Help...Still trap inside
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zoragirl... a question... how do u noe that the guy is happy...?
did he tell u that...?
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PM me. I'll take thee by the hand and lead you to the promised land - show you the well of wang qing shui......
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It takes a massive amount of courage for a gal to confess to a guy. It will in the end causes massive amount of damages if rejected. Think twice if u want to confess next time! Listen to some smoothing songs. Do u have very close friends? Ask them out and have adrink...Originally posted by zoragirl:I told a guy i like him but was rejected. He told me we are just friends. Deeply hurt. He is very happy now while i am still feeling hurt. Please tell me what to do.
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I think he is....Originally posted by yiha093:zoragirl... a question... how do u noe that the guy is happy...?
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too much jap av liaoOriginally posted by angel7030:Because we are a weaker gender, therefore I need to pull up all my sisterhood here to be strong. Usually, we get hurt and dumped or even raped, or gang raped, being peeped, being molested, being used for vulgarities remarks. So we gals need to hold our own pride and not fall into the pit of fake love as tho without boy, the world will end.
All boys are borne by us, yet they dump us. Not fair rite. So, as an Angel, as what God said, Men have sins, -
dun think plzOriginally posted by zoragirl:I think he is....
for all u noe, that guy might be putting on a false front -
It's never easy to accept rejection when it was being thrown right in the face back. But then there is no easy way out. You have tried and failed so best way is to move on with your life. Who knows, the next guy that comes along may just be better than the one that rejected you for whatever reasons. Just don't wallow in self-pity or hurt which might manifest into hatred.
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Dun think so....Heard fm friend that he is back to his old self - happy and enjoying his life.Originally posted by yiha093:dun think plz
for all u noe, that guy might be putting on a false front -
The world is never fair la..i dont think any gender is weaker than the other at all.. i just think that everyone is vulnerable to any danger.. u just need some brains and precautions which if i ask any gal whether they carry any black pepper spray, im sure most of them will not say yes.. the same goes to any man if they are attacked by anyone..Originally posted by angel7030:Because we are a weaker gender, therefore I need to pull up all my sisterhood here to be strong. Usually, we get hurt and dumped or even raped, or gang raped, being peeped, being molested, being used for vulgarities remarks. So we gals need to hold our own pride and not fall into the pit of fake love as tho without boy, the world will end.
All boys are borne by us, yet they dump us. Not fair rite. So, as an Angel, as what God said, Men have sins,
Just the brain and be cautious, things can happen unexpectedly but at least u have something to defend.. i personally think that women and men are just equal.. all just depend on how you want to survive -
Thanks!Originally posted by bengan35:come find me !
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kelian de zora..dun worry sure u will find your zen ming tian zi one day..is a matter of time only..aiyak,go find sumone else who cherish you more..gd 6Originally posted by zoragirl:I told a guy i like him but was rejected. He told me we are just friends. Deeply hurt. He is very happy now while i am still feeling hurt. Please tell me what to do. -
Originally posted by CannyOng:It takes a massive amount of courage for a gal to confess to a guy. It will in the end causes massive amount of damages if rejected. Think twice if u want to confess next time! Listen to some smoothing songs. Do u have very close friends? Ask them out and have adrink...
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Dear friend, success and failure is all part and parcel of life. Letting go of the embarrassment and hurt is the hardest part but give it abit of time. You are feeling this way as it is still fresh in your memory. This is normal. Usually, the feeling will fade with time... and you'll recover.
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Its perfectly alright to tell someone that you like him/her and he should take it as a compliment.On your part you shouldnt feel rejected ,surely you dont expect everyone to respond to you according to your wish and liking? Only your pride is hurt but there is no real damage here.Your heart is ever ready to open up to people and for that matter many people will come to like you too.Be happy for yourself and stay open to others around you.Originally posted by zoragirl:I told a guy i like him but was rejected. He told me we are just friends. Deeply hurt. He is very happy now while i am still feeling hurt. Please tell me what to do. -
gal, dun waste ur time, go find another guy...
then in the meantime, just be friend with him...
anyways, u have to move on....
I know it is painful to feel rejected, but it is part of life....
i promise u r able to find a better guy....
jia you!
u should be lucky as u r still friend with him!!!
stay positive!
meet more friends! -
Yeah she does hate guy alot...Originally posted by angel7030:Because we are a weaker gender, therefore I need to pull up all my sisterhood here to be strong. Usually, we get hurt and dumped or even raped, or gang raped, being peeped, being molested, being used for vulgarities remarks. So we gals need to hold our own pride and not fall into the pit of fake love as tho without boy, the world will end.
All boys are borne by us, yet they dump us. Not fair rite. So, as an Angel, as what God said, Men have sins,
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Thks!Originally posted by Sakuraflower:gal, dun waste ur time, go find another guy...
then in the meantime, just be friend with him...
anyways, u have to move on....
I know it is painful to feel rejected, but it is part of life....
i promise u r able to find a better guy....
jia you!
u should be lucky as u r still friend with him!!!
stay positive!
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The only thing for u to do now is to live better than him. Truth be told, there are probably better guys than him out there. U just hadn't met him yet. Once u met that guy who can appreciate u and u appreciate him, then this little story will soon be forgotten.Originally posted by zoragirl:I told a guy i like him but was rejected. He told me we are just friends. Deeply hurt. He is very happy now while i am still feeling hurt. Please tell me what to do.
I am not asking u to quickly go find some other guy. I am just saying keep ur options open, know new guys, and who knows what may happen frm there? -
Originally posted by CannyOng:It takes a massive amount of courage for a gal to confess to a guy. It will in the end causes massive amount of damages if rejected. Think twice if u want to confess next time! Listen to some smoothing songs. Do u have very close friends? Ask them out and have adrink...
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patpat..
i salute yr courage to confess to a guy..move on like other have mentioned..no point dwelling on the past
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lai lail..i give u chance...find me....=P
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Thanks!Originally posted by wului99:patpat..
i salute yr courage to confess to a guy..move on like other have mentioned..no point dwelling on the past 
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Originally posted by Aaron8209:lai lail..i give u chance...find me....=P plz la u...u give her money find u isit?
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Thank you!Originally posted by Aaron8209:lai lail..i give u chance...find me....=P
But i will 'rest' a while first.
I think being friends better.
This will be my first and last time to confess to a guy i like.
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oh ok...so ur not that young...in fact older than me by lotsOriginally posted by zoragirl:Thanks for your advice.
I am born in the early 70s. eh then haf to move on la anyways, keep looking for the one true love...a person who cares=) jia you