do you have such friends?
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when ple take me for granted, i will drop them for good.
but at least, i noe i've done my part as fren b4. -
You treat her as friend does not mean she treat you as friend
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Does she happen to have initials of CSL?Originally posted by numby:i got 1 female friend who seems to take me for granted. when she faces problems, she will come complain to me and so. but other than that, she seems to disappear. She even asked once that she seems to share her problems but i didn't share...hmm...but how to share when she seems to be missing...i was thinking
even if get to see her online sometimes, she will always say she's busy...seems load of bullshit about being friends needing to share worries and happiness. only 1 way traffic of worries from her...so very fake friend i find her.. its even worse when she says can meet up for chat, but when try to meet her over a cuppa of coffee or something, it will be always a case of no time. but always got time for other friends. to me, it seems that this is a case of mis-placed friendship
do you guys have any such friends, be it guys or gers?
because i have a friend exactly as you described.. wondering same person or not. -
You are lucky she took you for granted. If she took you for god-given, you will have to take her shoes off and lick her all the way up from there.Originally posted by numby:i got 1 female friend who seems to take me for granted. when she faces problems, she will come complain to me and so. but other than that, she seems to disappear. She even asked once that she seems to share her problems but i didn't share...hmm...but how to share when she seems to be missing...i was thinking
do you guys have any such friends, be it guys or gers?
Aah, such gals are a dime plenty in modern day SG. -
the world is so big... so many more pple for you to know... why bother about one person who don't even bother about you?
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Hi,
Think I got the same situation here. Just got to know this girl, the moment i saw her, my heart really melt. So i managed to get her number... Called her up and chat for a while. I was quite stright forward, so I told her I am interested in her.
Week passed, and no improvement, always sms her or called her, she will be busy, and said she usually don't reply sms during wok, so was expecting her to call me or sms me when she's free. After so long, I called her up and she's drinking with her colleagues, i was like "WTF, thought you are still working?"
I always sms her but always no reply from from her, or suddenly she will reply you and then disappeared again. Always said she's busy, or things etc. Recently, I gave her the tickets for the Sammi Cheng concert and flower, said nothing, just a thank you,appreciate it. I was really sad and disappointed, at least can call me and tell me personally right?
Asked her out a few times, but alwys no reply from her. I was really pissed, I felt like a fool!
I am trying to just forget this girl, I think it's really not worth trying any harder. -
Never fall in love or go after ger such as her.... else u juz end up going down the AA route.... It is pretty obvious that she dun hold u on her top priority list, as a fren or a potential partner. Juz take the high road when it come to ppl like them.
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ignore lor
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yeah... I have learnt this term from club 30 a few weeks ago...
it is called "emotional vampire"
Search the internet... got lots of information on it if it does gives u problem... -
wah haha, she sucked the daylight out of you?Originally posted by ispyyy:yeah... I have learnt this term from club 30 a few weeks ago...
it is called "emotional vampire"
Search the internet... got lots of information on it if it does gives u problem... -
everyone have them... it would depends whether you want to give a f about them.... -
She just treat u like dirt.. not a friend at all..
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If the girl is treating you like this, it's probably because she thinks you're only being nice because you want something from her...thats how they would rationalise their behaviour towards you to be "fair".
You can either..
1) show her that you're genuinely her friend by being there for her without expecting any returns. (This is a long term process)
2) make it known to her that there are no romatic feelings for her at all yet still be her friend.
3) weigh out everything that has happened between the 2 of you thus far and decide whether it would be worth the effort and time to keep her as a friend or to cut your losses early.
I would cut my losses cuz it sounds to me like you'r getting a little bitter and thats never good for the soul.
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lol, i've got lots of friends who are like that.
some are from church too -
Ya, all dumbdumb ones.Originally posted by dumbdumb!:lol, i've got lots of friends who are like that.
some are from church too -
nice guys finish last