Jealousy or Envy?

• photo_seeker

  12 Aug 07, 18:31

  Well, it's another topic related to BGR again.
  
  I came to know this girl through my friend last year after my break-up with my then girl-friend. We started SMSing each others and got rather close together Eventually, I liked her and we go out almost everyday and stuffs.
  
  However, recently I told her that I liked her but was rejected. Though we never totally stopped smsing and meeting up, we seems to be drifting apart. Despite the chat we have over msn / sms, it seems that it's getting awkward.
  
  Recently I started going out with my other female friends instead. And, few weeks back, she started going out with this guy whom she know. If I'm not mistaken, it's her Primary School Friend. When I was with my other female friend, she will somehow tease me over SMS and stuffs. However, when she's with her male friend, I somehow missed being with her and stuffs.
  
  I don't know if it's jealousy or envy. Can someone please advise?
• DjMatrix

  13 Aug 07, 04:40

  have u tried raping her?
• rathcycle

  13 Aug 07, 04:46

  Originally posted by DjMatrix:

  have u tried raping her?

  
• jojobeach

  13 Aug 07, 06:50

  Originally posted by DjMatrix:

  have u tried raping her?

  Eh, don't any how play play this kind of joke.
  
  If that guy really go and rape the girl.
  
  You can be implicated as the mastermind and go to jail.
• DailyFreeGames.com

  13 Aug 07, 07:56

  Originally posted by photo_seeker:

  Well, it's another topic related to BGR again.
  
  I came to know this girl through my friend last year after my break-up with my then girl-friend. We started SMSing each others and got rather close together Eventually, I liked her and we go out almost everyday and stuffs.
  
  However, recently I told her that I liked her but was rejected. Though we never totally stopped smsing and meeting up, we seems to be drifting apart. Despite the chat we have over msn / sms, it seems that it's getting awkward.
  
  Recently I started going out with my other female friends instead. And, few weeks back, she started going out with this guy whom she know. If I'm not mistaken, it's her Primary School Friend. When I was with my other female friend, she will somehow tease me over SMS and stuffs. However, when she's with her male friend, I somehow missed being with her and stuffs.
  
  I don't know if it's jealousy or envy. Can someone please advise?

  I thinnk if the girl wanna stop sms you or meet you, then don't bother lah, forcing a relationship is unlikely to work lah... If she really likes you, even got something on, she will find time for you one lor... Singapore so many girls, pretty or cute or busty, take ur pick. Dun die die hang on to one tree.
• de_middle

  13 Aug 07, 10:07

  Originally posted by photo_seeker:

  Well, it's another topic related to BGR again.
  
  I came to know this girl through my friend last year after my break-up with my then girl-friend. We started SMSing each others and got rather close together Eventually, I liked her and we go out almost everyday and stuffs.
  
  However, recently I told her that I liked her but was rejected. Though we never totally stopped smsing and meeting up, we seems to be drifting apart. Despite the chat we have over msn / sms, it seems that it's getting awkward.
  
  Recently I started going out with my other female friends instead. And, few weeks back, she started going out with this guy whom she know. If I'm not mistaken, it's her Primary School Friend. When I was with my other female friend, she will somehow tease me over SMS and stuffs. However, when she's with her male friend, I somehow missed being with her and stuffs.
  
  I don't know if it's jealousy or envy. Can someone please advise?

  she has already rejected you, take it with a pinch of salt & move on. she is probably the one who could be feeling jealous now
• photo_seeker

  13 Aug 07, 10:30

  Originally posted by DjMatrix:

  have u tried raping her?

  I wonder if you're a Last Class genius or First Class Nuts. Is your brain for display purposes only? I wonders.
• cApitaland

  13 Aug 07, 10:35

  Originally posted by DjMatrix:

  have u tried raping her?

  AA can have this kind of comments meh?
  
  TS, jus move on and forget abt her.
• kiseki

  13 Aug 07, 10:44

  you know , she could be jealous . lol .
  sometimes girls use teasing as a form of finding more about the relationship between you and that girl .. so she may be trying that .
  
  but if she rejected you outright , then .. move on and forget about her .
• angel7030

  13 Aug 07, 11:01

  Originally posted by jojobeach:

  Eh, don't any how play play this kind of joke.
  
  If that guy really go and rape the girl.
  
  You can be implicated as the mastermind and go to jail.

  Yo, i dun think this is a joke, he got his point too, who knows, this poster may harbour such thinking, that is why he keep changing gf, very unstable and not steady.
• ChairmanJay

  14 Aug 07, 10:50

  are u rich?
• Zarks

  14 Aug 07, 12:18

  Originally posted by DailyFreeGames.com:

  I thinnk if the girl wanna stop sms you or meet you, then don't bother lah, forcing a relationship is unlikely to work lah... If she really likes you, even got something on, she will find time for you one lor... Singapore so many girls, pretty or cute or busty, take ur pick. Dun die die hang on to one tree.

  Yep , true.. theres so many gal outside.. she rejected you means its her loss. Or mayb, she rejected you cuz you;re not rich ! ahaha...
  
  Sigh. gals now all see $$ only la..
  
  Ask any gal who wan to be together with handsome pretty boy with Salary lower than $1000.. try n see.. u will get 10/10 answer they dun wan ! lol..
  
  $$ is everything for gals.. sigh... im poor .. tats y i dun hav gal now...
• de_middle

  14 Aug 07, 12:28

  Originally posted by photo_seeker:

  I wonder if you're a Last Class genius or First Class Nuts. Is your brain for display purposes only? I wonders.

  just ignore......wonder where the mods are?
  
  Hey pika, i remembered you reminded be that this was AA due to some comments i made in AA which i thought ur reminder was pretty LAME.... now take a good look at DjMatrix's comments will ya
• comberbache

  14 Aug 07, 16:06

  here's a truism. it's harsh, but its the truth:
  
  There are only TWO outcomes to any relationship:
  
  1) you will eventually marry
  
  OR
  
  2) you will break up.
  
  So don't fret yourself so much about this girl, seriously. (unless of course, you were prepared to propose to her, which i doubt).
  
  some feelings of hurt, anger, and jealously are normal. after all, you wanted to be with her but she rejected you. give yourself time to heal, and hang out with other friends who you weren't able to meet so often when u were busy chasing after her. do NOT try to find a gf too soon, but give yourself time.
  
  
• RsSDumbSteR

  14 Aug 07, 21:30

  Originally posted by comberbache:

  here's a truism. it's harsh, but its the truth:
  
  There are only TWO outcomes to any relationship:
  
  1) you will eventually marry
  
  OR
  
  2) you will break up.
  
  So don't fret yourself so much about this girl, seriously. (unless of course, you were prepared to propose to her, which i doubt).
  
  some feelings of hurt, anger, and jealously are normal. after all, you wanted to be with her but she rejected you. give yourself time to heal, and hang out with other friends who you weren't able to meet so often when u were busy chasing after her. do NOT try to find a gf too soon, but give yourself time.
  
  

  Agree.
  
  You either marry and die.
  Or you break up and hang yourself.
  Either way, you still die.
• browniebaobao

  14 Aug 07, 22:10

  i think it's only natural ba..
  
  if there's no chance of getting back together again..
  
  then shou shi qi xin qing, wang qian zou ba.
• CannyOng

  14 Aug 07, 22:52

  Originally posted by photo_seeker:

  Well, it's another topic related to BGR again.
  
  I came to know this girl through my friend last year after my break-up with my then girl-friend. We started SMSing each others and got rather close together Eventually, I liked her and we go out almost everyday and stuffs.
  
  However, recently I told her that I liked her but was rejected. Though we never totally stopped smsing and meeting up, we seems to be drifting apart. Despite the chat we have over msn / sms, it seems that it's getting awkward.
  
  Recently I started going out with my other female friends instead. And, few weeks back, she started going out with this guy whom she know. If I'm not mistaken, it's her Primary School Friend. When I was with my other female friend, she will somehow tease me over SMS and stuffs. However, when she's with her male friend, I somehow missed being with her and stuffs.
  
  I don't know if it's jealousy or envy. Can someone please advise?

  I think she is someone quite special that makes u can't forget her...
  
  She tease u? U can take that interpretation as she still interested in u or just real teasing. Are u still young? Why not u take a gamble and give a second shot this time. Tell her outright u still miss her and and going to take a second attempt. I bet she is some quite outdoor gal and a bit wild. He need to be special and not be the desperate type to win her over. No harm trying a second attempt but give yrself a max time limit of 6 months.. If still don't work out ,don't drag and u can serach for another tree liao...
• photo_seeker

  15 Aug 07, 22:23

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  Yo, i dun think this is a joke, he got his point too, who knows, this poster may harbour such thinking, that is why he keep changing gf, very unstable and not steady.

  Did I even mentioned that I've more than 1 GF ? I'm someone who's against changing GF as if they're underwears.
• photo_seeker

  15 Aug 07, 22:23

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  i think it's only natural ba..
  
  if there's no chance of getting back together again..
  
  then shou shi qi xin qing, wang qian zou ba.

  Browniebaobao, your Chinese very very chim leh...
• BrUtUs

  15 Aug 07, 22:31

  jealous n envy... theres many other gals arnd so no need to waste so much NRG n memory on her...
• browniebaobao

  16 Aug 07, 00:01

  Originally posted by photo_seeker:

  Browniebaobao, your Chinese very very chim leh...

  i meant if there's no chance of patching, then move on.
• photo_seeker

  16 Aug 07, 14:16

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  i meant if there's no chance of patching, then move on.

  Thanks for the translation. I've to definately move on since she's attached now.
  
  Just another period of my life that I've to drag myself through.
• angel7030

  16 Aug 07, 17:18

  Originally posted by photo_seeker:
  Well, it's another topic related to BGR again.
  
  I came to know this[b] girl through my friend last year after my break-up with my then girl-friend. We started SMSing each others and got rather close together Eventually, I liked her and we go out almost everyday and stuffs.
  
  However, recently I told her that I liked her but was rejected. Though we never totally stopped smsing and meeting up, we seems to be drifting apart. Despite the chat we have over msn / sms, it seems that it's getting awkward.
  
  Recently I started going out with my other female friends instead. And, few weeks back, she started going out with this guy whom she know. If I'm not mistaken, it's her Primary School Friend. When I was with my other female friend, she will somehow tease me over SMS and stuffs. However, when she's with her male friend, I somehow missed being with her and stuffs.
  
  I don't know if it's jealousy or envy. Can someone please advise?[/b]

  Yo, if gf is not changing underwear, then it should be changing bra.
  
• photo_seeker

  16 Aug 07, 19:19

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  Yo, if gf is not changing underwear, then it should be changing bra.
  

  Goodness! That's how you interpreted my sentences.
  
  I've more female friends than male friends so naturally I'll type it that way.