nth to say?

• igotaproblemT_T

  1 Oct 07, 00:48

  my gf and i got a problem
  i am 13 and she is 13 too...
  we are having a online r/s
  that doesnt mean that we are playing, and yes
  we have met
  we sumtimes chat on phone, now we chat everyday
  but sumtimes she complains that i got nth to say, while she dun say
  anything and juz keep quiet
  i really dunoe wad to do le
  am i in the wrong?!
  sumtimes she says, if we cant even talk on the phone,
  wad are we gona do when we meet up again!?
  haiz...
  help
  i noe i small and muz study la... ><
  
• gigabyte14

  1 Oct 07, 00:50

  okie, let me ask,
  
  met? how many times? once?
  
  and also, meeting up is a good way to spice up the r/s
  
  online/chat will only worsen it, not keeping it going.
• FBI

  1 Oct 07, 00:52

  it's like that de.. once u 2 are better, then 2 wil talk better
• igotaproblemT_T

  1 Oct 07, 00:54

  met once only
  then smore got frens
  
  
  fk the 5mins
  seriously
• yiha093

  1 Oct 07, 00:56

  meet more...?
  oh ya, happy waiting
• ^tamago^

  1 Oct 07, 01:00

  Learn how to choose interesting topics lor.
• gigabyte14

  1 Oct 07, 01:00

  Originally posted by igotaproblemT_T:

  met once only
  then smore got frens
  
  
  fk the 5mins
  seriously

  i knew it. once.
  
  why can't you just tell her to go out with you, alone?
  
  and stop using your friends as an excuse.
  
  if you want a r/s, it's your responsibility to keep it going
  
  she needs to be pampered 1, must remember
  
  and also, what do you 2 talk about usually?
• igotaproblemT_T

  1 Oct 07, 01:05

  gona meet up soon le.... after exam, movies i suppose
  hmmm.... wad we usually talk bout, daily life, her frens, my frens ba,
  thats ard that
• skeujin

  1 Oct 07, 01:10

  you are both just 13.
  
  there nuthg much in yr life that is worth talking about... n yr life has still been short so far. how many things can u talk about beside the weathe n wats nice on kids central?
  
  worst come to worse jus talk about school work n help each other with homework lor.
• gigabyte14

  1 Oct 07, 01:10

  Originally posted by igotaproblemT_T:

  gona meet up soon le.... after exam, movies i suppose
  hmmm.... wad we usually talk bout, daily life, her frens, my frens ba,
  thats ard that

  then let me ask you
  
  if you've been playing the same game for 3 years, would you feel bored with it?
  
  girls are humans, as you are too.
  
  and also, movies only?
  
  something more interesting leh.
  
  movies are like, urgh, so common
  
  
• AndrewPKYap

  1 Oct 07, 01:12

  Originally posted by gigabyte14:

  then let me ask you
  
  if you've been playing the same game for 3 years, would you feel bored with it?
  
  girls are humans, as you are too.
  
  and also, movies only?
  
  something more interesting leh.
  
  movies are like, urgh, so common
  
  

  Don't kar pai tua sway
• gigabyte14

  1 Oct 07, 01:13

  Originally posted by skeujin:

  you are both just 13.
  
  there nuthg much in yr life that is worth talking about... n yr life has still been short so far. how many things can u talk about beside the weathe n wats nice on kids central?
  
  worst come to worse jus talk about school work n help each other with homework lor.

  can complain and whine also
• gigabyte14

  1 Oct 07, 01:14

  Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:

  Don't kar pai tua sway

  my hokkien not that good
• igotaproblemT_T

  1 Oct 07, 01:14

  of cuz movie is common la
  wad i gona do when watching is totally not ( knn not extreme kind la)
• popikachu

  1 Oct 07, 01:19

  Good that you know it is important to study.
  
  Sec 1 i assume?
  Don't neglect your studies as sec 1 is the basic of everything. If you fail Sec 1, chances are you will continue to fail after this. It is just like an new start. Exam are near also, they should be your Biggest problem now and not relationship.
  
  Anyway, back to your problem posted.
  
  What i feel is that your problem is not 'nothing to say' but more of 'not close to each other' or 'how to get both parties interested'...
  
  Online relationship DON'T WORK.
  Bring the online relationship into real life.
  Go out more together...
  Instead of msn, email, call her...
  
  Normally, nothing to say is because of limited topics.
  And limited topics is cause by not being close enough or shyness...
  
  Again, this is YOUR relationship can we can only advice you...
  How you want to do it, it's your choice...
  Think before you act.
  If not, both of you might get into a wrong situation whereby both parties became awkward and no ones talk... That is worst then 'no topic'...
  
  Good luck on both you studies and relationship.
  Again, studies come first ^^
  
• cApitaland

  1 Oct 07, 01:19

  you can do sports.
• gigabyte14

  1 Oct 07, 01:21

  Originally posted by igotaproblemT_T:

  of cuz movie is common la
  wad i gona do when watching is totally not ( knn not extreme kind la)

  nono, i mean
  
  other than taking to movies, u can also bring her to other places 1 ma
  
  more fresh, and also better
  
  
• de_middle

  1 Oct 07, 11:06

  hmmm, nothing to say....to me it just means somethings not quite right
• Hanagata

  1 Oct 07, 12:28

  13yrs old only what else you all got to say? forget about it lah... study first bah...
• hiphop2009

  1 Oct 07, 12:43

  Originally posted by popikachu:

  Good that you know it is important to study.
  
  Sec 1 i assume?
  Don't neglect your studies as sec 1 is the basic of everything. If you fail Sec 1, chances are you will continue to fail after this. It is just like an new start. Exam are near also, they should be your Biggest problem now and not relationship.
  
  Anyway, back to your problem posted.
  
  What i feel is that your problem is not 'nothing to say' but more of 'not close to each other' or 'how to get both parties interested'...
  
  Online relationship DON'T WORK.
  Bring the online relationship into real life.
  Go out more together...
  Instead of msn, email, call her...
  
  Normally, nothing to say is because of limited topics.
  And limited topics is cause by not being close enough or shyness...
  
  Again, this is YOUR relationship can we can only advice you...
  How you want to do it, it's your choice...
  Think before you act.
  If not, both of you might get into a wrong situation whereby both parties became awkward and no ones talk... That is worst then 'no topic'...
  
  Good luck on both you studies and relationship.
  Again, studies come first ^^
  

  i have two version of stuff to say to TS:
  
  first version.
  
  "Normally, nothing to say is because of limited topics.
  And limited topics is cause by not being close enough or shyness..."
  
  if really nth much to chat on phone, why nt meet out to talk and play together? even for a proper boy girl friend, chatting on phone sometimes will run out of stuff to say. since u met her before (so wad if with frenz), den why nt date her out again after your exams and stuff? meet up, make more frenz, ask her bring all her girlfriends out. u might find someone whom u can chat better with u!
  
  second version:
  
  i ask u u how old?
  
  13 years old only u wan go into relationship?
  
  haven even going to take O level u wan talk abt girlfriend?
  
  or u dun even hav leg hair u wan get gf?
  
  u shld put more time on ur studies and make more friends from ur class, nt in the virtual world? limpei last time sec 1 msn only started and not many pple msn u noe?
  
  studies first la boy, stop thinking abt relationships.
  
  
• <Precious>

  1 Oct 07, 12:49

  Wad's with si ginas having gf/bf and limiting themselves to 1 when they can have 100s of good friends of the opposite sex?
  
  Stoopidoo-stoopidee leh!
• hiphop2009

  1 Oct 07, 12:51

  Originally posted by :

  Wad's with si ginas having gf/bf and limiting themselves to 1 when they can have 100s of good friends of the opposite sex?
  
  Stoopidoo-stoopidee leh!

  so pple nowadays getting smarter or stupid-er?
• sEphIrOth

  1 Oct 07, 12:58

  when i dont meet my gf too often, things usually get bad easy and we get fustrated. however, when we meet, things get much better and we will 'renew our love'.
  
  so do make a point to meet up often. it is healthy, unless ur both fighting ur heads off.
• Tian Long Jiu Bu

  1 Oct 07, 13:18

  Originally posted by skeujin:
  you are both just 13.
  
  there nuthg much in yr life that is worth talking about... n yr life has still been short so far. how many things can u talk about beside the weathe n wats nice on [b]kids central?
  
  worst come to worse jus talk about school work n help each other with homework lor.[/b]

  WTF!!!
• BeautifulBetty

  1 Oct 07, 14:34

  At the age of the 13 it's best to concentrate on your studies instead of wasting precious time on this puppy love thing.