What should i do?
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Apple, U hav seen so many advices whnich in the end will hav 2 kinds of endings, a happi ending & a sad ending.
Relatioship love is not the onli ting in the world. U still hav frenship love & kinship love.
Rite now, ur exams is the MOST IMPORTANT ting coz it'l affect ur future. Y R U afraid of not able to find a good BF or even HUBBY when U're successful in ur career?
So cheer up & place ur priority right.
Copnsider abt tis prob onli after ur exams.
All the best.
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yep have seen many advice and i know all of you have good intentions
i'm really grateful to everyone.
I will not let this thingy affect my exams as i know the importance of it. And personally i think me & my boyfren really have a big misunderstanding & thus e quarrel. Though everything is fine now, i know tht there's alot of repair to do & both of us have to do it together. If our realtionship could become stronger after this, best. if not, i will let it go & move on. We can't confirm tht we will not quarrel again next time, but at least now we understand one another even better.
I also think tht it is not the words he said tht is importnt, but his actions. I can't say tht he is always there for me but he lighted up my world just like e rose in The Little Prince. I can't tell myself for sure tht we will grow old together but at least i've tried.
everyone meant well. Really appreciate them. thanx! -
Hmm.. we can see him in two sides..Originally posted by ^apple^:sigh... i dunnoe wat got into me, i msg my boyfren & told him tht i do not trust him. I immediately regretted it but wat's done is done. I hurt him so much... He refused to forgive me. What should i do?? I'm feeling so sad & depressed now. I really dun wanna lose him....
1) He nv forgive u bcos he really loved u too much and u hurt him so deeply, he's so dissappointed and noe tt ur relationship cant be salvage cos u gonna do it again, he broke up.. In the case.. he's a really gd guy.. but his tinking is kinda not practical.. he might be loving u till now.. why not try asking him?
2) He actually wans to dump u frm the start.. now is the chance... Den this kinda guy u can forget him alreadi.. no pt holding onto nth
Now u haf to decide.. which category is ur guy in.. based on the time u 2 haf been spending together.. u gotta clarify his feelings to u 1st.. dun wait foolishly.. if he's still loving u.. there maybe a chance ..
Judge urself.. onli u noe the best..
Regards,
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Cool down, there r times when ppl make mistakes. Voicing out matters of heart is a form of honesty to each other. Dun choose to ignore each other if u both realli love each other, rather tok it out and come out with a giv n take situation.Originally posted by ^apple^:i got told him e reasons(i dun wish to say them), i apologised already but he said i hurt him too deeply. Guess i have to give him time to cool down... Shit!!!!!!!! THis is e stupidest thing i had ever done