Broken heart
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just had a good talk. and finally broke up. happy in some way because i know it's not my fault.
her feelings fade already so she was partially rude to me. and me being sensitive actually felt that so i got really agitated.
nothign to do whether i yelled or not.
comforting in a way that im not the bad guy. but i was dumped instead because her feelings faded early this week.
somehow, this girl just doens't have the maturity and commitment lah. i shall keep an eye on this traits next time. without them, no r/s can last i think -
Tsk Tsk,, terrible bf... tsk tsk,,,
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you screwed up, you don't deserve her.
Anyway u have someone else in mind, go for her.
It will end the same again, you don't know how to treasure someone, you just think since u get her, u won't lose her. wake up, its a girlfriend is not a toy where once u buy, no need to care liao...
anyway, like you say , your still a "youth" still got a long time to grow up. -
You're right. And that family friend is right.
How many more times do you want to go through this? i remember this one-liner I used to see somewhere in this forum; I shall live my life a happy single till someone comes along and makes me happier attached.
I'm not saying that you should give up at the first sight of touble. Understand that both of you are simply not ready to handle the demands of a r/s. I know it's difficult when you're stuck in the middle but you really have to make a firm decision.
Someone else will come along. -
sorry, not just you but sometimes i think...
2-3months together only, lots of ups and downs... fight like dunno how many times.... So many couples are facing this.
Why get together in the first place?
What caused all these ups and downs?
Why fight?
Why always threaten to break if you cherish the relationship? (Don't say it was the temper then blabla, thats bull.)
So many more why(s) I can list out.
Its only so short (the relationship), whats with all that ups and downs and fights etc?
Its really time to rethink bro. (and sisters out there).
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not only she needs time to think....u need it as well, make good use of this time.....as a mateer of fact, friday is too early to draw a conclusion.
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I'm really intrigued by what's in the human system that makes anyone go crazy and depressed when they are going to lose their love ones,literally.
I'm even more puzzled as to why humans would want to go thro such torment of a relationship and to the point of settling down and leading a monotonous life.
Why are humans putting their partner on the pedestal,that i too not understand.
A girl is a girl just like any other gal!
stop putting her on the pedestal.
Get another gal if this don't work out,by mathematical theroy,there's bound to be a high % of another gal who shares that same personality and intrest as her.
Go pack your bag and backpack for a few days in thailand or vietnam and u will know how insignificant your problems are as compared to these poor people who struggle to smooth their stomach daily. -
usually a relationship is unstable during the 1st year. Cause u need to adapt to the change in the time u spent together.
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Dump her , before she dumps you.
Don't be an idiot. Even if she comes back to you, the relationship will never be the same anymore.
Everyone needs to grow up.
Growing up sometimes means falling flat on your nose once a while. -
flawed.Originally posted by jojobeach:Dump her , before she dumps you.
Don't be an idiot. Even if she comes back to you, the relationship will never be the same anymore.
Everyone needs to grow up.
Growing up sometimes means falling flat on your nose once a while.
falling flat is only for weakings.
I only know "get up and get to u" -
Unless she gets to you first.Originally posted by boka:flawed.
falling flat is only for weakings.
I only know "get up and get to u" -
as u say that u already want to break uo with her...
I am sorry to hear abt it...
But I think that basically , you play a large part and the problem is u..
u are being insensitive , rude and a bad bf to her..
in a relationship, it is hard to say who is blame..
really, both of u need time off... as iut is causing a strain the r/s and both of u are tired and fed-up abt it..
Advise to u , put ur study first... get through ur exam week and after that solve the problems went both of u have better control of urself and ur feelings. -
Childish bastard u dun deserve here. Anyway she is running to other men soon cos all the action u do has decrease her interest to zero a big fat zero. U better grow up first la before steeping in r/s. CHildish gay.
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How old is this gay?Originally posted by xcloud23x:Childish bastard u dun deserve here. Anyway she is running to other men soon cos all the action u do has decrease her interest to zero a big fat zero. U better grow up first la before steeping in r/s. CHildish gay. -
eh
be like me
dun get a gf until later
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u go ditch the p6
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both la...Originally posted by oOprinceOo:u go ditch the p6
later.... after exam
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Why are there so many people who bash this guy ? Is it always the guy at fault in a relationship?
doko -
i feel TS shouldnt ahve edited his msg
that means we cant get full pics and maybe he nva give full and detailed details?
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no lah she's not p6 i assure u.
it's over already. i edited the whole thing because that was my PERCEPTION before i talked to her over it.
and i realized the other side of the story.
it's like 2 pple fighting and the person who gets punched will feel the pain physically and initially but ultimately is the bad person tt suffers.
it's both our first love but through this i know that though i have not been exactly a nice boyfriend (and now i do not think im bad actually), but at least im faithful. and i realized through this is that i can remain faithful to my partner. though there are ups and downs but i can get back up on my feet to actually love the person no matter how much distractions i face.
but now ive realized that i shouldn't expect everyone to be like me. faithfulness is not a prerequistive for relationships to start but without it it will end easily. many people think they do have it but they don't.
i do know im not at fault, and that's comforting. though i feel sad. initially putting all the blame on myself is prove that i really loved her. but now i know i have to move on, i shall not pity myself in anyway i guess.
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Let me guess,, She told you its not your fault but her feeling faded..Originally posted by Scape_Goat_Token:just had a good talk. and finally broke up. happy in some way because i know it's not my fault.
her feelings fade already so she was partially rude to me. and me being sensitive actually felt that so i got really agitated.
nothign to do whether i yelled or not.
comforting in a way that im not the bad guy. but i was dumped instead because her feelings faded early this week.
somehow, this girl just doens't have the maturity and commitment lah. i shall keep an eye on this traits next time. without them, no r/s can last i think
But do you know why the feeling faded ? Somehow a bit related on how you treated her actually..
Sigh, some gals are just too innocent.. They dont tell the truth cuz they dont wanna hurt anyone's feeling... This kind of gal just dont know how to be Thick Face and Black Heart -
ya she told me it was related.
but actually when i think back she didn't treat me very well too. so it's the same. she also did throw thantrums at me, demand things. unreasonable and stuff. -
How about sex, any problem with it?Originally posted by Scape_Goat_Token:ya she told me it was related.
but actually when i think back she didn't treat me very well too. so it's the same. she also did throw thantrums at me, demand things. unreasonable and stuff. -
Nvm la.. already broke rite? Mayb u both just hard to be togehter.. both also hot-tempered .. fire there , fire here..Originally posted by Scape_Goat_Token:ya she told me it was related.
but actually when i think back she didn't treat me very well too. so it's the same. she also did throw thantrums at me, demand things. unreasonable and stuff.
A bit hard to be together if no one can be understanding or tolerate..
But honestly, TS, i think you should really control your temper if anything happened also.. for your ex, if shes what like u said, then its not right also.. but mayb she behaved like that cuz u behaved the same... then you think she behaved like that, so you think its the same..
Actually not to blame anyone also...
But u did promise to her not to yell again rite? Yea i know its hard to control... its been with you from birth till now.. habit is not that easy to change in one day..
Nvm let her go, right now.. just focus on how to upgrade yourself and your income or study .. its better that way, and also by that way, u'l begin to think mature. We all used to throw temper to anyone de la.. but when you grow older, you'll know whats right or wrong..
Let her alone liou.. mayb let you both chilled out and one day you both might be together again.
My friend be together with her ex again after 4 years separated lor..
Right now just focus la.. slowly u 'll realise your weakness.. -
never commit!