Perhaps in the society i am, the chinese are generally like that. anything, the couple can discuss and debate or even fight between the couple in private. but in fron of other people give each other some face, some leeway, dont refute each other's decision or action too outrightly.Originally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:What kind of men have you been around? That's only a very small minority of men.
Well if it's something minor then she can tell him off. If not then she should do it in private but the man should do the same for her.Originally posted by petti:Perhaps in the society i am, the chinese are generally like that. anything, the couple can discuss and debate or even fight between the couple in private. but in fron of other people give each other some face, some leeway, dont refute each other's decision or action too outrightly.
example, if a man do something wrong, do you expect his wife to tell him off/scold him outrightly in public or private?
Ya, true, got money can go facial, no money how to do facial, DIY facial lor.Originally posted by Seven_Dragon:got $$$ got face
no $$$ no face
Aiya, no need men to give us any face lah, just go Watson and buy some face masks can already, later i put it up, face become very soft and nice, guess most men will give me some facey.Originally posted by petti:Men never like their girls to object/reject what they say in public. Shouldnt women be given this privilege too? Shouldnt it be mutual? or is it just men's prerogative?
No.Originally posted by petti:Men never like their girls to object/reject what they say in public. Shouldnt women be given this privilege too?
Yes, don't argue in front of others.Originally posted by petti:Perhaps in the society i am, the chinese are generally like that. anything, the couple can discuss and debate or even fight between the couple in private. but in fron of other people give each other some face, some leeway, dont refute each other's decision or action too outrightly.
example, if a man do something wrong, do you expect his wife to tell him off/scold him outrightly in public or private?
yes..Originally posted by petti:Men never like their girls to object/reject what they say in public. Shouldnt women be given this privilege too? Shouldnt it be mutual? or is it just men's prerogative?
Got money no time to facial also lam pa pa lan.Originally posted by angel7030:Ya, true, got money can go facial, no money how to do facial, DIY facial lor.
Originally posted by fymk:Looking at my own family , if my dad says something wrong, my mom smiles politely to the strangers or friends and then give him hell at home. Their way of keeping face.
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL. many couples are like that actually .afterall do not wash dirty...dirty l- something in public x)Originally posted by fymk:Looking at my own family , if my dad says something wrong, my mom smiles politely to the strangers or friends and then give him hell at home. Their way of keeping face.
It is a matter of self-confidence, for both men and women...Originally posted by petti:Men never like their girls to object/reject what they say in public. Shouldnt women be given this privilege too? Shouldnt it be mutual? or is it just men's prerogative?
dirty linen?Originally posted by T E M P O:LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL. many couples are like that actually .afterall do not wash dirty...dirty l- something in public x)
Originally posted by BadzMaro:Got money no time to facial also lam pa pa lan.