help with girl!!
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im attach to this girl for 1 month le,we have been ok so far.then few days ago she msged and crapped with me.everything seems fine.but yesterday i heard her fren A tell me she wan me give up on her.then got another fren B say shes not mine anymore,i havent talk to my gf.wat u think i should do?
(jus hearing for opionions,thinking abt asking her face to face tml though) -
Maybe you should do it immediately. Call her and meet her near her house. Then have a talk with her about this issue.
May I ask how old two of you are? -
ask her...then come back & post again. Dun listen to gossips
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better give up..guess this gal is not serious at all..dun waste ur time
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Yes. Don't listen to gossip. The word is trust. You must trust her.
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ask her. maybe fren B is lusting for you. or maybe your gf is testing you through fren B.
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thank euu for agreeing wib meOriginally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Yes. Don't listen to gossip. The word is trust. You must trust her.
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Originally posted by de_middle:thank euu for agreeing wib me
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the 5min thing is irritating..hm..I really want to trust her but the 2 people i heard from are her close friends.they are also the first to know tat she like me..Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Yes. Don't listen to gossip. The word is trust. You must trust her. -
the closer the friends the more dangerous they areOriginally posted by mints:the 5min thing is irritating..hm..I really want to trust her but the 2 people i heard from are her close friends.they are also the first to know tat she like me.. -
1 month only ma.. puppy love one
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The 5min thingy is prevent spam from people creating multiple accounts. Bear with it, it'll be over after your 20th post.Originally posted by mints:the 5min thing is irritating..hm..I really want to trust her but the 2 people i heard from are her close friends.they are also the first to know tat she like me..
Close friends huh.
Maybe this is a test? To test your love for her?
It could be also the real thing too. And that her feeling for you is gone. -
i wonder whether TS got try something funny that he isn't aware offOriginally posted by Darkness_hacker99:The 5min thingy is prevent spam from people creating multiple accounts. Bear with it, it'll be over after your 20th post.
Close friends huh.
Maybe this is a test? To test your love for her?
It could be also the real thing too. And that her feeling for you is gone. -
aiyo...she test me for what.hm...guess i have to ask her tmr..Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:The 5min thingy is prevent spam from people creating multiple accounts. Bear with it, it'll be over after your 20th post.
Close friends huh.
Maybe this is a test? To test your love for her?
It could be also the real thing too. And that her feeling for you is gone.
Nopes..so far i havent try anything funny.Originally posted by de_middle:i wonder whether TS got try something funny that he isn't aware off -
Could it be..
You didn't buy her gifts/ flowers?
The time spent between two of you are too short?
You don't understand her feelings?
You quarreled with her? -
err....think think think againOriginally posted by mints:Nopes..so far i havent try anything funny. -
i do occasionaly buy her gifts.Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Could it be..
You didn't buy her gifts/ flowers?
The time spent between two of you are too short?
You don't understand her feelings?
You quarreled with her?
its not abt the quantity mah,its about the quality.but i do admit its kinda short.
she once told my fren i dont really understand her..but it happened quite long ago.
havent quarreled. -
only one month leh & u mention quite longOriginally posted by mints:i do occasionaly buy her gifts.
its not abt the quantity mah,its about the quality.but i do admit its kinda short.
she once told my fren i dont really understand her..but it happened quite long ago.
havent quarreled.
perhaps it good to let go, she could be shy to tell u the truth.
Try keeping quiet & see if she contact u, if no then what was being said was indeed true, how good idea anot -
Like many people in here will agree, Communication is really a very important factor in maintaining a healthy relationship.
Do communicate more often, tell her about how you feel and what are your opinions regard different issues. Then listen to her opinion and views. -
I really wish to..but i couldnt cus we are both busy nowadays tat we rarely have time for each other.but we really do treasure the times we had together..well for me,tat is.Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Like many people in here will agree, Communication is really a very important factor in maintaining a healthy relationship.
Do communicate more often, tell her about how you feel and what are your opinions regard different issues. Then listen to her opinion and views.
if this relationship really crumbles down then i shall take it as u dont receive as much as wat u give -
Attached 1 month only, no guarantee lah, guarantee must at least take one year of r/s ok. And please stop listen to A and B, later C will said another thing.Originally posted by mints:im attach to this girl for 1 month le,we have been ok so far.then few days ago she msged and crapped with me.everything seems fine.but yesterday i heard her fren A tell me she wan me give up on her.then got another fren B say shes not mine anymore,i havent talk to my gf.wat u think i should do?
(jus hearing for opionions,thinking abt asking her face to face tml though)
Talk to her, if she send crap again, you reply the shrimp and forget it. -
all r/s must go thru first mone then second month then slowly de mah..but i agree it gurantes only if it is at least a year..Originally posted by angel7030:Attached 1 month only, no guarantee lah, guarantee must at least take one year of r/s ok. And please stop listen to A and B, later C will said another thing.
Talk to her, if she send crap again, you reply the shrimp and forget it.
i meant crap in a good way..as in talk nonsense n jokes n stuff -
Reply the shrimp and eat it..Originally posted by angel7030:Attached 1 month only, no guarantee lah, guarantee must at least take one year of r/s ok. And please stop listen to A and B, later C will said another thing.
Talk to her, if she send crap again, you reply the shrimp and forget it. -
can gimme her no,? thankss
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Originally posted by DjMatrix:can gimme her no,? thankss
shes attach to me so dun bother
well..for now at least,dont know abt tml though..