb us...
During that time he had a badd record in school... so that time we Signed a petition and the Monitor signed as a eye witness....
By using that petition we kicked him out of the school -
hes sitting beside u!!! Just pray to chg seats then.Originally posted by MrSotong:Any sacastic remarks ??
Yes , school teachers SUCKS ..
They don't take any actions even the person or whomever scolded Chicken word or whatsoever . .
Arrrgghhh .. .. just don't go to any of those neighbourhood school .. maybe ?
Teachers are not actually useless. u need to push them in a corner to to make them act. To do that the key is exaggerate and scheme.
From my exp u need to let the bully know u are no pushover. This does not mean that u shld get into squabble with him. U need act tough n hack care at the same time. Ai yah very hard to put in words.
Haii another way is to understand the root cause of his actions. To do this u must be either very lucky (caught him at his weakest moments in life like when he is crying) or capable enough to crack the nut -
Each time he passes some sarcastic remarks at you, just look at him in the eye, slightly shake your head and grin slightly.
Stand tall, stand proud. Wear a smile, and let them wonder why you're smiling.
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Sorry, like this they may send you to IMH.Originally posted by binarynwitz:Each time he passes some sarcastic remarks at you, just look at him in the eye, slightly shake your head and grin slightly.
Stand tall, stand proud. Wear a smile, and let them wonder why you're smiling. -
just say one phrase : jiak buay tuah (juvenile)...
word -
heck care.
sooner or later he will lose interest in u. -
do stuffs that will irritate him yet he wont know who is the culprit XD put pins on his chair! glue his books! vandalise his table! draw stupid stuffs on his books! hide his chair!!!!!!!
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These kind of people.
In a long term run, people will start to ignore him.
Then he will be the real loser in life liao. -
you know har.. got 1 real life story.
this kid always kena bully. so he go see his pe teacher ask for help la. his pe teacher bring him gym. the kid train long long. later on, his body is not those king kong type got much bigger from lastime frail and skinny. the bully dun dare disturb oreadi even though the kid never threaten to whack the bully.
moral: go gym? use visual intimidation? and remember fats =/= strength. -
The 'hack care' system has tried to change but never successful.Originally posted by NewAge:teachers and principals are useless when coming to settle bullying. Why i know that because i ask for their help before.
In my case its the vice principal. he dun care to hear the whole story just call both of us to shake hand and then go to the discipline master office to receive punishment which is to pick rubbish. Who wack me first, who suffer the bruises and please i did not retaliate at all n in the end i got punish too. F
The teacher prefer to ignore what the hell is going on until i cried. Even when i cried she just ask what happen say stop throwing things at him and then continue on which the lesson while the boys keep throwing things at me.
Okay these happen like 10yrs ago in primary school so the system might chg i do not know. -
since hes fat laugh at his tits?
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Play sabotage game with him.!Try put super glue on his chair or something like that..If you cant win a person physically challenge him mentally.!Gambatte neh!If cannot report to ur DM if no action taken threaten you go to principal and then MOE.!Originally posted by MrSotong:Greetings ..
Well things isn't going well ... these few days ..
I am here to seek for advise ..
What if .. :
Your classmate , which is fat and "like to bully" people type. He tends to joke alot and sometimes giving facetious remarks .. during class . He is those type of "not scare" of teachers ..
If you happen to "fight" with him .. He seems to be "losing" .. and he started calling you names : "Gay" , "prositute"(sp) , idiot .. etc etc .
What will you do ?
Remember : You are not those type of "love to fight" people , you are respected by most of your classmates because of your good results and so on ..
You told him : Leave me alone , your negative comments will not affect me and i won't be bother about it . You can say bad things about me , i won't bother much about it ..
One thing about him is : He love calling people "Extra"
What will you do ? Ignore him for life or what ?
______________________________________________________________
Your friend told you that : "I will call the seniors the beat him up" ..
Do you think I should call the seniors to beat this pest up >? Or forgive and forget ?