Need advice
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well its like this. there's 2 girls that have a crush on me.
girl a used 2 be my 'outside cca' junior.
girl b used 2 be my classmate.
girl a is my gf for 1 month n a few days now. but i kinda like her as a fren, not as a gf. however, i like girl b, n she sounded disappointed when i told her i'm having a gf now.
i wanna choose girl b, but i'm afraid that i'll hurt girl a in the process
so i wanna know who should i choose n wad to say so i wont hurt either party. pls help. thx =) -
in the first place....y r u together with A?
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Aiya... One month only nia. Just break with A and go for B.(unless u XXX with A)Originally posted by sygatefire:well its like this. there's 2 girls that have a crush on me.
girl a used 2 be my 'outside cca' junior.
girl b used 2 be my classmate.
girl a is my gf for 1 month n a few days now. but i kinda like her as a fren, not as a gf. however, i like girl b, n she sounded disappointed when i told her i'm having a gf now.
i wanna choose girl b, but i'm afraid that i'll hurt girl a in the process
so i wanna know who should i choose n wad to say so i wont hurt either party. pls help. thx =)
At young will make mistake one. Is a learning process but no more later like C or D,ok?
Sure of yrself and the one u love! -
See this story...
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=259363
So you sure who you like? or you sure who you don't like?
Or you sure you love them?
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U kinda like gal A as a fren only then u be together wit her ? Wth ?Originally posted by sygatefire:well its like this. there's 2 girls that have a crush on me.
girl a used 2 be my 'outside cca' junior.
girl b used 2 be my classmate.
girl a is my gf for 1 month n a few days now. but i kinda like her as a fren, not as a gf. however, i like girl b, n she sounded disappointed when i told her i'm having a gf now.
i wanna choose girl b, but i'm afraid that i'll hurt girl a in the process
so i wanna know who should i choose n wad to say so i wont hurt either party. pls help. thx =)
U better dont get any gf until you really confirm you really like that gal .. Dman it... are you out of your mind to be with some1 you only consider as a fren only ??! -
i dont understand what that Buddha trying to say lol ..Originally posted by popikachu:See this story...
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=259363
So you sure who you like? or you sure who you don't like?
Or you sure you love them?
Mayb i never be in the condition where i love other gal more than my gf -
You should burn yourself. -
next time decide properly....ur going to have a problem in everything u do if u cannot make up ur mind
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Hey dude it is far too complicated for me...
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thx for the advices =)
guess i missed out 1 part of the problem..
anyway i went out with A for 1 mnth b4 B revealed her feelings for me..just that she was too shy to say it
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close ur eyes,
follow ur heart
and everything will be fine -
errr. will bang the wall de. relationships is by action.Originally posted by ifish:close ur eyes,
follow ur heart
and everything will be fine
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SOP for solving this type of problemsOriginally posted by sygatefire:thx for the advices =)
guess i missed out 1 part of the problem..
anyway i went out with A for 1 mnth b4 B revealed her feelings for me..just that she was too shy to say it
If you feel you no longer love A then is better to break up with her.
One month hurt is better that years of regret.
Take some time off from both of them and find a nice quiet place by yourself and think about it.
At least you are honest with B by telling her you got a gf.
Is up to yourself now if you like B then break up with A.
If you like A then tell yourself that you should stand firm, tell B not to wait for you and to find someone who treats her better. -
Why? we can handle few guys at a go, u cannot handle two gals at a time meh? Choose D) all the above.Originally posted by sygatefire:well its like this. there's 2 girls that have a crush on me.
girl a used 2 be my 'outside cca' junior.
girl b used 2 be my classmate.
girl a is my gf for 1 month n a few days now. but i kinda like her as a fren, not as a gf. however, i like girl b, n she sounded disappointed when i told her i'm having a gf now.
i wanna choose girl b, but i'm afraid that i'll hurt girl a in the process
so i wanna know who should i choose n wad to say so i wont hurt either party. pls help. thx =) -
ltr kena find out he will die cham cham.Originally posted by angel7030:Why? we can handle few guys at a go, u cannot handle two gals at a time meh? Choose D) all the above. -
*ahem*
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nice piece of advice... u asking him to be a two-timer??Originally posted by angel7030:Why? we can handle few guys at a go, u cannot handle two gals at a time meh? Choose D) all the above.
wonderful... just dun complain when some guy two-time you... -
3 general solution
1. break with your current gf, stead with e girl u like more
pros: you are able to be with girl u like
cons: both girls know u change yr "love" quickly
2. continue your r/s
pros: both girls know you are faithful
cons: you will not be happy
3. break and stay single. For you to have think about who you really like
pros: you will not be happy but u can go out with 2 of them and able to choose
cons: their feeling might change some day[/b] -
Oh man I'd hate to be your friend. You'd try to date me and kiss me n sh*t.
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Hi Father,Originally posted by Father Lim:nice piece of advice... u asking him to be a two-timer??
wonderful... just dun complain when some guy two-time you...
Why not?
My grandfather also hv 2 wifeys and i heard my great great grandpa had 4 wifeys in the Manchu dynasty, so actually hor, guys can hv lots of gals and wife, is just that the laws today dun permit mah. In some ulu ulu places, man still can marry many wife u know. Places like Africa, cambodia, mynmar, malaysia, indonesia, and most muslim countries. But certainly not Singapore Ulu Pandan ya
And the funny part is all these wifeys can live together happily.