How does a guy thinks?
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Hi everyone, I am new here and have been reading the threads here. Here goes nothing....
There is a guy that I like and I do not know how to tell him how I feel. Everytime when we go out, I wanted so much to tell him how I feel and how would very much know how he feels too, but it's very hard to say out loud.
We have been going out a few times so far. He is a relatively shy and passive guy. Sometimes, I am tempted to ask him when I chatted with him on msn but I feel that it is not sincere enough, yet it's the easiest way to tell him.
How do I know a guy, especially a shy guy, if he likes me?
Cheers,
Shizuka -
tell me his fone number. help me u tell. i wont tell him u tell me to tell.
jk
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hmm.. what do you like about him?
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Is easier for a girl to chase a guy than a guy chasing a girl.Originally posted by Jingying84:Hi everyone, I am new here and have been reading the threads here. Here goes nothing....
There is a guy that I like and I do not know how to tell him how I feel. Everytime when we go out, I wanted so much to tell him how I feel and how would very much know how he feels too, but it's very hard to say out loud.
We have been going out a few times so far. He is a relatively shy and passive guy. Sometimes, I am tempted to ask him when I chatted with him on msn but I feel that it is not sincere enough, yet it's the easiest way to tell him.
How do I know a guy, especially a shy guy, if he likes me?
Cheers,
Shizuka
U also must c whether the guy like chio bu a not, this can be observed through his daily action and maybe some of his personal stuff.
This is to check ur success rate. i am a guy myself and i should say MOST guy likes pretty girls unless they themselves are not handsome then they will just grab one normal one (desperate i should say).
If u are a chio bu, go ahead and confess. Success rate = 99 %
Average, go ahead, success rate = 75%
Ugly, ...
Go improve urself first... Success rate = 10% -
funny but true.Originally posted by Uncertain:If u are a chio bu, go ahead and confess. Success rate = 99 %
Average, go ahead, success rate = 75%
Ugly, ... Go improve urself first... Success rate = 10% -
If he feels the same way about u, he will take the initiative.
try to drop him hints here and there.ask him sth like "what kind of girls do u like?" -
IMO, TS belong to 75%.. no offence and no hard feelings here.Originally posted by Uncertain:If u are a chio bu, go ahead and confess. Success rate = 99 %
Average, go ahead, success rate = 75%
Ugly, ... Go improve urself first... Success rate = 10% -
be extra good to him, he will noe..
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Hi, im Nobita...and heres our fren, Doraemon
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Actually I am a shy guy too.
If you want to give hints or what, better give clearer.. If not he'll not get the hint.. -
best way is ask him... other than tat is not 100% full proof... maybe u can see if he is positive with ur dates n activities.. how old both of u?Originally posted by Jingying84:Hi everyone, I am new here and have been reading the threads here. Here goes nothing....
There is a guy that I like and I do not know how to tell him how I feel. Everytime when we go out, I wanted so much to tell him how I feel and how would very much know how he feels too, but it's very hard to say out loud.
We have been going out a few times so far. He is a relatively shy and passive guy. Sometimes, I am tempted to ask him when I chatted with him on msn but I feel that it is not sincere enough, yet it's the easiest way to tell him.
How do I know a guy, especially a shy guy, if he likes me?
Cheers,
Shizuka -
Bear with the 5min thingy, it's there to prevent spamming from people creating multiple account.
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Throw some obvious hint.. Tell him u are comfortable when with him and absolutely feels safe beside him. Buy a gift for u.. Like watch!Originally posted by Jingying84:Hi everyone, I am new here and have been reading the threads here. Here goes nothing....
There is a guy that I like and I do not know how to tell him how I feel. Everytime when we go out, I wanted so much to tell him how I feel and how would very much know how he feels too, but it's very hard to say out loud.
We have been going out a few times so far. He is a relatively shy and passive guy. Sometimes, I am tempted to ask him when I chatted with him on msn but I feel that it is not sincere enough, yet it's the easiest way to tell him.
How do I know a guy, especially a shy guy, if he likes me?
Cheers,
Shizuka
If he don't take action liao then... Good luck!
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He is mature and sensible. I feel comfortable with him when we went out together. And he looks out for me often.Originally posted by sLeEpWaLkErInG:hmm.. what do you like about him?
And I guess the feeling of likeness comes from the way he treats me and makes me feel secure. And chemistry plays a part too. -
that's what i think so too.Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Actually I am a shy guy too.
If you want to give hints or what, better give clearer.. If not he'll not get the hint.. -
Guess I am in the same situation. except that I am a guy.Originally posted by Jingying84:that's what i think so too.
Now on the fence. Dunno should I advance or stay put.
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i am 23, he is 25Originally posted by BrUtUs:best way is ask him... other than tat is not 100% full proof... maybe u can see if he is positive with ur dates n activities.. how old both of u?
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wah heng ah. for a minute there i thought you were my friend who tell me she feel comfortable arnd me. i haven take action yet. dun plan too.
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My advice is:
Most guys are not so emotionally attracted to girls but rather physically at first. Therefore, looking good give u a better chance of being successful -
If you like him, give him strength to evade his shyness, guide him into your arms, there are alots of blur blur boys out there that do not know how to tackle gals, or get shaken all over when a gal just smile at them, they are just dumbfolded by our expression at times, but cute lah.Originally posted by Jingying84:Hi everyone, I am new here and have been reading the threads here. Here goes nothing....
There is a guy that I like and I do not know how to tell him how I feel. Everytime when we go out, I wanted so much to tell him how I feel and how would very much know how he feels too, but it's very hard to say out loud.
We have been going out a few times so far. He is a relatively shy and passive guy. Sometimes, I am tempted to ask him when I chatted with him on msn but I feel that it is not sincere enough, yet it's the easiest way to tell him.
How do I know a guy, especially a shy guy, if he likes me?
Cheers,
Shizuka
Some of the guys also do not know how to fashion themselves, wear like ah beng and ah seng, slowly as their gf, we must nurture them to be a man, but then some of them are so stuck up with their ego and pride that they thought listen to a gal is like mama boys.
Buy him a something like a t shirt or other gift with the word "love you" will do.
If he still cannot get it, then he must be above sotong mentality, maybe cuttlefish liao, but i like such shy guy, at least we can control them. -
so actually for both sides, the situation seems the same...Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Guess I am in the same situation. except that I am a guy.
Now on the fence. Dunno should I advance or stay put. 
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oh thanx for all the advice! I will keep all in mind. Thanks so much!
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Is there a need to tell him directly?
Most times, you would have already told him by your actions when the both of you go out together...... actions speak louder than words y'know?
Similarly, how he feels towards you should be in his actions...... you shud be able to feel something.....
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define mature and sensible..Originally posted by Jingying84:He is mature and sensible. I feel comfortable with him when we went out together. And he looks out for me often.
And I guess the feeling of likeness comes from the way he treats me and makes me feel secure. And chemistry plays a part too.
i think a lot of girls misunderstand this behaviour..
* feeling comfortable (hopefully this keeps on)
* looks out for you often (care to elaborate, i dun understand, is it he ask you to watch out for oncoming vehicles? )
* rikes the way he treat you.. (hopefully this keeps on)
* feeling secure with him.. (fair enough)
* chemistry (damn the Edison babyface look :lol -
probably to confirm how he feels, at least it gives me a sense of direction to know where we are heading actually.Originally posted by :Is there a need to tell him directly?
Most times, you would have already told him by your actions when the both of you go out together...... actions speak louder than words y'know?
Similarly, how he feels towards you should be in his actions...... you shud be able to feel something.....
yeah sometime i think i am a sotong in r/s, i do not know if the signals meant something or is it just what a normal gentleman will do.