Originally posted by hopy:
Hi pple,
i believe almost every1 has been in n out of r/s b4...juz wondering y isit tt sometimes...pple feel tt after breakups, they could never ever be frds again but there r also breakups tt 1 party 1s to be frds so tt they can keep in contact

so wats the purpose 4 being frds afterall???
Can never be frenz 
Hurt or Pain involved....to continue the f/ship is juz reminding them all tt again.....some cant take it......others need time.....
Platonic f/ship 
frenz of diff gender (no chemistry involved)
By being frenz, there's communications, u/standings or sharings of each other's life......tt increases wat one may experience alone
BGR is sth more than f/ship with MORE demands? intimacy? involving alot more secrets into each other's personal life? blahx3.......+ chemistry
Therefore, if 1 party still wanna keep in contact aft breaking up, it's only abt the
f/ship's stuffs, w/o the stuffs in a BGR. Depends on individuals, coz it's really hard to maintain f/ship if 1 party is still unwilling to accept the fact tt it's no longer a BGR

unless both have come to accept it
