Failed marriage proposal
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Guys: Have you ever propose to your gf to marry you and than she reject you?
Whats the reason(s) that she reject you?
What do you do after she reject you? -
Why should anyone reply to your question?
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Since nobody is willing to share....I can share a bit of mine.
I rejected a guy's proposal before....the reason that I gave him?
"You're not good enough for me...
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And what did he do after I rejected him, he raped me in his car...
And I told him "Now I'm not good enough for you... "
Think I made him felt really upset and guilty cos he cried heavily...
Anyway, he sent me home and we didn't see each other since. -
WTF OMFG !Originally posted by parn:Since nobody is willing to share....I can share a bit of mine.
I rejected a guy's proposal before....the reason that I gave him?
"You're not good enough for me... "
And what did he do after I rejected him, he raped me in his car...
And I told him "Now I'm not good enough for you... "
Think I made him felt really upset and guilty cos he cried heavily...
Anyway, he sent me home and we didn't see each other since.
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*passes salt shaker around .... -
You actually believed that crap?Originally posted by rathcycle:WTF OMFG ! 
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i would rather believe her than to believe youOriginally posted by constancebay:You actually believed that crap? -
1st of all, why can't TS just open the car door and walk/run away?Originally posted by parn:Since nobody is willing to share....I can share a bit of mine.
I rejected a guy's proposal before....the reason that I gave him?
"You're not good enough for me... "
And what did he do after I rejected him, he raped me in his car...
And I told him "Now I'm not good enough for you... "
Think I made him felt really upset and guilty cos he cried heavily...
Anyway, he sent me home and we didn't see each other since.
I have a bigger problem with this... The underlying the sentiments expressed here is that a "person" that an idiot rapes, the victim, becomes "not good enough"....
This type of sentiments make me want to scold 4 letters words. -
For me, I hv no say, because I as a gal alway get reject and sometime ejected by my numerous bf.Originally posted by constancebay:Guys: Have you ever propose to your gf to marry you and than she reject you?
Whats the reason(s) that she reject you?
What do you do after she reject you?
However, I believe when a guy or a gal reject your proposal, he or she is giving you the right and truthful answer, respect that rejection with pride.
Reason being, it is not you are no good or bad, it just that he/she find that both of you cannot click well, that he/she cannot go on with you for rest of the life. So, in fact, rejection is better, so that rather to have long period of wondering and pondering, at least you get the true out of it, it may hurt in someway, but it better be hurt down than later.
Finally after being rejected, you should feel released, now you can plan your life better and move on. As for him/her, take it as a friend. We must adapt to an open mind concept toward love. It is essential to control one emotion in term of love, dun look down yourself just because someone rejected you, perhap it is a blessing in disguise that someone out there is much better and more beautiful and waiting for you to appear to hold his/her hands.
Learn to take rejection as you learn to accept. -
I was rejected once by a girl three years younger than me.
She didnt give me a reason.. was it because she thinks I am a playboy or perhaps it was because I went out with her elder sister before.
Then again, we went out together 5 days later after the rejection.
That was weird. -
Originally posted by parn:Since nobody is willing to share....I can share a bit of mine.
I rejected a guy's proposal before....the reason that I gave him?
"You're not good enough for me... "
And what did he do after I rejected him, he raped me in his car...
And I told him "Now I'm not good enough for you... "
Think I made him felt really upset and guilty cos he cried heavily...
Anyway, he sent me home and we didn't see each other since.
That's like 24 strokes of cane, wasn't it? -
Need to clarify abit, TS is me not Parn.Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:1st of all, why can't TS just open the car door and walk/run away?
I have a bigger problem with this... The underlying the sentiments expressed here is that a "person" that an idiot rapes, the victim, becomes "not good enough"....
This type of sentiments make me want to scold 4 letters words.
It is Parn who wrote that she got rape, not me.
You raised a very good point. But of course, this is a weird world that we are living in so that explains why there will be some morons like rathcycle who will chose to believe her -
Not suprising to me that you always get rejected by guys.Originally posted by angel7030:For me, I hv no say, because I as a gal alway get reject and sometime ejected by my numerous bf.
With your this type of materialistic attitute, it is no suprise that you get rejected by numerous bf.Originally posted by angel7030:Huh! be gentleman mah, of course guy paid lah, me just wait to chop chop and chop carrots. No money, stay home eat instant noodle lah, want pretty gf, of course must pay some upfront fees (downpayment) mah. -
doesn't sound like stable love to meOriginally posted by euc:I was rejected once by a girl three years younger than me.
She didnt give me a reason.. was it because she thinks I am a playboy or perhaps it was because I went out with her elder sister before.
Then again, we went out together 5 days later after the rejection.
That was weird. -
I believe that is the hardest shit you gonna face... if she turned down your proposal, it means she dun have confidence in you or herself.... but dun rush yourself because your first proposal failed... coz it also give you more time to observe her .... she might left you after that... coz she is afraid of marriage...
Strange thing do happened... -
Well..you can't rape the willing .
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Welcome to the real world dude.Originally posted by constancebay:With your this type of materialistic attitute, it is no suprise that you get rejected by numerous bf. -
I wish you all rtards guys got sisters/gfs and when this kind of things happened to them, maybe they can tell you why they are not able to open the car door.Originally posted by constancebay:Need to clarify abit, TS is me not Parn.
It is Parn who wrote that she got rape, not me.
You raised a very good point. But of course, this is a weird world that we are living in so that explains why there will be some morons like rathcycle who will chose to believe her
Go and die rtards. -
Originally posted by rathcycle:i would rather believe her than to believe you
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who the heck says anything about love?Originally posted by ghast.:doesn't sound like stable love to me -
I did hear of stories of my friend rejecting her future husband's proposal like twice (ie third time accepted). So think what's important is the reason behind the rejection and whether the gal still wanna spend time with u. If the reasone is no cure type = than why spend more time
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success is mother of all failure
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seriously agree with u on this.Originally posted by constancebay:With your this type of materialistic attitute, it is no suprise that you get rejected by numerous bf.
and jus wondering how many idiots get cheated by u.
and u think yourself pretty? -
Ok.Originally posted by angel7030:For me, I hv no say, because I as a gal alway get reject and sometime ejected by my numerous bf.
However, I believe when a guy or a gal reject your proposal, he or she is giving you the right and truthful answer, respect that rejection with pride.
Reason being, it is not you are no good or bad, it just that he/she find that both of you cannot click well, that he/she cannot go on with you for rest of the life. So, in fact, rejection is better, so that rather to have long period of wondering and pondering, at least you get the true out of it, it may hurt in someway, but it better be hurt down than later.
Finally after being rejected, you should feel released, now you can plan your life better and move on. As for him/her, take it as a friend. We must adapt to an open mind concept toward love. It is essential to control one emotion in term of love, dun look down yourself just because someone rejected you, perhap it is a blessing in disguise that someone out there is much better and more beautiful and waiting for you to appear to hold his/her hands.
Learn to take rejection as you learn to accept.
I cant help but laugh.
What the fuck is this? -
Sensitive question and issue leh! Rejection is something not superficial it will take time for one to get over.