Originally posted by crave86:
im a guy, 21 this year.. im in a relationship with another girl, 25.
can someone please tell me what should i do? im really upset with myself and this relationship...
i always remember the anniversary, i initates the celebration, i surprise her, i give her anything she wants..
i give up anything for her.. but she always dun really care about me.. im always the 1 who sms or calls her first..
whens shes out and i sms her to ask her wats she doing, she often quarrels with me saying im locking her down,
not giving her space. but, all i sms was things like "muacks wat u doing?" "im bored, where u baby?" at times.
she got a bike, and she takes care of her bike more than me.
we have quite afew arguments last time... but recently.. some incidents made me really upset.
1) i was overseas for 10 days and she promised me that she would watch this particular movie with me. when i came back
she had already watch it with another guy. i was quite upset and i asked her why did she break her promise, all she
said was sorry, and thats all. she did nothing. Im not upset that she didn't watch the movie with me, but instead
i was upset that she broke her promise. it is such a simple thing and yet she couldn't keep her promise. i feel all this
minor issues are the 1 that keeps a good relationship going.
2) 2 days ago was our 1.5 year anniversary, i surprised her in the morning by sending her to work, and she knew we
gonna have dinner on the day itself. later in the afternoon, she sms and hinted that she prefer going riding with
her friends. i don't want her to be doing something she don't want to do, so i asked her to go riding.
But, deep down, i feel really sad.
3) Today we had an argument. I told her afew days ago This week is the only week im free, as the next few weeks i'll be
busy with my work, so i reserved this entire week to spend with her. She spend 1 day away on 2), didn't meet her for 2 days
and she told me this saturday her bike friend birthday. after work shes going, from evening onwards.
I FELT REALLY REALLY DOWN when i heard it, i already told her i'll be free this week and i really expected her
to reserve more time with me. she didn't.
when we argued on the phone, i asked her whats her piority was. she said her piority is her life.
i really duno what to say anymore. i can give up anything for her, but i know she will not.
This few nights had been some really tearful nights.
I love her so much that i really wish i could stab myself for even arguing with her.
She is the man and you are the girl ya, to my experience with lesbian friends, I can say 90% she is a lesbian who love gal more than man, but can be bisexual at times. So forget about it, you are not in her dictionary.