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Is it better to remain as friends after breaking up?
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if cannot handle due to emotions clining...best to go separate ways....easier to forget & move on
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yeap yeap...separate ways the best...
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seperate ways for the initial period....the duration of that seperation should be based on a case to case basis though...rule of thumb...if you've been together for about a year...put a distance between yourself and the ex for half that period...
This is basically because when two people have been intimate and shared much of their lives together, they've developed a dependency (be it conciously or sub conciously) on that person. In order to completely sever the ties off that dependency, it would be best to use the old saying "time heals all wounds" because a wound is exactly what a break up is.
Staying in contact with the ex right after the break up will not allow for the wound to breathe....and to heal itself.
Add in an emotional heart and you get a very messy situation should the rational mind be put to test. -
If you break your frens things, you have to apologise and pay for it, going separate way is very irresponsible.Originally posted by iaintmad:Is it better to remain as friends after breaking up?
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-.-Originally posted by angel7030:If you break your frens things, you have to apologise and pay for it, going separate way is very irresponsible.
SHE BROKE MY HEART, BITTTTTTSSSSSSSSSSSSSSHHHHH
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Oh! my got, then she should apologise to you and buy you a new heart.Originally posted by iaintmad:-.-
SHE BROKE MY HEART, BITTTTTTSSSSSSSSSSSSSSHHHHH
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Look Darling, I apologise to you, i thot it was about breaking things, but actually it was about your emotional heart.
Dun worry lah, in my mind eye, you are so handsome and gentle, no problem of getting another gal ya, cry if u need to, but after that stand up like a man ya, and life goes on. Whether to be friend or not is another matter, why hang on to a sorrow love, i know it is hard and pain to forget, but who ask for it?
Learn from it and you will take love with more precaution ya.
I broke a lot of boys an men heart, but most of them created the love out of their own thinking, just like a few outing only, they think i like or loved them, then in the end, i had to clarify myself to them that we are just frens, and then they go mad and cry....lame -
if your heart is broken, why do you want to stay friends?Originally posted by iaintmad:-.-
SHE BROKE MY HEART, BITTTTTTSSSSSSSSSSSSSSHHHHH
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She wants us to maintain as friendsssssssssssssssss
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Cannot be brother and sister meh?Originally posted by iaintmad:She wants us to maintain as friendsssssssssssssssss -
That is what she wants, what do you wants? You dont know? Alright then..thats cool.Originally posted by iaintmad:She wants us to maintain as friendsssssssssssssssss -
YEA.Originally posted by LyonK:That is what she wants, what do you wants? You dont know? Alright then..thats cool.
I don't
brothers and sister?
like tt more difficult to move on lo -
You can remain as friend if you want too.
If you want to totally forget about her as she hurts you too much, it is also good to walk different path...
However, both you attitude towards each other may change forever due the the break. As you might be awkward about each other when chat or saw...
Anyway, it doesn't really matters...
The only thing that matter is, continue to live happily
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x2.Originally posted by de_middle:if cannot handle due to emotions clining...best to go separate ways....easier to forget & move on
heal faster = be heartless
heal slower = be gentleman n stay as fren.
ur choice. -
Originally posted by Cool-gal:x2.
heal faster = be heartless
heal slower = be gentleman n stay as fren.
ur choice.
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tio
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every she gives me the ): face.
i will xin luan (heart soften) -
give her this faceOriginally posted by iaintmad:every she gives me the ): face.
i will xin luan (heart soften)
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If you stay on longer with her, you will be hurt deeper.Originally posted by iaintmad:YEA.
I don't
brothers and sister?
like tt more difficult to move on lo
And you will come here to whin..I mean pour out your problems. -
grow up and stop acting like a kid.Originally posted by iaintmad:Is it better to remain as friends after breaking up?
or go seperate ways?
Only kids get angry over such a small thing but adults could handle it better. -
being friends.. good close friends. Intimate friends... u will never know when u may need each other again.. just for a brief moment .
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Ex-lovers could make better friends.
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go seperate ways!!!Originally posted by iaintmad:Is it better to remain as friends after breaking up?
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stick to her till she accept u... if she dun like, then just be friend but always say u love her and soso and miss her like last time.. watsoever la..
say u dun mind if she cannt accept u but tell her u just wan to care bout her . taht all u can do. lol !!!
Then flirt her again and play play... this is fun. -
Originally posted by angel7030:Oh! my got, then she should apologise to you and buy you a new heart.
Look Darling, I apologise to you, i thot it was about breaking things, but actually it was about your emotional heart.
Dun worry lah, in my mind eye, you are so handsome and gentle, no problem of getting another gal ya, cry if u need to, but after that stand up like a man ya, and life goes on. Whether to be friend or not is another matter, why hang on to a sorrow love, i know it is hard and pain to forget, but who ask for it?
Learn from it and you will take love with more precaution ya.
I broke a lot of boys an men heart, but most of them created the love out of their own thinking, just like a few outing only, they think i like or loved them, then in the end, i had to clarify myself to them that we are just frens, and then they go mad and cry....lame
That is funny .. the guys u met seems so desperate. lol