i need Advice
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hi guys...
i have been liking this girl for some time..she is in the same class as me
i begin msging her now and den. not long b4 she suspect i like her, den she ask my fren. den suddenly her frens oso start suspecting. i don really wan to tell her yet as i feel dat i am not close enough with her and i doubt she has feelings for me now oso + its the exam period
so heres wat i ned advice for
:how do i react to this
:what shld i tell her so i can prevent her from avoiding me?
any advice would be appreciated
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Not again?!Originally posted by <(0))><:hi guys...
i have been liking this girl for some time..she is in the same class as me
i begin msging her now and den. not long b4 she suspect i like her, den she ask my fren. den suddenly her frens oso start suspecting. i don really wan to tell her yet as i feel dat i am not close enough with her and i doubt she has feelings for me now oso + its the exam period
so heres wat i ned advice for
:how do i react to this
:what shld i tell her so i can prevent her from avoiding me?
any advice would be appreciated -
Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:Not again?!
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got thread with similar situation le ar?
if got can give link? -
Again, study come first.
Make sure you study hard... other things can WAIT.
There is a lot of way to tell her...
It is just how you choose it...
Well... Just to tell you that, Live life without regret.
Don't miss your chance, or throw away you opportunity...
In this case, your 'chance' is your exam.
Cheers ad gd luck~ -
easy la
after exam lor
and just step on, like asking her to go out or something
if you still feel shy, then you can call for a group outing, and call her along too.
then in the process, you can get closer and stuff
but try not to step over that fast, they will freak out. -
i get wat u mean.. but right now i just afraid she will avoid me den no chance liao. others i dun care first, after exam den care like u saidOriginally posted by popikachu:Again, study come first.
Make sure you study hard... other things can WAIT.
There is a lot of way to tell her...
It is just how you choose it...
Well... Just to tell you that, Live life without regret.
Don't miss your chance, or throw away you opportunity...
In this case, your 'chance' is your exam.
Cheers ad gd luck~ -
if she wants to avoid you, no matter what u do ain't gonna work....so why bother about what u cannot control.....u can however control what marks ur gonna get for ur exams thoughOriginally posted by <(0))><:i get wat u mean.. but right now i just afraid she will avoid me den no chance liao. others i dun care first, after exam den care like u said
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isn't good tt she noe?
and the earlier u noe the truth (like whether she like u back or not), the better so tt u wun be heartbroken too much -
Exam period so concentrate on exams first. When free period or honeymoon period, then follow the mood.
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your 'chance' is your exam tooOriginally posted by popikachu:Again, study come first.
Make sure you study hard... other things can WAIT.
There is a lot of way to tell her...
It is just how you choose it...
Well... Just to tell you that, Live life without regret.
Don't miss your chance, or throw away you opportunity...
In this case, your 'chance' is your exam.
Cheers ad gd luck~ -
If she ask, just admit it.Originally posted by <(0))><:hi guys...
i have been liking this girl for some time..she is in the same class as me
i begin msging her now and den. not long b4 she suspect i like her, den she ask my fren. den suddenly her frens oso start suspecting. i don really wan to tell her yet as i feel dat i am not close enough with her and i doubt she has feelings for me now oso + its the exam period
so heres wat i ned advice for
:how do i react to this
:what shld i tell her so i can prevent her from avoiding me?
any advice would be appreciated
Women don't like men who are wishy washy about their feelings.
Why turn love away when it comes knocking at your door ?
If she don't like you in a romantic sense, accept that fact.
Can't force love anyway.
If there's no reaction from her regarding the rumor, just let it be for now.
The last thing you want is to get rejected because of wrong timing.
Exam period is the worst time to confess ANY feelings, because everyone will be pre-occupied with studies.
During this critical period , your chances of being rejected is VERY HIGH. -
I made everyone in my company suspect i like this and that gal... Its sure fun..Originally posted by <(0))><:hi guys...
i have been liking this girl for some time..she is in the same class as me
i begin msging her now and den. not long b4 she suspect i like her, den she ask my fren. den suddenly her frens oso start suspecting. i don really wan to tell her yet as i feel dat i am not close enough with her and i doubt she has feelings for me now oso + its the exam period
so heres wat i ned advice for
:how do i react to this
:what shld i tell her so i can prevent her from avoiding me?
any advice would be appreciated -
Best advice hereOriginally posted by FireIce:isn't good tt she noe?
and the earlier u noe the truth (like whether she like u back or not), the better so tt u wun be heartbroken too much
Tell her ...she like you then you heng la...she dun like you then you chiong studies to forget her Either way you gain -
jz fren fren for now lo... talk normal..Originally posted by <(0))><:hi guys...
i have been liking this girl for some time..she is in the same class as me
i begin msging her now and den. not long b4 she suspect i like her, den she ask my fren. den suddenly her frens oso start suspecting. i don really wan to tell her yet as i feel dat i am not close enough with her and i doubt she has feelings for me now oso + its the exam period
so heres wat i ned advice for
:how do i react to this
:what shld i tell her so i can prevent her from avoiding me?
any advice would be appreciated -
here's something to think:Originally posted by <(0))><:hi guys...
i have been liking this girl for some time..she is in the same class as me
i begin msging her now and den. not long b4 she suspect i like her, den she ask my fren. den suddenly her frens oso start suspecting. i don really wan to tell her yet as i feel dat i am not close enough with her and i doubt she has feelings for me now oso + its the exam period
so heres wat i ned advice for
:how do i react to this
:what shld i tell her so i can prevent her from avoiding me?
any advice would be appreciated
if you are so afraid of the outcome, then it would be better for a sex change.
doko -
She also exam period lah.
Let her concentrate on the exams.
You concentrate on your exams.
You want to flunk, you flunk yourself, don't pull her down with you. -
My advice for you..
Study first..
You WILL meet many other girls in future.. I'm SERIOUS..
This is the TRUTH.. -
When a student asks for advice during the "exam" period or during his school life in general, why do so many people immediately tell the student to "concentrate on studies....next time then think of love-love"... <-- this method of advice is too "extremist", implying that one should forget the heart and concentrate solely on the mind.
I've been through school...and had to battle with my emotions during this period too...especially since thats the period of your life when you're gonna be thrown left-right center by your fluctuating hormonal levels.
Trying to find a balance in this would probably be the best solution.
Thread starter...this girl that you like....she is in the same class...is going to be going throught the same examinations as you...yes?
And you're afraid that she will find out because you feel she doesn't know you well enough?
If so...
1) Get out from that hole you've begun to dig for yourself....if you like her, tell her....but when you tell her, also include that while you would like to get to know her better, you would prefer it if you both could first concentrate on the coming exams. But let her know that your intentions are there....
2)Now that she knows your intention, tell her that you would like to study WITH her for the upcoming exams...tell her that you want to make sure that both of you do well...and show her that exactly that by taking responsibility in making sure that the "study time" is really for studies..and not just to woo her.
3)If she turns down your offer for 1) or 2) then pour your emotions into you studies....if you can show her that you can do well in your exams even despite her heartwrenching reply to you, you might just stand a chance...nothing sayz more about a man than how he overcomes adversity