Types of Rejections faced in BGR
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LOLOriginally posted by selfobliged:concentrate on ur studies! dont be attached juz for the sake of being in a relationship.
In pri sch, ppl sae 'concentrate on ur studies first, more impt!'
In sec sch, ppl sae 'concentrate on ur studies first, more impt!'
In JC/ploy, ppl sae same thing
In university, ppl sae same thing
Finally when u go out to work, ppl sae 'focus on ur career first, establish urself'
No wonder s'poreans getting married later and later...some 40 plus liao still never been in a relationship before -.- -
Frankly, as a guy whose 1st relationship was when he was 13, I would definitely disagree with the statement people make about concentrating on studies 1st. I would say that as long as you are mature enough, it doesn't really matter when or where u got attached.Originally posted by annoy-you-must:LOL
In pri sch, ppl sae 'concentrate on ur studies first, more impt!'
In sec sch, ppl sae 'concentrate on ur studies first, more impt!'
In JC/ploy, ppl sae same thing
In university, ppl sae same thing
Finally when u go out to work, ppl sae 'focus on ur career first, establish urself'
No wonder s'poreans getting married later and later...some 40 plus liao still never been in a relationship before -.- -
Oh no there are many types of rejection.Originally posted by Pion:There is only two types of rejection.
Boy rejects girl.
Girl rejects boy.
That is all.
Boy also can reject boy mah
Gal also can reject gal
Boy reject gal
Gal reject boy
Uncle reject Auntie
Auntie reject uncle
Gal reject Uncle
Auntie reject boy
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My goodness, i've got a feeling that you'll need a few more years to TRULY experience what courtship and relationship really is.Originally posted by law_chng:Well, I have been thru all the highs and lows of BGRs and I just wanna share the types of rejections that I have faced in my life in regard to BGRs. Anyway I have got over them a long time ago and what doesn't kill you definately makes you stronger. For the ppl who are currently in the downs of relationship, I can say that it is very natural and it is just a part of the whole process. In this world, there is no such thing as perfect relationship, but there is thing such as best relationship! ^_^
Anyway, enough said. I would like to share the rejections that I faced in the previous BGRs and here it goes...
1. You say you like her, but then the gal in return say she like you too and she also said that she like her classmates, her parents, her teachers, her siblings, blah blah blah...
2. The gal borrow something from you for a period of some 3 months. But then out of the blue, three weeks later, she sms you and say to meet up to return you something. You meet up at the proposed meeting place. But then that gal didn't turn up. Instead another unknown friend turn up in place of her and return you the borrowed item. After receving back the item, you sms the gal and even call the gal, but no reply.
3. A gal that you know sms you and ask you to be her boyfriend. You reply back and say okay. The next day you meet up with her, she talk to you with a cheeky smile and say "Let's be brother and sister, okay?"
4. You ask the same girl out for so many times but then in every outing, she always bring her younger brother along and it is just so difficult to strike up a decent conversation with her 'cos she is always engaging in small talks with her younger brother. And you are no difference from a lamp post.
5. You never hold that girl's hand before. One day, you cautiously hold her hand at the right moment. You are nervous and your hand is shaking a bit already. And then the girl calm you down and tell you not to worry 'cos she is always holding hands with her younger brother.
6. After many weeks and months of going out with the same girl, you realise that it is always you who initiate the outing and plan out all the activities but the gal never organised anything with you at all in the first place.
7. You and the gal went to home visit a neighbour. The neigbour ask the gal whether the guy is her boyfriend. The gal replied by saying that he is just a classmate. After hearing that, you are already looking away.
8. Sometimes the gal last minute throw paper aeroplanes at you and it is not just one time, but many many times.
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And many many more BGR rejections that I have probably forgotten. And anyway, I have already gotten over all these emo-feelings of these lows and I have already move on with my life and re-creating myself anew to be a better person now! ^_^
Feel free to add on!
Have a good weekend everyone. Cheers!!! -
i totally agree with this man!! NICE!Originally posted by Pion:There is only two types of rejection.
Boy rejects girl.
Girl rejects boy.
That is all. -
Originally posted by Tian Long Jiu Bu:sound true!!! but i like the num 5 de.. lol.. funny
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Yes... indeed... Im pretty sure you're in agony, right de-middle ?Originally posted by angel7030:Actually you are damn sad, writing this thread is just to self contain yourself, nothing more, nothing less.
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Better put all those in a short way.Originally posted by angel7030:Oh no there are many types of rejection.
Boy also can reject boy mah
Gal also can reject gal
Boy reject gal
Gal reject boy
Uncle reject Auntie
Auntie reject uncle
Gal reject Uncle
Auntie reject boy
etc etc etc
Yin Yang -
wah 1 & 3 sure are fu%k upOriginally posted by law_chng:Well, I have been thru all the highs and lows of BGRs and I just wanna share the types of rejections that I have faced in my life in regard to BGRs. Anyway I have got over them a long time ago and what doesn't kill you definately makes you stronger. For the ppl who are currently in the downs of relationship, I can say that it is very natural and it is just a part of the whole process. In this world, there is no such thing as perfect relationship, but there is thing such as best relationship! ^_^
Anyway, enough said. I would like to share the rejections that I faced in the previous BGRs and here it goes...
1. You say you like her, but then the gal in return say she like you too and she also said that she like her classmates, her parents, her teachers, her siblings, blah blah blah...
2. The gal borrow something from you for a period of some 3 months. But then out of the blue, three weeks later, she sms you and say to meet up to return you something. You meet up at the proposed meeting place. But then that gal didn't turn up. Instead another unknown friend turn up in place of her and return you the borrowed item. After receving back the item, you sms the gal and even call the gal, but no reply.
3. A gal that you know sms you and ask you to be her boyfriend. You reply back and say okay. The next day you meet up with her, she talk to you with a cheeky smile and say "Let's be brother and sister, okay?"
4. You ask the same girl out for so many times but then in every outing, she always bring her younger brother along and it is just so difficult to strike up a decent conversation with her 'cos she is always engaging in small talks with her younger brother. And you are no difference from a lamp post.
5. You never hold that girl's hand before. One day, you cautiously hold her hand at the right moment. You are nervous and your hand is shaking a bit already. And then the girl calm you down and tell you not to worry 'cos she is always holding hands with her younger brother.
6. After many weeks and months of going out with the same girl, you realise that it is always you who initiate the outing and plan out all the activities but the gal never organised anything with you at all in the first place.
7. You and the gal went to home visit a neighbour. The neigbour ask the gal whether the guy is her boyfriend. The gal replied by saying that he is just a classmate. After hearing that, you are already looking away.
8. Sometimes the gal last minute throw paper aeroplanes at you and it is not just one time, but many many times.
.
.
.
And many many more BGR rejections that I have probably forgotten. And anyway, I have already gotten over all these emo-feelings of these lows and I have already move on with my life and re-creating myself anew to be a better person now! ^_^
Feel free to add on!
Have a good weekend everyone. Cheers!!!
The worst i have face is just " Sorry O'lvl is coming"
lucky me or unlucky me
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1) The girl says she is touched and all but wanna concentrate on her studies. But then, still can go out and talk cock. But after everything no reply or give excuses she is busy not free....Originally posted by law_chng:Well, I have been thru all the highs and lows of BGRs and I just wanna share the types of rejections that I have faced in my life in regard to BGRs. Anyway I have got over them a long time ago and what doesn't kill you definately makes you stronger. For the ppl who are currently in the downs of relationship, I can say that it is very natural and it is just a part of the whole process. In this world, there is no such thing as perfect relationship, but there is thing such as best relationship! ^_^
Anyway, enough said. I would like to share the rejections that I faced in the previous BGRs and here it goes...
1. You say you like her, but then the gal in return say she like you too and she also said that she like her classmates, her parents, her teachers, her siblings, blah blah blah...
2. The gal borrow something from you for a period of some 3 months. But then out of the blue, three weeks later, she sms you and say to meet up to return you something. You meet up at the proposed meeting place. But then that gal didn't turn up. Instead another unknown friend turn up in place of her and return you the borrowed item. After receving back the item, you sms the gal and even call the gal, but no reply.
3. A gal that you know sms you and ask you to be her boyfriend. You reply back and say okay. The next day you meet up with her, she talk to you with a cheeky smile and say "Let's be brother and sister, okay?"
4. You ask the same girl out for so many times but then in every outing, she always bring her younger brother along and it is just so difficult to strike up a decent conversation with her 'cos she is always engaging in small talks with her younger brother. And you are no difference from a lamp post.
5. You never hold that girl's hand before. One day, you cautiously hold her hand at the right moment. You are nervous and your hand is shaking a bit already. And then the girl calm you down and tell you not to worry 'cos she is always holding hands with her younger brother.
6. After many weeks and months of going out with the same girl, you realise that it is always you who initiate the outing and plan out all the activities but the gal never organised anything with you at all in the first place.
7. You and the gal went to home visit a neighbour. The neigbour ask the gal whether the guy is her boyfriend. The gal replied by saying that he is just a classmate. After hearing that, you are already looking away.
8. Sometimes the gal last minute throw paper aeroplanes at you and it is not just one time, but many many times.
.
.
.
And many many more BGR rejections that I have probably forgotten. And anyway, I have already gotten over all these emo-feelings of these lows and I have already move on with my life and re-creating myself anew to be a better person now! ^_^
Feel free to add on!
Have a good weekend everyone. Cheers!!!
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The above is nothing man.Originally posted by law_chng:Well, I have been thru all the highs and lows of BGRs and I just wanna share the types of rejections that I have faced in my life in regard to BGRs. Anyway I have got over them a long time ago and what doesn't kill you definately makes you stronger. For the ppl who are currently in the downs of relationship, I can say that it is very natural and it is just a part of the whole process. In this world, there is no such thing as perfect relationship, but there is thing such as best relationship! ^_^
Anyway, enough said. I would like to share the rejections that I faced in the previous BGRs and here it goes...
1. You say you like her, but then the gal in return say she like you too and she also said that she like her classmates, her parents, her teachers, her siblings, blah blah blah...
2. The gal borrow something from you for a period of some 3 months. But then out of the blue, three weeks later, she sms you and say to meet up to return you something. You meet up at the proposed meeting place. But then that gal didn't turn up. Instead another unknown friend turn up in place of her and return you the borrowed item. After receving back the item, you sms the gal and even call the gal, but no reply.
3. A gal that you know sms you and ask you to be her boyfriend. You reply back and say okay. The next day you meet up with her, she talk to you with a cheeky smile and say "Let's be brother and sister, okay?"
4. You ask the same girl out for so many times but then in every outing, she always bring her younger brother along and it is just so difficult to strike up a decent conversation with her 'cos she is always engaging in small talks with her younger brother. And you are no difference from a lamp post.
5. You never hold that girl's hand before. One day, you cautiously hold her hand at the right moment. You are nervous and your hand is shaking a bit already. And then the girl calm you down and tell you not to worry 'cos she is always holding hands with her younger brother.
6. After many weeks and months of going out with the same girl, you realise that it is always you who initiate the outing and plan out all the activities but the gal never organised anything with you at all in the first place.
7. You and the gal went to home visit a neighbour. The neigbour ask the gal whether the guy is her boyfriend. The gal replied by saying that he is just a classmate. After hearing that, you are already looking away.
8. Sometimes the gal last minute throw paper aeroplanes at you and it is not just one time, but many many times.
.
.
.
And many many more BGR rejections that I have probably forgotten. And anyway, I have already gotten over all these emo-feelings of these lows and I have already move on with my life and re-creating myself anew to be a better person now! ^_^
Feel free to add on!
Have a good weekend everyone. Cheers!!!
Try this gal refused to be the guy's gf but asked him to buy stuff for her.
The guy bought until he have no money and the gal force the guy to loan from her to pay for her stuff. She forced him to write an IOU and interest rate at 20% per month for her loan.
My advise rejections are good for your $$. -
Aiyo, so pathetic must go to the extent of listing the types of rejections. AFter rejections, one will go through depression and so on. But don't indulge too long in it. it is of utmost importance that you learn from mistakes from the relationship and move on.
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Yeah. Thx peeps for responding...
Usually the hardest part abt BGR is the healing part and once you get over it, you will see a "rainbow".
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Mine is :
She and I liker each other . I took the initiative and ask for stead .
She replied "I don't know"
Days later , she started to ignore me.
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Exactly.Originally posted by annoy-you-must:LOL
In pri sch, ppl sae 'concentrate on ur studies first, more impt!'
In sec sch, ppl sae 'concentrate on ur studies first, more impt!'
In JC/ploy, ppl sae same thing
In university, ppl sae same thing
Finally when u go out to work, ppl sae 'focus on ur career first, establish urself'
No wonder s'poreans getting married later and later...some 40 plus liao still never been in a relationship before -.-
But dhen , "focus on your carrier" isnt made out by other people . Its made out by ourselves . Cuz guys scared "No $$ = No Honey."
Frankly speaking , take a look at this :
Going steady at youth age , the girl will see if he is handsome or not . If handsome , most likely stead. If fugly , reject flat .
When grown up , the girl will see whether he got the "5 Cs" . If don't have , no way of accepting him.
But well , that applies to some girls . I knew there are many girls who are good !
The " Concentrate on your studies first ! Don't do other redundant stuffs " Is really a pain in the arse.
Everything about our youth life is study study study ! Doesn't that seemed like 'no life' ? Even TV also shows this ! Movies aren't spared too ! When the kids play games they say "Wei wei ! Go study go study ! Exam coming liao ! Don't play so much games ! " Then their games all throw away . Then after exams , some of their parents say " Also no games ! Eu scored 90/100 , but lose out to that fatso ?? GO STUDY THIS INSTANT ! Your holiday will be spent on studying ! No playing for you this holiday !" This is too much . I know its for our well being , for fear that we might not get a good job , but do you really think forcing your child study would really help ? Even if he has gotten a good job , is he/she truly happy?
No wonder so many guys have little experience in r/s and is seeking for help . I really sympathize them . -
Please understand that some of us gals said that we are taken is not true, sometime we just want to feel owed and proud but actually we have no one.Originally posted by wonderamazement:You ask her to be your GF but she says she's taken... standard one.