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• lovetodayy

  12 Oct 07, 03:28

  to a guy, what is exactly "good character"?
  
  will a guy be touched when a girl starts doing what he likes just to get to know him better? like pool or church.
  
  then usually he adds many smileys to the smses, but some days, there is totally no smiley.
• gigabyte14

  12 Oct 07, 03:30

  Originally posted by lovetodayy:

  to a guy, what is exactly "good character"?
  
  will a guy be touched when a girl starts doing what he likes just to get to know him better? like pool or church.
  
  not touched, is happy
  
  then usually he adds many smileys to the smses, but some days, there is totally no smiley.

  
• Hello Kitty

  12 Oct 07, 03:31

  haha. small kid.
• dbowie

  12 Oct 07, 03:32

  giga ... stop advertising ur forum...
  and threadstarter.... u just ask the boy la....
  U:u like mee anot ?
  He:err...no??
  U:den u like beehoon ?
• speakupforyourrights

  12 Oct 07, 03:33

  Originally posted by Hello Kitty:

  haha. small kid.

  
• gigabyte14

  12 Oct 07, 03:34

  Originally posted by dbowie:

  giga ... stop advertising ur forum...
  and threadstarter.... u just ask the boy la....
  U:u like mee anot ?
  He:err...no??
  U:den u like beehoon ?

  
  
  fark u la
• lovetodayy

  12 Oct 07, 03:37

  ?????
  
  stupid qn..but why happy??
  
  "small kid"-->????
  
  no one answered my qn abt the good character part.. when a guy says that, what he means?
  
  because is i asked him what type of girl he likes. that is what he tells me.
• dbowie

  12 Oct 07, 03:38

  to prove tt i am not a ghey i wuld not fark u back
• dbowie

  12 Oct 07, 03:39

  Originally posted by lovetodayy:

  ?????
  
  stupid qn..but why happy??
  
  "small kid"-->????
  
  no one answered my qn abt the good character part.. when a guy says that, what he means?
  
  because is i asked him what type of girl he likes. that is what he tells me.

  ask him u got gd character anot... if he say yes... bingo liao....
• lovetodayy

  12 Oct 07, 03:43

  but wouldnt that be obvious???
  
  got what other ways to know i could bingo too?
  
  i mean..most of the tym , he is very quiet..and i am the one who keeps rambling on.. initially the silence between us can be awkward, but nowadays it's getting comfortable..i wonder if he will find my ramblings irritating.
  hahaha.
• dbowie

  12 Oct 07, 03:47

  since u tink its comfortable why not go for it. i mean if u do have interest in tt guy, just ask la. if he dun ever ask and u too, u both wun even become couple..
• lovetodayy

  12 Oct 07, 03:54

  haha.. thanks for being the only one who replies at this odd hour..
  
  cause right now I am thinking of giving it up..i keep talkin about him when im with my friends, not a day passes w/o me not saying his name at least once.
  
  Because it's like when we go out, he knows everything..and I seemed to know not what he knows..but he likes to call me "pro sia you" in everything im okok with..
  
  urghhh...
• dbowie

  12 Oct 07, 03:55

  Originally posted by lovetodayy:

  haha.. thanks for being the only one who replies at this odd hour..
  
  cause right now I am thinking of giving it up..i keep talkin about him when im with my friends, not a day passes w/o me not saying his name at least once.
  
  Because it's like when we go out, he knows everything..and I seemed to know not what he knows..but he likes to call me "pro sia you" in everything im okok with..
  
  urghhh...

  since u tink u are infatuated with him.... why not u make the first move ?
  he is trying to praise you la. common tactics.
  anyway, good luck to u both.
• lovetodayy

  12 Oct 07, 04:50

  thanks.......
  =)
  g`day mate!
• Darkness_hacker99

  12 Oct 07, 05:19

  Originally posted by dbowie:

  giga ... stop advertising ur forum...
  and threadstarter.... u just ask the boy la....
  U:u like mee anot ?
  He:err...no??
  U:den u like beehoon ?

  Sianz. copy others people idea..
• nanren4ever

  12 Oct 07, 08:10

  Originally posted by lovetodayy:

  to a guy, what is exactly "good character"?
  
  will a guy be touched when a girl starts doing what he likes just to get to know him better? like pool or church.
  
  then usually he adds many smileys to the smses, but some days, there is totally no smiley.

  It differs from guy to guy.
  
  For me, when I tell someone I want a gal with good character, it would mean that she don't smoke, kind, fillial and respectful towards elders. Of course, a guy is a human, he would be touched when a girl tries to accomodate him and do things that he likes, but in the end, it all depends on whether the guy likes her or not. if he don't, then he probably wouldn't care too much what u do.
• ShrodingersCat

  12 Oct 07, 08:13

  Originally posted by lovetodayy:

  to a guy, what is exactly "good character"?
  
  will a guy be touched when a girl starts doing what he likes just to get to know him better? like pool or church.
  
  then usually he adds many smileys to the smses, but some days, there is totally no smiley.

  if i were a guy and a girl goes to church or pool JUST to please me
  
  gawd, it wld make me feel how boring she is and no personality/character of her own.
  
  then again, I'm an auntie so my opinions may not exactly be accurate. Most guys may feel flattered. *snort*
• <Precious>

  12 Oct 07, 08:16

  There are as many kinds of guys as there are stars in the sky!
  Where got such thing as a singularly standard definition?
  
  
• AndrewPKYap

  12 Oct 07, 08:19

  Originally posted by lovetodayy:

  will a guy be touched when a girl starts doing what he likes just to get to know him better? like pool or church.

  It depends on the guy whether or not he will be touched but for sure (most guys) will love it if you touch him... hug him and he will love it even more....
• caleb_chiang

  12 Oct 07, 08:35

  Originally posted by lovetodayy:

  to a guy, what is exactly "good character"?
  
  will a guy be touched when a girl starts doing what he likes just to get to know him better? like pool or church.
  
  then usually he adds many smileys to the smses, but some days, there is totally no smiley.

  What is it with people or rather just you...
  
  If a guy likes you, he likes you for who you are.
  
  Trying to get on his good side by doing what you are not will eventually lead to a sad end as he might not like who you really are...
• de_middle

  12 Oct 07, 08:55

  Originally posted by gigabyte14:

  
  
  fark u la

  
• gunner77

  12 Oct 07, 14:03

  depends on different guys lor
  
  some are those tat don like gals to do wat they like
  some are those who appreciate wat gals do for them
  
• mistyblue

  12 Oct 07, 14:13

  Ask directly the person in question. I don't think anyone here can read minds
  
  And don't read too much into other people's responses. having many smilies don't mean a single thing.
• theSquelch

  12 Oct 07, 14:30

  when a guy says "good character" he wants two things from the girl
  
  1. nice and simple girl - because he scared if the girl too fierce she will bully him
  
  2. sincere and faithful girl - because he scared if the girl too popular with guys she will soon dump him for other guys
  
• angel7030

  12 Oct 07, 16:30

  Originally posted by lovetodayy:

  to a guy, what is exactly "good character"?
  
  will a guy be touched when a girl starts doing what he likes just to get to know him better? like pool or church.
  
  then usually he adds many smileys to the smses, but some days, there is totally no smiley.

  By doing what a guy wants blindly is merely nonsensical, we must be objective in what we want to achieve, love is for us to enjoy, not to be a slave of it and listen to commanding.
  
  ALways remember love relationship start with a big bang, everything very nice, very sweet, very warm, after that, it slowly depreciate as months and years goes by with all those quarrelling and arguing. By then maturity love set in with room for compromising and love deep in one heart where problem are subject to consulting each other rather than wondering why he or she behaved like this why like that.
  
  The person you choose to love is your perogative, your decision, your wish, no one can take that away, and if problem set in, prepare to face it with responsibility if not authority.