How do you know you have get over with a broken r/s?

• PassionInAG

  19 Sep 07, 14:28

  Any ideas?
  
  Situation: 2 years relationship both of us enjoyed times being together, broke up 3 mths ago, due to her upset and disappointment in my broken promises.
  
  Currently: I chat with her very seldom(1 times per week) on face-to-face, msn and sms. Still hang out with her because we have common group of friends. Whenever I'm alone, my mind would drift to the happy times with her. Listen to certain songs will remind of her.
  
  We will be having dinner soon.
• mhcampboy

  19 Sep 07, 14:31

  2 years together... so it takes abt half of the time u were together to get over someone...
  
  so it will take u 1 yr..!
• PassionInAG

  19 Sep 07, 14:44

  lol, i guess i gotta spend e next 8 mths in NS
• Xephone_xenon

  19 Sep 07, 14:47

  Originally posted by PassionInAG:

  lol, i guess i gotta spend e next 8 mths in NS

  Thats a good way to forget.
• nanren4ever

  19 Sep 07, 16:04

  Originally posted by PassionInAG:

  Any ideas?
  

  I knew I had gotten over my ex when I
  1)looked at the pictures of us and feel nothing.
  2) go out with her alone, and I am not thinking of getting into her skirt
  3)saw her with her new bf, and I am able to smile and say congrats.
• de_middle

  19 Sep 07, 16:07

  never actually kept track of such things.....feelings just faded as time passes by
• angel7030

  19 Sep 07, 16:09

  Originally posted by de_middle:

  never actually kept track of such things.....feelings just faded as time passes by

  Huh! U got feeling one meh? I thot u only go for sex?
• dumbdumb!

  19 Sep 07, 16:11

  hmm. for me.. 1 and 1/2 year just past..
  
  i still think back sometimes.
• de_middle

  19 Sep 07, 16:21

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  Huh! U got feeling one meh? I thot u only go for sex?

  
  
• Chris1988

  19 Sep 07, 17:53

  eh at least now break not so bad. later you become the next co ckster to run out with the SAR21 rifle.
  
  from the way things are going for you i guess you haven't gotten over it bah. true no doubt NS is a good method to make you forget but make sure you don't slack off. if not at night you cannot sleep keep on think you next morn no energy + no mood.
  
  sometimes such stuff are inevitable. haiis.
• Zarks

  19 Sep 07, 18:02

  Originally posted by dumbdumb!:

  hmm. for me.. 1 and 1/2 year just past..
  
  i still think back sometimes.

  .
  
  hmm. for me.. 2 years just past..
  
  i still think back sometimes
• dumbdumb!

  19 Sep 07, 18:07

  Originally posted by Zarks:

  .
  
  hmm. for me.. 2 years just past..
  
  i still think back sometimes

  first love ah?
• yiha093

  19 Sep 07, 18:57

  when she sms/call/contact u and u dun feel anything.....
  juz feeling like, ' orh'
• popikachu

  19 Sep 07, 21:32

  Don't think of the word call 'patch'.
  
  If you still hope to be with her together, of course, you won't get over easily...
  
  A lot of people still hope of getting patch back with their ex, hoping that miracles will happen, thats why the sadness stays with them.
  
  Get over it...
  Lifes still goes on...
  You have to worried about your NS now
• Darkness_hacker99

  19 Sep 07, 21:34

  Time for you to come back to reality.
• PassionInAG

  19 Sep 07, 22:46

  Thanks for sharing!
  
  

  Originally posted by nanren4ever:

  I knew I had gotten over my ex when I
  1)looked at the pictures of us and feel nothing.
  2) go out with her alone, and I am not thinking of getting into her skirt
  3)saw her with her new bf, and I am able to smile and say congrats.

  1)Every I look at our pictures together, I would have a sweet feeling.
  2)That was part of the reason why we broke up, minor one though
  3)She hasn't got a bf yet, but she did say she still like me but we're not suitable.
  
  

  Originally posted by de_middle:

  never actually kept track of such things.....feelings just faded as time passes by

  Lol, I guess if you get a new one, then feelings will faded away, thats what happens to me. But right now, I have no mood or interest in getting a new one, just wanna concentrate on upgrading myself
  
  

  Originally posted by Chris1988:

  eh at least now break not so bad. later you become the next co ckster to run out with the SAR21 rifle.
  
  from the way things are going for you i guess you haven't gotten over it bah. true no doubt NS is a good method to make you forget but make sure you don't slack off. if not at night you cannot sleep keep on think you next morn no energy + no mood.
  
  sometimes such stuff are inevitable. haiis.
  

  Totally agreed with you man! You never know how NS could changed ppl life
  
  

  Originally posted by yiha093:

  when she sms/call/contact u and u dun feel anything.....
  juz feeling like, ' orh'
  

  Sms, i'll say 'orh' but calling and seeing her makes me think other way :S
  
  

  Originally posted by popikachu:

  Don't think of the word call 'patch'.
  
  If you still hope to be with her together, of course, you won't get over easily...
  
  A lot of people still hope of getting patch back with their ex, hoping that miracles will happen, thats why the sadness stays with them.
  
  Get over it...
  Lifes still goes on...
  You have to worried about your NS now
  

  True, thanks for your advice
  
  

  Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:

  Time for you to come back to reality.
  

  I'm back
  
  dumbdumb! and Zarks, thanks for sharing
  
  Edited!
• yiha093

  19 Sep 07, 22:55

  Originally posted by PassionInAG:

  Thanks for sharing!
  
  I'm back
  
  To: dumbdumb! and Zarks
  I think I feel be in your state, unless i got a new girlfriend or my mind has completed matured.

  i think the latter better
  not fair for the gal?
• Cool-gal

  19 Sep 07, 23:14

  when i realised im not thinking of him anymore.
  and im feelingless when chatting with him.
• dokono

  20 Sep 07, 00:50

  Originally posted by PassionInAG:

  Any ideas?
  
  Situation: 2 years relationship both of us enjoyed times being together, broke up 3 mths ago, due to her upset and disappointment in my broken promises.
  
  Currently: I chat with her very seldom(1 times per week) on face-to-face, msn and sms. Still hang out with her because we have common group of friends. Whenever I'm alone, my mind would drift to the happy times with her. Listen to certain songs will remind of her.
  
  We will be having dinner soon.

  Then it's time for a new girl dude. Or you can focus on other things that are non-relationship.
  
  doko
• PassionInAG

  20 Sep 07, 01:03

  Originally posted by Cool-gal:

  when i realised im not thinking of him anymore.
  and im feelingless when chatting with him.

  So what are you thinking about, that makes you not thinking of him? Or its just feelings fade off?
• PassionInAG

  20 Sep 07, 01:09

  Originally posted by dokono:

  Then it's time for a new girl dude. Or you can focus on other things that are non-relationship.
  
  doko

  Okay doko, i'm concentrate upgrading myself but not interested in other girls as well. Just wondering if there are any peeps have got over their past and didn't go into another r/s.
  
  To me, a new girl will solve everything but I don't want to fall into another such situation again so soon.
• Zarks

  20 Sep 07, 08:57

  When i see this thread's topic, it reminds me of my ex !!!
  
  WHY YOU NEED TO TORTURE ME WHEN IM TRYING TO FORGET MY EX, TS !!!
  
  WHY WHY WHY WHY!!!
  
  
  
  Just joking...
• PassionInAG

  20 Sep 07, 09:29