Lets share our way to get gals attention..
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Helo,
The main reason of my topic is to help we, guys to understand the method of getting gals attention (why dont i say woo girls? Cuz its outdated back in 1950's
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I've done some research on how to do this.. some say we need to be gentleman, some say we cant treat gal as gentleman as we could.. some say, "c o c k y and funny" method. Well, im confused..
FOr what i know, wrong moves or wrong methods or wrong words, u screwed everything.. this is very true cuz i did that..
Let our EXPERTS or anyone out there to share with their successful courtship ( I mean they can get any gal they wan with no prob)
Appreciate the replies in Do's and Dont's if you could give it
Girls are always welcome to share their thoughts here.. Its an open topic.
Now, Shall we ?
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some1 said attract and not attack, den cant be too despo, jus be urself, self confidence...
still got wat? -
Haiyoo..
Different tactics work on different girls la.. different methods of approach. its how u able to ascertain which group or sub category they belong to can u grab their attention.
Some are attracted to those that can play the music well, or can sing well , dress well , how they present themselves etc la.. this topic too wide la..
n besides.. u are not in AGONY are u ?
but in the end u still have to be urself or u are just gonna become a fake n when found out u will lose it all. -
Lol, absolutely true.. diffrent gal different taste, what im trying to say here is tat BEING YOURSELF is not really one of the method of getting gals attraction.. if yourself is not good. You knw wat i mean, manners ,,, talks...
You BE YOURSELF like what ? A gentleman who never hurt her feelings? NEver even tease her ? Or simply telling her pretty or ended up calling her everyday CUZ its YOURSELF that you wan to do that? Cmon, i read a lot, different sources tells story. That kind of gentleman wont really make attract PRETTY gals ... why ? Cuz dont u thk bout it ? ALL GUYS ARE ALREADY BEEN TOO GOOD TO THESE TYPE OF HOT GALS. She would have probably predicted what will u do next ! What im saying is that.. you need to do something unique and different from these Gentleman GUYS.
I've been very close with my girls frens. What i noticed that make them remember any guys is that .. the guys alwasy teased them something and they really remember it.. NEver heard of "Nan Ren Bu Huai, Ni Ren Pu AI" (Women loves bad boy)
This thread is meant to help those who has doubts of wats the right thing to do... (I'm still learning T_T) Any advise and method is good..
TO those who have problem , you can share with us, and i hope we all can give a good advise and not simply a joke. -
Ok. TS is in agony.
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Stand naked in front of her.
wait for her to either
1. slap u
2. laugh at u.
there. u got her attention. happy ? -
Then it is about time to build some manners, chilvary and charm into yourself!Originally posted by Zarks:Lol, absolutely true.. diffrent gal different taste, what im trying to say here is tat BEING YOURSELF is not really one of the method of getting gals attraction.. if yourself is not good. You knw wat i mean, manners ,,, talks...
You BE YOURSELF like what ? A gentleman who never hurt her feelings? NEver even tease her ? Or simply telling her pretty or ended up calling her everyday CUZ its YOURSELF that you wan to do that? Cmon, i read a lot, different sources tells story. That kind of gentleman wont really make attract PRETTY gals ... why ? Cuz dont u thk bout it ? ALL GUYS ARE ALREADY BEEN TOO GOOD TO THESE TYPE OF HOT GALS. She would have probably predicted what will u do next ! What im saying is that.. you need to do something unique and different from these Gentleman GUYS.
I've been very close with my girls frens. What i noticed that make them remember any guys is that .. the guys alwasy teased them something and they really remember it.. NEver heard of "Nan Ren Bu Huai, Ni Ren Pu AI" (Women loves bad boy)
This thread is meant to help those who has doubts of wats the right thing to do... (I'm still learning T_T) Any advise and method is good..
TO those who have problem , you can share with us, and i hope we all can give a good advise and not simply a joke. -
Wad kind of girls is TS toking about here?
Got a lot of difference hor......... -
ok. lets make this thing interesting:
TYpe of gals (that i know.. sory cuz im not expert in knowing gals)
a) Home type gals - the one whom your mom love the most, shy
b) Office gals - intelligent gal, dun mess with them
c) Sporty gals - always wear in jeans n straight forward?
d) High-Maintanence gals - U see them in the bar everynite
Yea different gals takes different method to approach.. Any expert can help on this?
Just wanna share something with you all, I've been reading David Deangleo's email thing. He used the method of "C o c k y and Funny" method.
It means, never be too gentleman to always say the gal's pretty but bust on her if she thks herself too pretty. And always make something fun for it. What he meant is that never be so predictable. Pretty gals get used to get compliments from guys.. they can already predict wat your goin to say. So do something different..
I personally did try this on some collegues (that i dont even knw their names) , well, they enjoy it and we are very good frens now even though im one of a hella person who teased them too much but not too hurting their feeling.. need to read their mood.. Never tried this with gals outside. -
To get the gal's attention is to never give them any attention.
When they do hair flipping and other non verbal actions,ignore it.
They will subconsiously wonder why aren't u noticing them and they will try harder to make their actions mroe obvious to u.
That is when u gotten their attention.
Ever wonder why u go crazy when a gal u admire doesn't reply ur msg?[assuming she doesn't know ur feelings]
Do the same back to them like eplying to their msgs the next day or a few hrs later and always giving them a reason like busing at the time being.
This will tell them u have your own life and they are not the centre of it.
Thus,this will prompt them to do more to engage with u. -
why AA
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Good one , my fren. ITs true, never give them attention whn they wan u to notice and this can really pissed them off lolOriginally posted by boka:To get the gal's attention is to never give them any attention.
When they do hair flipping and other non verbal actions,ignore it.
They will subconsiously wonder why aren't u noticing them and they will try harder to make their actions mroe obvious to u.
That is when u gotten their attention.
Ever wonder why u go crazy when a gal u admire doesn't reply ur msg?[assuming she doesn't know ur feelings]
Do the same back to them like eplying to their msgs the next day or a few hrs later and always giving them a reason like busing at the time being.
This will tell them u have your own life and they are not the centre of it.
Thus,this will prompt them to do more to engage with u. -
to get gals attention and make them rem u in heart is to give them one punch on the face!
im damn super confirm sure SHE WILL REMEMBER YOU TIL OLD AGE. -
This is what I think:
it depends. if a guy walk into a group of say 50 girls, at least one will be interested enough to be friends with him when approached. as i go through life and meet new groups of people, this happens over and over again until i found "the one": someone who is interested in me and me in her. then the dating game begins.
when the girl is interested in me, it doesn't really matter what i do as long as i don't make her feel bad.
different guys will attract different types of girls, it all amounts to taste. however, there are some universal appeal factors: a 40 yr old balding guy will not attract as much attention as a 26 yr old rich handsome guy when he first walk into that group of 50 girls.
The universal appeal factors:
1) Looks
2) Body (trim and fit, some muscles/shape)
3) Confidence (not nervous and shy)
4) Money (rich boys tend to get lots of attention haha)
Given all the above, if you don't fit the girl's taste, it is still hopeless. Some girls have very unique tastes, there is no one size fits all. Some times, meeting a girl's taste can replace many if not all of the above factors! (example: if a girl prefer a fun and stylish guy who can go clubbing with her, a nerd with all of the above will never do!) -
Originally posted by GoodBook:
Hm, that is quite true.
[b]This is what I think:
it depends. if a guy walk into a group of say 50 girls, at least one will be interested enough to be friends with him when approached. as i go through life and meet new groups of people, this happens over and over again until i found "the one": someone who is interested in me and me in her. then the dating game begins.
when the girl is interested in me, it doesn't really matter what i do as long as i don't make her feel bad.
different guys will attract different types of girls, it all amounts to taste. however, there are some universal appeal factors: a 40 yr old balding guy will not attract as much attention as a 26 yr old rich handsome guy when he first walk into that group of 50 girls.
The universal appeal factors:
1) Looks
2) Body (trim and fit, some muscles/shape)
3) Confidence (not nervous and shy)
4) Money (rich boys tend to get lots of attention haha)
Given all the above, if you don't fit the girl's taste, it is still hopeless. Some girls have very unique tastes, there is no one size fits all. Some times, meeting a girl's taste can replace many if not all of the above factors! (example: if a girl prefer a fun and stylish guy who can go clubbing with her, a nerd with all of the above will never do!)[/b]
Some experts say the most important thing is that your CONFIDENCE.. thats all.. the rest depends on how u say to attract any gals...
I was hoping to see any guy who see themself as ugly and [color=orange]poor [/color]guy but able to attract any pretty gals due to his own system.. Its still a question-mark for me... -
funny and lame but dont be a clown
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dont think got such thing as ugly..Originally posted by Zarks:Hm, that is quite true.
Some experts say the most important thing is that your CONFIDENCE.. thats all.. the rest depends on how u say to attract any gals...
I was hoping to see any guy who see themself as ugly and poor guy but able to attract any pretty gals due to his own system.. Its still a question-mark for me...
one man meat is another man poison -
ifish seems experiencedOriginally posted by ifish:dont think got such thing as ugly..
one man meat is another man poison DOnt be clown.. yea very true.. and sory for the UGLY word.. shud have thk twice b4 writing it -
Bcuz this is a thread to help those who dont really know how to even get close to gals, to help guys to get close to a gal without being a Wussy..Originally posted by de_middle:why AA
Its a healthy thread.. if you can understand this . If you dont, plz dun waste your time just posting why this thread is here.. If you dont like this, u can report to administrator and if they deleted my thread here, i will respect their decision..but i know they wont cuz this is sgforums.com (Singapore's Online DIscussion Network) -
I bought the David DeAngelo Products,
It works amazing... Especially for pretty girls....
Try to do it to a Average girl whereby her gf beside her is like 9pointers.
you will know what I mean. The 9 pointers might get angry with her friend....
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I'm sure you've heard it before but confidence is probably one of the most important things. It works trust me, I've witnessed and experienced sooo many successful courtships because of the amount of confidence the guy has.
And here's a trick, if there's this really really hot girl you like and she knows she hot and so does everyone else. Pretend like you don't care about her because that'll really get her interested because she'll be used to having all guys try to talk to her and such but if you just play it cool she'll come to you. -
lol wtf no don't ever be lame! EVER! Lame is never a good thing with anyone. Not only with girls but just with the general population. I think ifish is trying to mess with you.Originally posted by ifish:funny and lame but dont be a clown -
Because TS is in agony for being deprived of female attention lor.....Originally posted by de_middle:why AA 
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u dun really have to do anything if u r really damn good looking, damn suave, damn cool etc...
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Yeah I'm guessing most people here aren't any of those things lolOriginally posted by GHoST_18:u dun really have to do anything if u r really damn good looking, damn suave, damn cool etc...