Cereal killer,
Frankly speakly.......i 'shld' sympathize with u...
or shld i not? i dun think i wanna, sad to say tt

U reminded me of someone who was in similar situation as u r in now.....these were observations i've made on him tt perhaps u din notice as well.....Everything u see now is juz smoke screen to Get On with Ur Life

There r a lot of loopholes in ur context u din cover........looks vague to me but i choose to believe ur words......like for example: u mentioned ur wife, ur daughter, how u feel......but u missed one thing

how
They Feel abt
UIm really sorry tt im supposed to make u feel better but then again, to solve the problem is to start fr the root of the problem. Dun u agree? U'll definitely feel uncomfortable abt it, so let me begin.......
Things have happened. Ask urself wat u want? Pain is there. It wont go away unless u
ALLOW it to go away. Can we have lesser issues tt u'd be focusing at? I read ur post once only....correct me if i've gotten the facts wrongly.
Leave ur wife alone. Get on with ur Life. U've got a daughter u want, isnt tt so? So be strong!!!! I bet she wldnt want a daddy who gonna break down each time seeing her, rite?
For ur wife, whether she was rite or wrong, she made her CHOICE. And u've got to 'tailor' urs....coz both of u dun share a Life anymore....but 2 separate Lives. ACCEPT. Wat more can i say? Why get back a woman who doesnt love u anymore? Dun dwell in it anymore.....Let Go.
For ur daughter, to get her custody is outta love...i u/stand but incurring all the $$$ to 'Love' her only.....izzit worthy? Listen to me 1st k? Im not too sure abt ur wife's financial situation....most probably whoever can provide her with better Life ($$$), custody goes to the parent. Love is not juz believing but also proving. See tt? So wat if u get ur daughter's custody but landing urself into lotsa debts? Ur daughter aint gonna get a GOOD LIfe.
Child's Custody seems like to me a battle btwn the couple when their marriage turned sour.....n they need sth in rtn for the time invested in the marriage which is not fair though.....For ur daughter's sake, think carefully
Earlier on, i mentioned tt u emphasized TOO MUCH on others & blahx3......dun think u've considered how they really SEE U.....by coming here, u'll get the same treatment ur frenz ard u r giving u if u still dun [color=red]WAKE UP 
Do some reflection on ur Life. U may not be wrong but u can also not be rite since u've hardly reflected on Urself

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..........wat else?

....guess only BREAK A LEG
