Friends or Foes?
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Hi pple,
i believe almost every1 has been in n out of r/s b4...juz wondering y isit tt sometimes...pple feel tt after breakups, they could never ever be frds again but there r also breakups tt 1 party 1s to be frds so tt they can keep in contact
so wats the purpose 4 being frds afterall??? -
friends to keep u company and help u lor.... not gf also can be friends mah.....
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depends on individual...
what make you guys broke off in the first place..
alot of factors can caused different endings....
anyway... some of my ex bfs and me are still friends
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Some couples are originally rather good friends before they became more... Some just developed a friendship together with the BGR thing... They might feel that it's such a waste to lose the friendship altogether... Depends on individuals... Some might find the pain to great to take just to keep the friendship there while others not.... Of course they can also be other reasons... Some rather strange and weird reasons...?Originally posted by hopy:Hi pple,
i believe almost every1 has been in n out of r/s b4...juz wondering y isit tt sometimes...pple feel tt after breakups, they could never ever be frds again but there r also breakups tt 1 party 1s to be frds so tt they can keep in contact so wats the purpose 4 being frds afterall??? -
well..frenz to accomplany them when they are bored or wadever.. coz.. they are once a couple b4.. and mayb... he/she will understand u more??that wad i think... well... sae the truth la.. i hope can still befren wif all my x stead lo..
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but how isit possible when u2 was more then frds last time??Originally posted by AaronBoi:friends to keep u company and help u lor.... not gf also can be friends mah..... -
Can never be frenzOriginally posted by hopy:Hi pple,
i believe almost every1 has been in n out of r/s b4...juz wondering y isit tt sometimes...pple feel tt after breakups, they could never ever be frds again but there r also breakups tt 1 party 1s to be frds so tt they can keep in contact so wats the purpose 4 being frds afterall???
Hurt or Pain involved....to continue the f/ship is juz reminding them all tt again.....some cant take it......others need time.....
Platonic f/ship frenz of diff gender (no chemistry involved)
By being frenz, there's communications, u/standings or sharings of each other's life......tt increases wat one may experience alone
BGR is sth more than f/ship with MORE demands? intimacy? involving alot more secrets into each other's personal life? blahx3.......+ chemistry
Therefore, if 1 party still wanna keep in contact aft breaking up, it's only abt the f/ship's stuffs, w/o the stuffs in a BGR. Depends on individuals, coz it's really hard to maintain f/ship if 1 party is still unwilling to accept the fact tt it's no longer a BGR
unless both have come to accept it 