don't allow others opinions to be yourself. period.Originally posted by N|ck:Don't really like it cause I think it's wearing me down, suffering mood swings and feeling like shit at random times, like during work.
More often than not, it's usually cause I make a mistake, and it's usually minor. Also, I particularly hate it when friends put me down. I guess I am a little sensitive here, but sometimes my friends' words just cross the line of teasing(to me) and it becomes a put down.
I tell myself to chill out, not to be hard on myself, I ain't perfect, don't let myself live by the approval of others, but it overwhelms me sometimes. What do you all think?
for eg i didnt knew so much stuffs about somebody...Originally posted by N|ck:erm...okay
U seemed like the Type A sort. Perfectionist, go-getter kinda person. These people are usually the ones that give themselves a lot of pressure. I should know because I am one too.Originally posted by N|ck:Don't really like it cause I think it's wearing me down, suffering mood swings and feeling like shit at random times, like during work.
More often than not, it's usually cause I make a mistake, and it's usually minor. Also, I particularly hate it when friends put me down. I guess I am a little sensitive here, but sometimes my friends' words just cross the line of teasing(to me) and it becomes a put down.
I tell myself to chill out, not to be hard on myself, I ain't perfect, don't let myself live by the approval of others, but it overwhelms me sometimes. What do you all think?
Dun worry, such feeling will come and go once a month, you will get use to it.Originally posted by N|ck:Don't really like it cause I think it's wearing me down, suffering mood swings and feeling like shit at random times, like during work.
More often than not, it's usually cause I make a mistake, and it's usually minor. Also, I particularly hate it when friends put me down. I guess I am a little sensitive here, but sometimes my friends' words just cross the line of teasing(to me) and it becomes a put down.
I tell myself to chill out, not to be hard on myself, I ain't perfect, don't let myself live by the approval of others, but it overwhelms me sometimes. What do you all think?
Why do you need to live by the approval of others? Is it because you're not confident in your own righteousness?Originally posted by N|ck:Don't really like it cause I think it's wearing me down, suffering mood swings and feeling like shit at random times, like during work.
More often than not, it's usually cause I make a mistake, and it's usually minor. Also, I particularly hate it when friends put me down. I guess I am a little sensitive here, but sometimes my friends' words just cross the line of teasing(to me) and it becomes a put down.
I tell myself to chill out, not to be hard on myself, I ain't perfect, don't let myself live by the approval of others, but it overwhelms me sometimes. What do you all think?
Never saw it this way before, thanks. Well the thing is I know I am an angry person, and when my friends piss me off I feel as if I need to see them suffer and get a taste of their own medicine before I feel alright again. I know I can control however. In the heat of the moment I will always do what's right and not go into a rage and hurt others, never been in a fight before in my life infact. So yeah, I find myself always taking it in, hence letting them "win". The way I see it, it's like yeah I know I am better than them in being sensitive to others' feelings, but end of the day I am the one going home to feel like shit when they are like hahaha look at me I am so cool.Originally posted by parn:Everyone hates it whenever anyone tries to put them down, however you are also gifted with a mouth and a voice and a brain controlling them all. Do retaliate back by laughing back at them straight in their face for being being so childish picking on other people's minor mistakes.
I think u are stressed out. Read here on how to cool down..Originally posted by N|ck:Don't really like it cause I think it's wearing me down, suffering mood swings and feeling like shit at random times, like during work.
More often than not, it's usually cause I make a mistake, and it's usually minor. Also, I particularly hate it when friends put me down. I guess I am a little sensitive here, but sometimes my friends' words just cross the line of teasing(to me) and it becomes a put down.
I tell myself to chill out, not to be hard on myself, I ain't perfect, don't let myself live by the approval of others, but it overwhelms me sometimes. What do you all think?
You advertising?Originally posted by selfobliged:I think u are stressed out. Read here on how to cool down..
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Take care..
i have learnt that i can never stop others from passing remarks or even judgements. hope u learn tooOriginally posted by N|ck:Don't really like it cause I think it's wearing me down, suffering mood swings and feeling like shit at random times, like during work.
More often than not, it's usually cause I make a mistake, and it's usually minor. Also, I particularly hate it when friends put me down. I guess I am a little sensitive here, but sometimes my friends' words just cross the line of teasing(to me) and it becomes a put down.
I tell myself to chill out, not to be hard on myself, I ain't perfect, don't let myself live by the approval of others, but it overwhelms me sometimes. What do you all think?