how to be punctual??
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average amt of time late: 40min
1) i hav problem waking up, must toss on bed for another 2 hrs before getting up.
2) always have to wait until damn late then go out for appointment
(like now),how to solve? cannot force myself, cannot make it. -
Mostly i punctual on time !
Well , sometime i will late for 20 min like that !
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so if u meet 1pm..u wake up 3 hr b4 hand..lie 2 hr..stil got 1 hr to go..hahahaOriginally posted by HingisCrashesOut:average amt of time late: 40min
1) i hav problem waking up, must toss on bed for another 2 hrs before getting up.
2) always have to wait until damn late then go out for appointment
(like now),how to solve? cannot force myself, cannot make it.
Givache 
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er.. a little bit of help would be good.. no one ask u to tell ask about how "good" u are!Originally posted by startrightnow:Mostly i punctual on time !
Well , sometime i will late for 20 min like that ! 
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noe of a classmate...
meet 2pm..she wake up at 2pm..
hai..
i think u find somebody to give u morning call...
sleep early..loh -
if i am your friend, i will tell you that we are meeting at 11am, when we are in actual fact meeting at 1pm...
...or maybe even 10am, that should give u ample time to toss around and yet not be late.... -
Originally posted by jOhO:er.. a little bit of help would be good.. no one ask u to tell ask about how "good" u are!
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wanted to try thtOriginally posted by BliX:if i am your friend, i will tell you that we are meeting at 11am, when we are in actual fact meeting at 1pm... ...or maybe even 10am, that should give u ample time to toss around and yet not be late....
but hai..can't bear to...
coz she live in tampines..den my school in ngee ann
but sometimes i just find that she is just simply Pig..keke -
Just work back your time or ask your friend to remind you... fine $$ if late.. sure work one...
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put a lot of alarm clock around ur bed..each alarm rings every 10mins of ur time set......
..this will surely wake u up..... -
i tried b4 but since i cant fool myself enuff, i end up enjoying my sleep even more...Originally posted by Givache:so if u meet 1pm..u wake up 3 hr b4 hand..lie 2 hr..stil got 1 hr to go..hahaha Givache -
some one actually did once but i guess not really good to trouble peopleOriginally posted by BufPuf:noe of a classmate...
meet 2pm..she wake up at 2pm..
hai..
i think u find somebody to give u morning call...
sleep early..loh -
maybe someone shd just do that but i cant tell them to do it, if not i wont be fooled...Originally posted by BliX:if i am your friend, i will tell you that we are meeting at 11am, when we are in actual fact meeting at 1pm... ...or maybe even 10am, that should give u ample time to toss around and yet not be late....
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fine money??Originally posted by jetruby:Just work back your time or ask your friend to remind you... fine $$ if late.. sure work one... i will be late but refuse to pay up one -
tried that with 3 diff alarm alocks, one really big and loud one but mum turned it off cos it was ringing for so long and i didnt even hear it. the other was a handphone which rang every 5 min or so but i got up, turned it OFFF and went back to sleep...Originally posted by duotiga83:put a lot of alarm clock around ur bed..each alarm rings every 10mins of ur time set...... ..this will surely wake u up.....
this has happened many times.....haizzz..... -
i always late
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1. Get out of the bed. Make your time worth.
2. Make sure you are out of the house by a certain time. -
take a look at the push and pull factors of me staying in the bed...
pull:
1) bed too comfortable, its perfect. arranged it such that fengshui too good for bedroom. rearrange? then how much bad luck do i want?
2) i love sleeping
3) huge inertia, hate to drag myself up, brush teeth, etc etc
push:
1) nothing much for me to look forward to when awake
i.e.multiple bloody chunks of work everyday
stressed and frustrated, feel so trapped..... haha -
Harrowz...
Something that I learn from my psych class. I think the first thing is that you got to change your attitude or mindset. If you think that you will lie in bed and be late, as it is your habit, you will always lie in bed and be late.
If you want to be punctual, first you need to tell yourself what time you need to get up, and ask yourself why you need to get up at that time, then you think about how important and how interesting it would be to be engaging in that activity.
Then you consider how would that person really feel, if he/she has been waiting for you all the while, when you're sleeping or tossing in bed, and put yourself in the position of the friend, would you be mad??
It's about how our minds think and perceive the scenerio to be. If you think something is unimportant and uninteresting, I think you will not even be thinking of dragging your feet to the place. Take for instance, you're going on a trip abroad, a field trip or a school camp, I think in those instances you will be so excited that you are eager to be there from the day before right??
In statistical research, it has been proven that, changes needs to be done over time, getting better each time, and not immediate change. And you need at least 21 times of such change continuously before it will be a permanent change.
Hope I have helped in some ways, if you think I'm talking BS, please give it a shot first. -
no i appreciate it when pple give advice...
especially to someone like me... thanks. most of my friends just keep quiet when they know ive problems, probably more eager to see me suffer or collapse. but isnt this is the most common thing for anyone haha
im kinda "destroying" myself right now with little intention
of pulling myself up... cos i no longer see much value in doing
what ive been doing...am i just kidding myself? if so what is the truth im kidding myself from? is that really the truth? as always ive doubted the truth, its just that now im willing to face it, and facing it and is not an easy task, which partly explains why pple prefer to discard it as "kidding myself".
all this is not bullshit, but i understand if pple think otherwise cos i purposely left out the gist of all this rambling...kinda like i need an outlet for rambling but not wanting pple to know me well. but of course some/many will know what the hell im talking abt.
anyway, have a nice life -
Well, I dun understand in what your last post has in relation to the topic or anything that I posted, but I treat it's a seperate issue.
A lot of times, you can see people for advice. You can get the best psychologists or psychiatrist, but you will never get well, unless you yourself actively and willingly do something about it. If you're to be so passive all the time, even on at the last moment in life, you will still be remained as who you are now.
Choosing the path is set by yourself, and how you want to choose it is up to you. There's probably that you see that I don't in the road that you take, hence you feel that it's worth going. All I can do is give my opinion, give my support and show my concern, I'm not someone who can definitely change a person, besides somethings which I may agree to may not be agreeable by many. -
GO ARMY ... they will teach u ...
ARMY IS TIMING!!!!!!!!!!!!
EVERYING IS TIMING!!!!!!!!!!!!!
they give u STUPID TIMING THAT U CANN"T MEET AND MAKE U MEET IT>..
if u FAIL TO MEET IT THEY WILL MAKE SURE U MEET IT AGAIN AND AGAIN UNTIL U MAKE IT>...
really if u try lor... and if u have complete your ns and u still ... F****** HELL LATE>> I DONT THINK U ARE A HUMAN >...
so WHAT IS ARMY!!!!!GENTLEMEN !!!!! DOWN!!
ARMY IS TIMING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
sorry .... i think i got too much bad memories of been late... for few sec..... -
Originally posted by Seventh_Signs:GO ARMY ... they will teach u ...
ARMY IS TIMING!!!!!!!!!!!!
EVERYING IS TIMING!!!!!!!!!!!!!
they give u STUPID TIMING THAT U CANN"T MEET AND MAKE U MEET IT>..
if u FAIL TO MEET IT THEY WILL MAKE SURE U MEET IT AGAIN AND AGAIN UNTIL U MAKE IT>...
really if u try lor... and if u have complete your ns and u still ... F****** HELL LATE>> I DONT THINK U ARE A HUMAN >...
so WHAT IS ARMY!!!!!GENTLEMEN !!!!! DOWN!!
ARMY IS TIMING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
sorry .... i think i got too much bad memories of been late... for few sec..... ..tts wat my mom told mi..... -
make full use of your mobile phone.. use the to do list, reminder, alarm, and such.
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Originally posted by Bear:Harrowz...
Something that I learn from my psych class. I think the first thing is that you got to change your attitude or mindset. If you think that you will lie in bed and be late, as it is your habit, you will always lie in bed and be late. ......
forplease give it a shot first.
How true. It's about thinking. Like what's there waiting for you when you wake up. Whether you find life interesting enough to wake up for.