how to improve self confidence?
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as above
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It's ur mindset. Change it.
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the problem is, how?Originally posted by Gackt247:It's ur mindset. Change it.
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u have to start telling urself u r not a loser.. u r a winner..Originally posted by gigabyte14:the problem is, how?
from there start to act like one..
confidence is from inside projected out.. not the other way round.. -
wad dun kill u makes u stronger
so go propose to more gals for stead and get rejected everytime
u will be so frickin daring tt u even dare ask potianak asgm -
Originally posted by dbowie:wad dun kill u makes u stronger
so go propose to more gals for stead and get rejected everytime
u will be so frickin daring tt u even dare ask potianak asgm
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what is the thing that demoralise you.... makes you lose confident? whats it?
looks, or what?
must find out before there're solutions to act upon it
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in the mirror or something like that ah?Originally posted by Gackt247:u have to start telling urself u r not a loser.. u r a winner..
from there start to act like one..
confidence is from inside projected out.. not the other way round.. -
think its looksOriginally posted by Lorry`:what is the thing that demoralise you.... makes you lose confident? whats it?
looks, or what?
must find out before there're solutions to act upon it 
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i think trying to date 4 girls and 2 gays at one time will give u a super confidence boost.
wads more, the 6 of them shld be frens, ur confidence level sure shoot high high -
read widely.
pple wif knowledge are usually pple wif high self confidence -
what do you mean by read widely?Originally posted by sunny3510:read widely.
pple wif knowledge are usually pple wif high self confidence -
Agree to a certain extent........Originally posted by sunny3510:read widely.
pple wif knowledge are usually pple wif high self confidence
So what you are the most knowledgeable around? -
When you start to recognize your achievement and success even in the small things that you do.As for falilures,tell me who doesnt have one?Originally posted by gigabyte14:as above -
The strange thing about lack of confidence about outward appearance is that - if given an opportunity to seriously change it, i.e. plastic surgery etc - not many people will opt for it.Originally posted by gigabyte14:think its looks
Even investing lots of money to change hairstyle, change clothing attire or investing time to visit the gym, waste hours at the pool getting an even tan that will also give u skin cancer, etc - all these require loads of effort and most people are just dissatisfied with how they look without wanting to go through all these pain.
The reality is - deep down inside - we also have a little hope that we could be attractive despite how ordinary they look.
So which type are you? Are you willing to do all sorts of stuff to improve your appearance? Be warned - you may still have lack of confidence even after you look like damn good. Else you can spend more time cultivating your character and knowing you are someone who deserves a place on this earth - flaws and all. -
you should really read my book.... even if you don't buy, you can borrow from the library... (when available)Originally posted by gigabyte14:as above -
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there is nothing wrong with looks, in fact you look better than the average guys.Originally posted by gigabyte14:in the mirror or something like that ah?
it's all about hiding your flaws and flaunting your beauty -
This essentially is a discovery of your own strengths and the extent of those strengths.
Start with doing small things and doing them well. When you discover your success in doing small things well, learn to be proud of that achievement and move on to more challenging stuff. Repeat the same process in trying to get them done well.
Building self confidence is a step-by-step thing that has to be built. The success you get will drive you on to want greater sucesses. There is a multiplier effect......
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LMAO!Originally posted by dbowie:wad dun kill u makes u stronger
so go propose to more gals for stead and get rejected everytime
u will be so frickin daring tt u even dare ask potianak asgm -
Gacky has learnt well wor!Originally posted by Gackt247:u have to start telling urself u r not a loser.. u r a winner..
from there start to act like one..
confidence is from inside projected out.. not the other way round..
Sure sign of maturity..... 
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always tink positive instead of negative..
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come out of ur closet...xdd...
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Dress Good.
Find up more about current fashion and trend.
i believe you're a youngster, so by looking good, you'll be confident. Physical appearance and turnout bearing reflects a lot to people.
however, you ought to know tt appearance is only one of the fundamental factor tt contributes to being confident. Other aspects are important too; like your speech, actions, and self mentality.
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I don't think you look tat bad. You are actually quite good looking.Originally posted by gigabyte14:as above
It's all bout your thinking, change it.
The way you carry yourself, will help as well.