can u learn to shut up sometimes????

• udontknowme

  11 Sep 07, 08:02

  my mom really likes to talk shit
  
  she just told some random friend of hers over the phone
  
  'my eldest child (me) hates to make friends'
  
  nonono...i dun mind this statement. not as much as others she makes...
  
  but im sick and tired of her talking shit about her kids to her friends
  like....sometimes she misses someone, a friend of hers...
  she'll call the person and say 'HI! my child really misses u and so im calling u now'
  
  these 2 obviously dun sound bad at all lah but im not gibing anymore assemples
  
  FRIK!
• StarPuppy

  11 Sep 07, 08:03

  sorry la...i be more quiet lor..u dun have to shout at me
  
  
• the Bear

  11 Sep 07, 08:05

  sound like your mom is kinda... uhh.. using you guys are a 'reason' (which no one will believe) for her actions?
  
  maybe she's not comfortable with her own feelings?
• ^tamago^

  11 Sep 07, 08:25

  the second example is really unique.
  
  but sometimes they talk without regard to our feelings like the first one.
• Zarks

  11 Sep 07, 08:42

  Originally posted by udontknowme:

  my mom really likes to talk shit
  
  she just told some random friend of hers over the phone
  
  'my eldest child (me) hates to make friends'
  
  nonono...i dun mind this statement. not as much as others she makes...
  
  but im sick and tired of her talking shit about her kids to her friends
  like....sometimes she misses someone, a friend of hers...
  she'll call the person and say 'HI! my child really misses u and so im calling u now'
  
  these 2 obviously dun sound bad at all lah but im not gibing anymore assemples
  
  FRIK!

  I feel your pain T_T
  
• udontknowme

  11 Sep 07, 08:44

  ^
  
  your post gave me more pain
  
  fake ass
  
  
• LazerLordz

  11 Sep 07, 08:48

  Originally posted by udontknowme:

  ^
  
  your post gave me more pain
  
  fake ass
  
  

  well, I can't help you with the Mom problem, but for post stalkers, if they get on your nerves, just cool off and ignore them.
• dbowie

  11 Sep 07, 08:49

  .. your mum has brilliant ideas
• de_middle

  11 Sep 07, 08:57

  tell ur mom that ur friends are all here
• pokkagreentea

  11 Sep 07, 11:45

  
  my mom does the same thing too sometimes.
  
  I feel so helpless but when she goes too far, I just tell her to stop doing that 'cause it will hurt my feelings. Eventually, she understands and she seldom reveals my weaknesses to her friends. Dunno abt yr mom and but try to speak up for urself.
  
  
• kiseki

  11 Sep 07, 11:53

  Originally posted by udontknowme:

  my mom really likes to talk shit
  
  she just told some random friend of hers over the phone
  
  'my eldest child (me) hates to make friends'
  
  nonono...i dun mind this statement. not as much as others she makes...
  
  but im sick and tired of her talking shit about her kids to her friends
  like....sometimes she misses someone, a friend of hers...
  she'll call the person and say 'HI! my child really misses u and so im calling u now'
  
  these 2 obviously dun sound bad at all lah but im not gibing anymore assemples
  
  FRIK!

  mums are like that . my mum behave like that too . especially when i was younger . er but not the 2nd statement la . that is abit ..
  
  *pats udon*
• mistyblue

  11 Sep 07, 11:54

  U cannot control her mouth but you can control your ear
• oOprinceOo

  11 Sep 07, 12:45

  Originally posted by mistyblue:

  U cannot control her mouth but you can control your ear

  yea. lol . actually we kena design very funny lrh. our ears shld b allowed to auto close whn we wan
• Chris1988

  13 Sep 07, 17:57

  i think i used to experienced something similar when i was younger..
  
  mum: eh my boy boy score A for maths leh. your son how ah?
  
  mum friend: oh my ah boy say he score distinction leh. your ah boy score A? buay pai liao la.
  
  mum: *proceeds on to another topic*
  
  *hangs up the phone*
  
  mum: BOY AH! WHY ***** SON SCORE DISTINCTION YOU ONLY SCORE "A" AH?!
  
  boy: ...
• LyonK

  13 Sep 07, 17:59

  I think this would be the tip of the iceberg.
  There are bigger problems for you to come.
• BeautifulBetty

  15 Sep 07, 15:02

  TS, can you learn to type in proper English?
• kiss_my (_i_)

  15 Sep 07, 17:56

  just stfu
• gigabyte14

  15 Sep 07, 18:05

  Originally posted by BeautifulBetty:

  TS, can you learn to type in proper English?

  do you know what is censored?
• seotiblizzard

  15 Sep 07, 18:08

  well.
  wad can i say.
  
  Topic starter mah.
  nothing else to use except her kids.
  
• laurence82

  15 Sep 07, 18:09

  eh....u also behave like ur mum in a way
  
  
• nanren4ever

  15 Sep 07, 18:50

  Originally posted by udontknowme:

  my mom really likes to talk shit
  
  she just told some random friend of hers over the phone
  
  'my eldest child (me) hates to make friends'
  
  nonono...i dun mind this statement. not as much as others she makes...
  
  but im sick and tired of her talking shit about her kids to her friends
  like....sometimes she misses someone, a friend of hers...
  she'll call the person and say 'HI! my child really misses u and so im calling u now'
  
  these 2 obviously dun sound bad at all lah but im not gibing anymore assemples
  
  FRIK!

  Well, as long as u know ur mum loves u deep down, why do u care how she put u down? Do you really think ur mum enjoyed putting u down in front of other people? If so, then I would say u are really wrong. Think about the things ur mum did for u, such as wash clothes, cook dinner, iron clothes for u etc. All these are small acts, but its acts of love.
• Sagara

  16 Sep 07, 19:11

  heng my mum not so bo liao...
• dreamlander

  16 Sep 07, 20:18

  don't let your mum know too much about yourself, or she'll spread to all
• Xephone_xenon

  16 Sep 07, 20:21

  THATS THE PROBLEM.
  SOMETIMES PARENTS REALLY DO FARK UP STUFF BUT WE CANT DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT!
• Aaron8209

  16 Sep 07, 20:28

  weird....so wat??!!