Envy or Jealousy?
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Sometimes I would feel slightly upset and lonely when I hear my friends going for outings together with another clique of their friends. I dont know if it's envy or jealousy. It's like someone you regard as a close friend being closer to their other friends instead. Is this normal? Anyone experience similar feelings?
Nothing to do with bgr, just pure friends. -
Its normal
Dont brood too much over it.
I am sure everyone has experience the same feeling before.
Including your friends.
Cheers
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its more of envy bah..
but learn to look at the bright side of it.
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pretty normal ba.. happens to everyone
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oops sorry
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what's the bright side?Originally posted by magical_wen:its more of envy bah..
but learn to look at the bright side of it. 
cant seem to see it. it's like i place them no.1 and they place me no.2. there's still basic friendship but i think it could hardly progress further. -
Jealousy.Originally posted by hegu:Sometimes I would feel slightly upset and lonely when I hear my friends going for outings together with another clique of their friends. I dont know if it's envy or jealousy. It's like someone you regard as a close friend being closer to their other friends instead. Is this normal? Anyone experience similar feelings?
Nothing to do with bgr, just pure friends. -
u nid a life man.Originally posted by hegu:what's the bright side? cant seem to see it. it's like i place them no.1 and they place me no.2. there's still basic friendship but i think it could hardly progress further.
when u have a life,
frens come naturally.
do things to make urself happi -
bullying coolgal makes me happyOriginally posted by magical_wen:u nid a life man.
when u have a life,
frens come naturally.
do things to make urself happi -
u need to know more friends...Originally posted by hegu:Sometimes I would feel slightly upset and lonely when I hear my friends going for outings together with another clique of their friends. I dont know if it's envy or jealousy. It's like someone you regard as a close friend being closer to their other friends instead. Is this normal? Anyone experience similar feelings?
Nothing to do with bgr, just pure friends.
its just that your activities mainly revolve around your close frens..
try to get to know more friends..
the more the merrier...
but close friends whom u can trust with secrets can be only a few..
best of luck in knowing more frens -
yes.
if u si bei sad de hua,
i can oso be ur fren -
lets be frens.. pm meOriginally posted by magical_wen:yes.
if u si bei sad de hua,
i can oso be ur fren -
jealousy
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dont put anything no. 1 in ur heart unless ur 100% sure it will reap u good things.
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It may be both jealous and envy...
You may be jealous that your friends has other friends and at the same time envy that you don't have so much friends... -
I will say it is useless to depend on friendship for accompany. U cannot expect too much from yr friend.
Pit yr hope on yr future partner. But if u find a gf /bf who cares friend more than u. Then u find the wrong one! -
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Both jealousy and envy come from the same source: craving and clinging. You crave for your friend's company. And you cling to your friend, not letting go.
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will be even worse when ur into a relationshipOriginally posted by hegu:what's the bright side? cant seem to see it. it's like i place them no.1 and they place me no.2. there's still basic friendship but i think it could hardly progress further.
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Yo, if you dun have emotion of jealous and envy, you not human liao.Originally posted by hegu:Sometimes I would feel slightly upset and lonely when I hear my friends going for outings together with another clique of their friends. I dont know if it's envy or jealousy. It's like someone you regard as a close friend being closer to their other friends instead. Is this normal? Anyone experience similar feelings?
Nothing to do with bgr, just pure friends.
It normal, just dun overly do it. Be cool and logical in your approach to your daily life, instead of getting envy or jealous, wish them all the best and hope they enjoy it, sooner or later you will have gd friends asking you out, because they knew you are a nice and open minded person.
As a girl like me, handsome is one thing, but the openness and good thinking of a boy or man is very important too. -
u bo kan buey tua han ah..?!?!Originally posted by Omniknight:bullying coolgal makes me happy
u think i care??
siao, u r just another small and abnormal sicko kid to me.