The truth after a yr....
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loti.........actually, there is no problem between d 2 of u...i know somehow, u will be affected by her confession.......but then, that doesn't mean that she does not love you now...
love will grow........& for her, it has grown!! Be fortunate fren..at least in days to come, she will love you with her heart......
in actual fact, she did not lie to you at all........she told u that cos she is obviously looking forward to days ahead with you.....walking the path of life together.....just merely "opening her heart" to you that's all.........
would you rather that few years down the road, you realised that the person has been lying to you??
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i guess we all learn from our mistakes.. or rather our past. some of them were not mistakes but still hurt.Originally posted by startrightnow:wah...u seem experienced sia
dun forget we can also learn from OTHERS' mistakes and experiences. it's wat having kopi till 5am in the morning with close buddies is all about =) -
to meet some1 n be w/ tt some1 is a chance...to make it last its a choice...since by chance both of u came together...and now she is willing to make it a choice to stay together, i dun c any reason y u shld lose the trust in her...very imptly, she is being very honest w/ u...and now tt she is beginning to love you...it shows tt u r some1 worthy of love bu shi ma? learn to appreciate...b4 its gone 4 ever....
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How are you doing babe...?Originally posted by hopy:to meet some1 n be w/ tt some1 is a chance...to make it last its a choice...since by chance both of u came together...and now she is willing to make it a choice to stay together, i dun c any reason y u shld lose the trust in her...very imptly, she is being very honest w/ u...and now tt she is beginning to love you...it shows tt u r some1 worthy of love bu shi ma? learn to appreciate...b4 its gone 4 ever....
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hi devil,Originally posted by Devil1976:How are you doing babe...?
im still can't get over it yet...but exams r drawing near...guess somehow that adds on to my misery...or maybe its due to the crap tt somehow still have feelings 4 each other but not together becoz he dun 1 to hurt me anymore...not till he feels tt he will not...devil wat can i do? i really feel so sad n vexed.... -
Exams should come 1st my dear... To think that he might still have feelings for you... That he still care for you... You're confused even in your own thoughts... How can you possibly know what's going on in his mind...? Give yourself some time to 'rest' and handle the more important things in your Life like EXAMINATIONS for now...Originally posted by hopy:hi devil,
im still can't get over it yet...but exams r drawing near...guess somehow that adds on to my misery...or maybe its due to the crap tt somehow still have feelings 4 each other but not together becoz he dun 1 to hurt me anymore...not till he feels tt he will not...devil wat can i do? i really feel so sad n vexed....
The papers for your 'luv test' are not here yet... Shift your mind a bit... And awaits the INSPIRATIONS and new ideas which might be in store for you in the future... Why get stuck when you might have better options in the future..? Don't think about... If you must, ask him to wait... Say you'll have to handle your exams 1st...
We shall see from there...?
"I hold my bird in the cage... My broken cage... If birds are meant to fly they'll eventually fly off.... Everyday I look at my beautiful bird... Yet sad... Very afraid that it'll escape through the open edge.... Perhaps I should tie it up...? Perhaps I should remove its feathers...? Then it'll be my bird forever...? But... Never will it be the same bird which was once so beautiful in my eyes.... Everyday I walk pass my cage... Looking at my lovely little bird.... If birds are meant to fly... They'll fly off eventually...." -
Hi...just thinking...u have dragged the r/s for a year to wait for her admittance to the 3 points of the r/s...
After admitting the truth, u decided u cannot take the truth??...Initially, she might be not truthful..But now at least u know the truth..she dun wan to lie anymore...Give each other a chance...start all over again...at least u try...don't regret later... -
Originally posted by feliciatyl:Hi...just thinking...u have dragged the r/s for a year to wait for her admittance to the 3 points of the r/s...
After admitting the truth, u decided u cannot take the truth??...Initially, she might be not truthful..But now at least u know the truth..she dun wan to lie anymore...Give each other a chance...start all over again...at least u try...don't regret later... 
TRY.... Even if a new partner, the story's still the same...? Still need to 'try'....? -
I agree wif what he say.. But u shd haf a talk wif her. try her she shdn't force tings herself.. if she realli love u den continue.. not for responsibility.. but for the feelings within u 2Originally posted by Givache:since she dare to admit = she really wan to change and accept u..
u shall try to accept her on the other hand..
unless there is no choice, i see no reason y u have to break
Givache 
Since she's trying.. i tink she realli wans to make the relationship a sucess.. try to understand her position too.. gd luck
Stephanie