Mental Trauma for her
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My gf broke off with me a few weeks ago due to us being very busy and she said i never take good care of her...
Our relationship lasted 1 years 7months and she's my second gf. (The first one was real short so nothing much).
What i want to ask is this:
During one day at her house, we were having long and passionate kisses. And then she hold my hand and slipped my hand under her blouse, then slowly move up to her bra. Then beneath the bra and touch her b.reasts. I want to ask will this exert significant mental trauma on her now that we broke up? Is fondling of b.reasts bad?
How "touchy" are guys with their gfs exactly these days? Do they just kiss? -
oh noo
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Eh..its kinda like normal for teenagers nowadays to "explore" If she allows u to do that, then i think it wouldnt be a mental trauma for her.
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hmmm.. how old are you guys?
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Mental trauma?Originally posted by HyuugaNeji:My gf broke off with me a few weeks ago due to us being very busy and she said i never take good care of her...
Our relationship lasted 1 years 7months and she's my second gf. (The first one was real short so nothing much).
What i want to ask is this:
During one day at her house, we were having long and passionate kisses. And then she hold my hand and slipped my hand under her blouse, then slowly move up to her bra. Then beneath the bra and touch her b.reasts. I want to ask will this exert significant mental trauma on her now that we broke up?
How "touchy" are guys with their gfs exactly these days? Do they just kiss?
I don't think so. She was the one who "hold your hand and slipped it under her blouse". I think you're the one having some problems with that now... -
Originally posted by binarynwitz:Mental trauma?
I don't think so. She was the one who "hold your hand and slipped it under her blouse". I think you're the one having some problems with that now... -
when she said you didn't "take care of her", could she mean that you care less about her, that you were not sensitive of what she wants? Well... then maybe one day her friend said "just make a move, it's 2007, don't always wait for guys to do it", which is why the thing happened.
One thing for sure, she's not really in emotional relationship with you, it sounds more like "teenager curiosity time" when everyone of her friends talk about it and she also wants to have the experience. My suggestion? you have two options: 1. Make use of the chance and be a bad guy who takes advantage of a lost girl. 2. See whether you can have a serious relationship with her, and really get to know each other before taking further step.
Keep in mind, girl who is easy to make a physical move, also easy to move to other heart. -
It is mental trauma for her if you rape her mentally!
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dun think so
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Don't worry. No mental trauma inflicted.Originally posted by HyuugaNeji:My gf broke off with me a few weeks ago due to us being very busy and she said i never take good care of her...
Our relationship lasted 1 years 7months and she's my second gf. (The first one was real short so nothing much).
What i want to ask is this:
During one day at her house, we were having long and passionate kisses. And then she hold my hand and slipped my hand under her blouse, then slowly move up to her bra. Then beneath the bra and touch her b.reasts. I want to ask will this exert significant mental trauma on her now that we broke up?
How "touchy" are guys with their gfs exactly these days? Do they just kiss? -
She wanted it to happen. U sound very innocent.Originally posted by HyuugaNeji:During one day at her house, we were having long and passionate kisses. And then she hold my hand and slipped my hand under her blouse, then slowly move up to her bra. Then beneath the bra and touch her b.reasts. I want to ask will this exert significant mental trauma on her now that we broke up?
How "touchy" are guys with their gfs exactly these days? Do they just kiss?
Guys get alot bolder than that nowadays. -
No mental trauma or psychiatric injury inflicted. At least no legal liability for that from what you said.
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does that means shes a whore?
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try not to do anything stupid...crossing the limits will often cause regrets. cause u never know when she might turn around and say u molest her or what
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Not really. She regarded me as "the one" and wanted to be with me forever. I am her first bf.Originally posted by bluecom:when she said you didn't "take care of her", could she mean that you care less about her, that you were not sensitive of what she wants? Well... then maybe one day her friend said "just make a move, it's 2007, don't always wait for guys to do it", which is why the thing happened.
One thing for sure, she's not really in emotional relationship with you, it sounds more like "teenager curiosity time" when everyone of her friends talk about it and she also wants to have the experience. My suggestion? you have two options: 1. Make use of the chance and be a bad guy who takes advantage of a lost girl. 2. See whether you can have a serious relationship with her, and really get to know each other before taking further step.
Keep in mind, girl who is easy to make a physical move, also easy to move to other heart. -
u no touch her enuff
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sigh.. guys are so gullible. Boooooring.Originally posted by HyuugaNeji:Not really. She regarded me as "the one" and wanted to be with me forever. I am her first bf. -
past tenseOriginally posted by HyuugaNeji:Not really. She regarded me as "the one" and wanted to be with me forever. I am her first bf. -
I guess you are quite traumatize by her action instead. I guess if shes comfortable you touching her, she wouldnt be traumatize la. But how old are you guys?
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ma deOriginally posted by jojobeach:sigh.. guys are so gullible. Boooooring. -
Yes, true, I second it.Originally posted by jojobeach:sigh.. guys are so gullible. Boooooring. -
which planet do you come from? she is mentally traumatized that you din go any further.....she prob broke off from you cos she think you gay
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Maybe yr blockhead mentality is killing her and not the so called traumatice incident which u deduced..Originally posted by HyuugaNeji:My gf broke off with me a few weeks ago due to us being very busy and she said i never take good care of her...
Our relationship lasted 1 years 7months and she's my second gf. (The first one was real short so nothing much).
What i want to ask is this:
During one day at her house, we were having long and passionate kisses. And then she hold my hand and slipped my hand under her blouse, then slowly move up to her bra. Then beneath the bra and touch her b.reasts. I want to ask will this exert significant mental trauma on her now that we broke up? Is fondling of b.reasts bad?
How "touchy" are guys with their gfs exactly these days? Do they just kiss?
I bet she is looking for a romantic and interesting bf as the one! Someone who can give her excitement and never bored her! -
No, girls won't feel anything close to the "trauma" as defined by your concern.Originally posted by HyuugaNeji:My gf broke off with me a few weeks ago due to us being very busy and she said i never take good care of her...
Our relationship lasted 1 years 7months and she's my second gf. (The first one was real short so nothing much).
What i want to ask is this:
During one day at her house, we were having long and passionate kisses. And then she hold my hand and slipped my hand under her blouse, then slowly move up to her bra. Then beneath the bra and touch her b.reasts. I want to ask will this exert significant mental trauma on her now that we broke up? Is fondling of b.reasts bad?
How "touchy" are guys with their gfs exactly these days? Do they just kiss?
We get over "trauma" pretty quick...else prostitution would be a bad business to begin with. -
my ex did that to me when we had this long 10 mins passionate french kiss... yea shes the one pulling my hand and said im the one who want it, wow so why wait... just for experience,nothing naughty after that cause i still have the innocense inside me wahahhaa