Financial Crisis Advise Needed
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did he do something that make his wife angry with him?
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That's what happens when men don't settle marital problems with the wifeys.Originally posted by farnee:I have a relative of mine who is in some financial crisis cause by his wife.
My cousin has about 5 credit card from diffrent bank.
His wife as the sub-credit card holder burst 3 of the credit cards which my cousin seldom use. Over of trust for his wife, he always didn't really check up the bill for the 3 cards. As she always claim to have settled the bills already.
But around April this year, my cousin receive a call from 1 of the bank telling him about the bursting and unclear bills. So now he found out he own the bank about 40k. The wife did all this due to some hatred for him, and all this happen after a big row last year according to him. (Some marital woes between them, which i am not sure) Only know his wife and him plus family isn't in talking terms.
His wife didn't make any effort all this months to clear the bills. Until recently she start to pay some of it.
Now my cousin do not trust her, but we are not very good in financial games. So need some advice to protect my cousin. Can she do anything to my cousin like get him into bigger financial problem ? Scare she might use his credit or name to loan $.. humh.. But my cousin has took back the sub-card already.
Anyone know of any risk ?
Anyway, your cousin is already doing damage control by taking back sub card.
Too bad it will only be temporary.
If she is bent on seeking revenge on your cousin.
Financially is only one way to skin the cat.
My suggestion is that your cousin try to settle the family dispute amicably with his wifey ASAP. No other way around it.
For a woman to exact such damages, she must have a lot of grievance in her right now.
I hope your cousin and his family didn't bully her.
As much as you want to help your cousin.
You really shouldn't play a part in his family drama. -
Oh. Check out the joint bank account see if the money is still there.
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Did he like had an affair or something? WIfe seems really angry... -
i thought TS is asking how to prevent further financial woes, why you all kept saying ' i think wife is angry, make up with wife'
Take away the sub cards, no more financial damages. -
The morale of story is very simple: Neither a lender or a borrower be.
Even between spouses. If both are working, keep financials separate - credit cards, bank accounts, personal property (priceless collections), etc.
The only thing spouses should share, apart from living under the same roof are: bed, toilets, sofas, mirrors, utensils!
Even handphone and laptop - don't share, hahahha! -
Dreamykite,Originally posted by dreamykite:i thought TS is asking how to prevent further financial woes, why you all kept saying ' i think wife is angry, make up with wife'
Take away the sub cards, no more financial damages.
Because wife's anger/resentment/frustrations/grievance IS THE ROOT oF TS's financial WOES. -
Well said.Originally posted by jojobeach:That's what happens when men don't settle marital problems with the wifeys.
Anyway, your cousin is already doing damage control by taking back sub card.
Too bad it will only be temporary.
If she is bent on seeking revenge on your cousin.
Financially is only one way to skin the cat.
My suggestion is that your cousin try to settle the family dispute amicably with his wifey ASAP. No other way around it.
For a woman to exact such damages, she must have a lot of grievance in her right now.
I hope your cousin and his family didn't bully her.
As much as you want to help your cousin.
You really shouldn't play a part in his family drama.
In fact, I'm in a different situation. Hubby and his family bully me.
Hubby blames me for spending alot and i am paying the all the home bills, food and groceries. I don't splurge. few mths ago, he sent 15000 to his god damn sister.
I am ready to pack and go not because i can't stick with him at this time. But becos, he sends his money to his family and pushes me to pay for household exps and even accusing me of spending. At the end of the month, I am left with very little money. What can i spend with???
His elder sister, younger sister, mother all have a part in "our drama".
Whats a relative doing here to complain?? Do not sow discord between your cousin and his wife. There is no smoke without fire.