I really like him.what should I do?
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the road is already there, and you still wanna wait?Originally posted by ozzy_gurl:i spent 7 weeks working with him every day last year.....we know each other.
i told him i want to take time to see how things work out.
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the only reason i dont wanan jump into it is because i believe we could reallt have something,and i dont wanan ruin it by rushing.
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when ppl in love ,they tend to be blinded for the possibilities in future.. sigh
then, when something happened , they cried out for the loss.. sigh.. love.. -
look for older guy lah.Originally posted by ozzy_gurl:the only reason i dont wanan jump into it is because i believe we could reallt have something,and i dont wanan ruin it by rushing. -
must make sure he loves you the way you love himOriginally posted by ozzy_gurl:the only reason i dont wanan jump into it is because i believe we could reallt have something,and i dont wanan ruin it by rushing.
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Your problem is you are dying to find the love of your life and settle down.
The problem is, it is not him. -
Yes, it is meOriginally posted by Pion:Your problem is you are dying to find the love of your life and settle down.
The problem is, it is not him. -
Careful what you say, the dead girl spirit from your office may get jealous.Originally posted by Zarks:Yes, it is me -
im not at my office heheOriginally posted by Pion:Careful what you say, the dead girl spirit from your office may get jealous. -
Take a leap of faith. Go with the flow and decide later..
Ahead of that path, both of you will face other obstacles and be tested.
Talk to him again about your insecurity.
He probably don't know
Plan it out. -
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Ozzy_gurl,Originally posted by ozzy_gurl:Ok....there is this guy who lives in singapore,who likes me a lot and has asked me to get to know him and his family and one day settle down. I am planning to move to singapore to live and work next year....so there is no distance issues. However, he is younger than me..he is 19. I'm 21. I just don't know if he is really ready to settle down like he says he wants to. What should I do?
I like him a lot, and I would love to be with him, but I don't want him doing anything he's not ready for.
The only way for you to find out if he is the guy for you, is to try out this relationship here in Singapore together.
Spending more time together may unravel a lot more things and issues you are unaware of each other right now.
Perhaps along the way, he may find you unsuitable for him, or vice versa.
Don't come here expecting to settle down with him yet.
Take this as a chance to experience something new.
Give yourself a couple of years more to decide if this is the life you want.
If things work out, it's a bonus.
If it doesn't, don't go back home broken hearted.
Also, you'd want to find out more about immigration for yourself or him.
It is not easy to navigate this hurdle.
Find out how, and how long is the duration.
There may be income/qualifications requirements which either of you don't have right now due to your age/experience.
Many international couples got stuck at the immigration level. Don't become a victim, it can be very heart wrenching. -
Time changes things, don't go too deep first or you will regret.
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yes.. dont penetrate too deep.. you know ?
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not addicted indeedOriginally posted by Zarks:yes.. dont penetrate too deep.. you know ?
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Yo, most older guys with no gf or married got psycho problem lah.Originally posted by dreamykite:look for older guy lah.
Bian Tai liao. -
nani nani poo pooOriginally posted by hisoka:will brek soon de no worries
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huh ?Originally posted by angel7030:nani nani poo poo -
U're both still very young. imho it's okay to be dating at this point, getting to know each other, but way too early to settle. Plus, he's a guy... 19, and Singaporean at that. Very high chance he's just having a crush, and he's put you up on a pedestal.. what he "loves" is an ideal, and not the whole you. Things really change when you actually get to live with a person.Originally posted by ozzy_gurl:Ok....there is this guy who lives in singapore,who likes me a lot and has asked me to get to know him and his family and one day settle down. I am planning to move to singapore to live and work next year....so there is no distance issues. However, he is younger than me..he is 19. I'm 21. I just don't know if he is really ready to settle down like he says he wants to. What should I do?
I like him a lot, and I would love to be with him, but I don't want him doing anything he's not ready for. -
True True,Originally posted by spinsugar:U're both still very young. imho it's okay to be dating at this point, getting to know each other, but way too early to settle. Plus, he's a guy... 19, and Singaporean at that. Very high chance he's just having a crush, and he's put you up on a pedestal.. what he "loves" is an ideal, and not the whole you. Things really change when you actually get to live with a person.
NOrmaly we always forgot that we sometimes love some1 due to how "ideal" they are.. once that no more "ideal" , u can immediately find yourself that they are not ideal anymore and your feeling can change..