Numb to jealousy?
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Long story short, I don't feel jealous anymore...
Hypothetically speaking, I use like this girl. Well... I liked many girls, and I may have confused the "desire to know one better" with "liking her or something". Anyway, I never been in a relationship, and still is rather passive on such things, though am trying to have some balls.
I like this girl, we've been friends for about a year or so. She however, doesn't like me (I asked her myself). Recent events however have made me go back to status quo, empty and searching. Unfortunately this seems to be a 'miscalculation', as past reactions on similar events (some guy 'stealing' her away for instance) resulted in a repressed, but intense jealousy.
But now, I don't feel that jealousy anymore. Heck, I am happy for her and her latest guy.
Should I be worried about this?
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Congratulation! You're now more matured as compared to last time.
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no cause for worry, ur fine & it shld be this way
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In conclusion, you need to improve on your grammar, and you need to leave her alone for good, there are better flowers in the forest for your to prick instead of this one
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no, u must obtain her !!! fight to get her !!! aaaaa haa haa haa
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Yo, where have your jealousy emotion gone, you must hv jealousy in you, otherwise you are not perfect. Becoming dumb will destroy your health and pschologically speaking, create attentive deficiency in brain. So, go on and get jealous.Originally posted by kkyz13:Long story short, I don't feel jealous anymore...
Hypothetically speaking, I use like this girl. Well... I liked many girls, and I may have confused the "desire to know one better" with "liking her or something". Anyway, I never been in a relationship, and still is rather passive on such things, though am trying to have some balls.
I like this girl, we've been friends for about a year or so. She however, doesn't like me (I asked her myself). Recent events however have made me go back to status quo, empty and searching. Unfortunately this seems to be a 'miscalculation', as past reactions on similar events (some guy 'stealing' her away for instance) resulted in a repressed, but intense jealousy.
But now, I don't feel that jealousy anymore. Heck, I am happy for her and her latest guy.
Should I be worried about this?
However, let us take jealousy as part of a motivation to pull you up, like me, last time i got jealous of a gal who took away my dream guy, but then i pull up and look for myself another guy, suddenly WOW! so many dream guys come to me...so now I have a big problem, like a MCQ, choose A, B, C, D, or all the above or none of the above. Now this gal is jealous of me.
Please take Jealousy as the begining of wanting, a begining of challenge, a start to motivation to bring one up. Do not take jealousy as a depression, a born loser or that you are not good enough. Look around you, there are many people jealous of you too ya. -
What did you do huh? Thai spells , Malay Guna-Guna, or Western Spells?Originally posted by angel7030:Yo, where have your jealousy emotion gone, you must hv jealousy in you, otherwise you are not perfect. Becoming dumb will destroy your health and pschologically speaking, create attentive deficiency in brain. So, go on and get jealous.
However, let us take jealousy as part of a motivation to pull you up, like me, last time i got jealous of a gal who took away my dream guy, but then i pull up and look for myself another guy, suddenly WOW! so many dream guys come to me...so now I have a big problem, like a MCQ, choose A, B, C, D, or all the above or none of the above. Now this gal is jealous of me.
Please take Jealousy as the begining of wanting, a begining of challenge, a start to motivation to bring one up. Do not take jealousy as a depression, a born loser or that you are not good enough. Look around you, there are many people jealous of you too ya.
Why u flirt with guys till making them like you huh ??
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more like refuse to admit
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i think a certain jealous is a good things
as I think that all human have feeling and in a situation like ur, there can be a bit of jealousy as u like the girl and wanted to be with her..
but now the feeling is gone, maybe it is a good thing or a bad thing. Depend on how u look at it...
u dun not like her as before or u trying to compress on the feeling... only urself know it...
But I just wan to say, it is quite a normal thing in the situation like ur. It is how u due with the jealousy.
Whether u use it in a good way , to movitate u to become a better man
or u let jealousy control u, u do something evil...
I am curious , do u still like the girl???
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I spend them tiger beers, wear low cut T with my 36, mini bossini skirt with pure white legs and talk like a angel.Originally posted by Zarks:What did you do huh? Thai spells , Malay Guna-Guna, or Western Spells?
Why u flirt with guys till making them like you huh ??
Along with Gucci and a channel pink wet lip added on with a sharapova's ear clip, they fell one by one to their kneels holding their diamond rings from LEE HWA Jewellery. -
duh, weak guys...Originally posted by angel7030:I spend them tiger beers, wear low cut T with my 36, mini bossini skirt with pure white legs and talk like a angel.
Along with Gucci and a channel pink wet lip added on with a sharapova's ear clip, they fell one by one to their kneels holding their diamond rings from LEE HWA Jewellery. -
the reason for this thread spells something else which goes wrong already, if not your jealousyOriginally posted by kkyz13:Long story short, I don't feel jealous anymore...
Hypothetically speaking, I use like this girl. Well... I liked many girls, and I may have confused the "desire to know one better" with "liking her or something". Anyway, I never been in a relationship, and still is rather passive on such things, though am trying to have some balls.
I like this girl, we've been friends for about a year or so. She however, doesn't like me (I asked her myself). Recent events however have made me go back to status quo, empty and searching. Unfortunately this seems to be a 'miscalculation', as past reactions on similar events (some guy 'stealing' her away for instance) resulted in a repressed, but intense jealousy.
But now, I don't feel that jealousy anymore. Heck, I am happy for her and her latest guy.
Should I be worried about this? -
NASI KANG KANGOriginally posted by Zarks:What did you do huh? Thai spells , Malay Guna-Guna, or Western Spells?
Why u flirt with guys till making them like you huh ?? 
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Query: "do u still like the girl???"
Doubtful. I may "lust" for her attention, but currently I treat her as a regular friend, knowing that she won't like me back.
She however does exhibit a flirtatious attitude (which hooked me among many in the first place), but I try not to think to much about it. As much as it is now, I am pursuing someone else who is much more subtle, though I can't be bothered focusing right now.
The lack of jealousy however, is just unnerving me a bit. It is like I have conceded total defeat to the other guy, and being jealous reaps too little.
Though ChingAlvin may be right, could it be that somewhere along the line something has gone horribly wrong? And right now I am just unaware of what in me snapped? (That's what's worrying me) -
Originally posted by sEphIrOth:NASI KANG KANG
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The first sign of being gay.Originally posted by kkyz13:Long story short, I don't feel jealous anymore...
Hypothetically speaking, I use like this girl. Well... I liked many girls, and I may have confused the "desire to know one better" with "liking her or something". Anyway, I never been in a relationship, and still is rather passive on such things, though am trying to have some balls.
I like this girl, we've been friends for about a year or so. She however, doesn't like me (I asked her myself). Recent events however have made me go back to status quo, empty and searching. Unfortunately this seems to be a 'miscalculation', as past reactions on similar events (some guy 'stealing' her away for instance) resulted in a repressed, but intense jealousy.
But now, I don't feel that jealousy anymore. Heck, I am happy for her and her latest guy.
Should I be worried about this?
Be warned. -
Grat. u have done wad i couldn't had done. I also a easily jealous guy
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Congrats! You've grown up to become more mature!
* Hands TS a graduation certificate of si gina phase I course*
Now TS can qualify to start Phase II.....