Money n friends
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Lent ard 1.xk to about 4 different ppl . A,B,C,D .
ABC r friends from same college. D is a army section mate. Im farking pissed at A as he seemed to be doing well . working in mlm n claimed to be earning 1.xk on top of his clerk pay as nsf , so i reckon he shld pay me . B is a sgt in army , he and i lost heavily in soccer to bookies but these few yrs he managed to get back on his feet slowly despite owing alot ppl. But the difference is B always gives me the assurance that he will return , whereas A simply bo chap . C is a new loan recently which im not so worried about.D shld return soon .
What pisses me off about A is i lent him $ even myself was in debt to go on a overseas outing with our gang after alvls , whilst self sacrificing myself by forgoing the trip. Friends were wondering y i didnt joined them to go for the trip , i simply said i had no $. That time soccer almost ruined me.
Now ns is coming to an end, i can see A is doing gd at his mlm company. During a recent supper with e same grp of friends , i balantly hinted him to return me $ but i think he act blur .NS made me realised it doesnt pay to be nice n i shall get my $ back
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Are you in agony?
Treat it as bad debt lah, you should know money lent is like water poured away. Chances that you'll get back you money is slim. -
more of frustration~~ indifference actually~~ just to see who has gd ways to make A return
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Dont expect people to know ur sufferings , especially people when they desperate for money.
Friend or not , when it comes to money.. its another thing, especially when they know what they will getting into if they did not pay up.
I had a to break a friend's arm for 20K excluding generous interests. U have to make an example or people are not going to pay u back. Generous is one thing , helping another through monetary means is one thing also.. BORROWING is another thing.
If u really want ur money back , u know what to do. -
Are U a loan shark?Originally posted by Saint`:Lent ard 1.xk to about 4 different ppl . A,B,C,D .
ABC r friends from same college. D is a army section mate. Im farking pissed at A as he seemed to be doing well . working in mlm n claimed to be earning 1.xk on top of his clerk pay as nsf , so i reckon he shld pay me . B is a sgt in army , he and i lost heavily in soccer to bookies but these few yrs he managed to get back on his feet slowly despite owing alot ppl. But the difference is B always gives me the assurance that he will return , whereas A simply bo chap . C is a new loan recently which im not so worried about.D shld return soon .
What pisses me off about A is i lent him $ even myself was in debt to go on a overseas outing with our gang after alvls , whilst self sacrificing myself by forgoing the trip. Friends were wondering y i didnt joined them to go for the trip , i simply said i had no $. That time soccer almost ruined me.
Now ns is coming to an end, i can see A is doing gd at his mlm company. During a recent supper with e same grp of friends , i balantly hinted him to return me $ but i think he act blur .NS made me realised it doesnt pay to be nice n i shall get my $ back -
no la ..Originally posted by angel7030:Are U a loan shark?
.. loan shark rates i heard b4 is 20% .. everywk pay .. very chor one .. -
Originally posted by BadzMaro:Dont expect people to know ur sufferings , especially people when they desperate for money.
Friend or not , when it comes to money.. its another thing, especially when they know what they will getting into if they did not pay up.
I had a to break a friend's arm for 20K excluding generous interests. U have to make an example or people are not going to pay u back. Generous is one thing , helping another through monetary means is one thing also.. BORROWING is another thing.
If u really want ur money back , u know what to do. urs is 20k .. i doubt i will lend some1 that much .. moreover i oso don have lol -
Not loan shark, then you must be a Ah long lor. Wha! Army ah long ya.Originally posted by Saint`:no la .. .. loan shark rates i heard b4 is 20% .. everywk pay .. very chor one ..
Anyway, why you like to lend people money, sisterhood or brotherhood is not mean to be built by lending money. It should be base on share and care. Now that you have learned a lesson, forget about it, start a new life, work hard, study hard, save hard and built a bright future, if anyone of your frens come and ask for money, just tell them you got no money ya.
Remember to gamble less, drink less and DIY less ya, bad for guy health. -
bo gamble le ..Originally posted by angel7030:Not loan shark, then you must be a Ah long lor. Wha! Army ah long ya.
Anyway, why you like to lend people money, sisterhood or brotherhood is not mean to be built by lending money. It should be base on share and care. Now that you have learned a lesson, forget about it, start a new life, work hard, study hard, save hard and built a bright future, if anyone of your frens come and ask for money, just tell them you got no money ya.
Remember to gamble less, drink less and DIY less ya, bad for guy health.
but regret 1st man u match .. predict draw one -
got learn accounts ?
know whats bad debt ?
add that amount into bad debts. -
its a figure of speech or U are meaning it literally?Originally posted by BadzMaro:I had a to break a friend's arm for 20K -
i never let money get in the way of friendship, money is essential & it is the root to all evil too
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Literally , it had to be done. He understood what he was getting into when he couldnt come up with the money. not to mention the interests incurred.Originally posted by Xcert:its a figure of speech or U are meaning it literally?
I did him a favour , so i passed his debt to another associate n they went to collect from him.Thats when his arm was broken . He was a pretty good friend.. he just had some real bad luck. So what i did was i paid his debt so he owes me again. Used his interests to cover my loss when i passed it to my associate.
My name was at stake or else people with debts will just do a runner from me if i let him off like that. Its business.. it had to be done. Thats one of the things i regret... but its past already. -
20% is as expected. That is not alot you know.Originally posted by Saint`:no la .. .. loan shark rates i heard b4 is 20% .. everywk pay .. very chor one ..
U imagine 1 case owes 50K. Couldnt pay back on time. Then he gotta pay 3.5K every month until he can come up with 50K at one go to settle or else its not called settled even if he pays for 3 years 3.5K a month man.. now THAT one is CHO .. but its business . People gamble , people want fast cash.. that is the price they have to pay.
Moral of the story is , dont gamble and dont borrow fast cash from loan sharks. Better be poor. . . then in debt for the rest of your life. -
wahh, u r so nice..
can i be ur frenz?
i promise i will return.. -
understood...that's why I try not to borrow money from people.Originally posted by BadzMaro:Literally , it had to be done. He understood what he was getting into when he couldnt come up with the money. not to mention the interests incurred.
I did him a favour , so i passed his debt to another associate n they went to collect from him.Thats when his arm was broken . He was a pretty good friend.. he just had some real bad luck. So what i did was i paid his debt so he owes me again. Used his interests to cover my loss when i passed it to my associate.
My name was at stake or else people with debts will just do a runner from me if i let him off like that. Its business.. it had to be done. Thats one of the things i regret... but its past already. 
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waa badmaro dai yi long...
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easy la.. ask some Ah Long to help you .. HehehahaaaaaOriginally posted by Saint`:Lent ard 1.xk to about 4 different ppl . A,B,C,D .
ABC r friends from same college. D is a army section mate. Im farking pissed at A as he seemed to be doing well . working in mlm n claimed to be earning 1.xk on top of his clerk pay as nsf , so i reckon he shld pay me . B is a sgt in army , he and i lost heavily in soccer to bookies but these few yrs he managed to get back on his feet slowly despite owing alot ppl. But the difference is B always gives me the assurance that he will return , whereas A simply bo chap . C is a new loan recently which im not so worried about.D shld return soon .
What pisses me off about A is i lent him $ even myself was in debt to go on a overseas outing with our gang after alvls , whilst self sacrificing myself by forgoing the trip. Friends were wondering y i didnt joined them to go for the trip , i simply said i had no $. That time soccer almost ruined me.
Now ns is coming to an end, i can see A is doing gd at his mlm company. During a recent supper with e same grp of friends , i balantly hinted him to return me $ but i think he act blur .NS made me realised it doesnt pay to be nice n i shall get my $ back -
Originally posted by Cool-gal:wahh, u r so nice..
can i be ur frenz?
i promise i will return..
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friends and money do not mix.
take it as a 1K~2K (after interest) lesson - it could cost you more in future. -
dun say like that la.. sometimes desperate ppl need money i just provide them with a solution.Originally posted by bladez87:waa badmaro dai yi long...
I prefer to be called a Funds Consultant. -
I was taught NEVER to borrow money from people when i had the Capablility to earn it....
Its damm simple rule.... -
dai yi long is dai yi long, i can call you a Funds Chief Executive Consultant, you go out describe your job, and the reply you will get is DAI YI LONG!Originally posted by BadzMaro:dun say like that la.. sometimes desperate ppl need money i just provide them with a solution.
I prefer to be called a Funds Consultant.