Am I stupid?
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21hr 30min liao..got answer mah?
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maybe he's just a one-time person to come, post his problem, get response and go.
maybe he's at that outing thingy for 4 - 5 days one? he also nv mention when it will occur.
maybe he's really depressed and dun feel like talking about it.
Whatever it may be, i'm sure we are wish to know the reply. so let's all hope that he comes back to give what we want.
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Why can't you just go with the flow??? Let nature take its course??
Must you really say it out? -
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Well first of all you should have given yourself a pat on the back coz at least you know you are not a wuss! Would a girl want a wuss as a boyfriend? You are not regretting it. At least you are decisive and that's a plus point for your character! Aiyoh crush niaOriginally posted by kenny8787:u all so good huh helped by making that "hope" brighter...
But i accepted it already.....
Aiya not me dun dun so secretive ma... made me suddenly so excited then ho, drop down the cliff ... You can sweep her off her feet and she will pretty soon forget the name of her crush! Anyway the crush might be u lor....trying to get your guard down first by saying the crush not you... This kind of things. Forever got hope wan. Sekali she see the msg too happi to slp liao??? -
I agree with akinos. Cos this look like the sort of thing i would do too!Originally posted by akinos:2ndly, there might be a chance that she is trying to see whether ur crush is her, then she will MAYBE tell u that the crush is actually u. somehow she MIGHT BE denying it only just to be sure.
On the other hand, bravo to your confession. From what i gather, you knew her for a period of time already? I guess, it's about time to let her know too. You are brave and I admire u for that.
5 nights camping?
Cherish the opportunity to get close to her! Even if she's not totally into u now, she might in future, you'd never know. Continue to silently get close to her and persist in that if you like her that much. If it's just becos she doesn't seem interested and u back off too soon, it might signal to her that you aren't really that serious about her in the 1st place.
All the best. Cheers! -
DUDE!!!
Don juz abondon SGF after getting ur answers!
tell us leh!
im hoping its good news
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u a woman too? oh gosh, if u are, its time i have a s3x-change operation. i'm turning into a woman and thinking like one too~~Originally posted by YouDonKnowMe:I agree with akinos. Cos this look like the sort of thing i would do too!
On the other hand, bravo to your confession. From what i gather, you knew her for a period of time already? I guess, it's about time to let her know too. You are brave and I admire u for that.
5 nights camping? Cherish the opportunity to get close to her! Even if she's not totally into u now, she might in future, you'd never know. Continue to silently get close to her and persist in that if you like her that much. If it's just becos she doesn't seem interested and u back off too soon, it might signal to her that you aren't really that serious about her in the 1st place.
All the best. Cheers!
help~~!!!
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Is this unbashful self-praise and narcissism at its peak?Originally posted by akinos:u a woman too? oh gosh, if u are, its time i have a s3x-change operation. i'm turning into a woman and thinking like one too~~
help~~!!!
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over just like that? That is a stupid assumption. People change one mah... if you tried and she doesn't change then... maybe "its all over"...Originally posted by kenny8787:I think i am stupid.
She have not replied me, most prob sleeping but well, its all over!
Why don't you just be friends and take it one day at a time? -
not at its peak yet la, it will be when the guy comes back with the reply from the girl that has the same thinking as what i have suggested. then i will boast further more!!Originally posted by YouDonKnowMe:Is this unbashful self-praise and narcissism at its peak?
*bish* 
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hello sorry i went to stay over at a chalet...
she was there to.. at first she like paiseh paiseh dun dare talk but after warm up, i also dun care image just play.
Thanks everybody for the reply but since she knows already den why shld i give up..
fight until she says stop or i know its gone
There was this thing which made me happy and sad
I went to a chalet and this we were chatting while BBQ-ing... this girl who did not bring present and got mocked at says she come with nothing but want to bring a guy back...then she winked at me...
that girl then keep on laughing at me but her expression is abit weird..
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i had never planned to say it out... i dont know why she start the conversation and keep on asking and askingOriginally posted by fairlady_xoxo:Why can't you just go with the flow??? Let nature take its course??
Must you really say it out? -
yeah knew for quite a long time already..Originally posted by YouDonKnowMe:I agree with akinos. Cos this look like the sort of thing i would do too!
On the other hand, bravo to your confession. From what i gather, you knew her for a period of time already? I guess, it's about time to let her know too. You are brave and I admire u for that.
5 nights camping? Cherish the opportunity to get close to her! Even if she's not totally into u now, she might in future, you'd never know. Continue to silently get close to her and persist in that if you like her that much. If it's just becos she doesn't seem interested and u back off too soon, it might signal to her that you aren't really that serious about her in the 1st place.
All the best. Cheers!
i am not backing off, but similarly, i wont be that aggressive as i think it might make her feel uncomfortable. what i want is her to feel comfortable. thats the most important thing. -
sometimes people might not just like one person only, but have good feelings for a few. The person she hinted that she likes might just be something like her dreamguy sort because of his exceptional good looks, capability etc.Originally posted by kenny8787:she made it clear in her hints its not me already..i'll take it in my stride.. and the 4 night event is coming up... same room...
Certainly doesn't mean u dun have a chance... and i will think ur 5 day trip is a wonderful chance for u two to progress further. -
Huh wad wor? Who's the this girl/that girl wor? Are they the same person ? Your crush? Or totally different person ? If your crush said that means you should be super happy lahOriginally posted by kenny8787:hello sorry i went to stay over at a chalet...
she was there to.. at first she like paiseh paiseh dun dare talk but after warm up, i also dun care image just play.
Thanks everybody for the reply but since she knows already den why shld i give up..
fight until she says stop or i know its gone
There was this thing which made me happy and sad
I went to a chalet and this we were chatting while BBQ-ing... this girl who did not bring present and got mocked at says she come with nothing but want to bring a guy back...then she winked at me...
that girl then keep on laughing at me but her expression is abit weird..
feel quite elated but at the same time, bothered and sad...
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nono its a different person...i dont know that person de...my friend's cousin.
i've thought about it!!! i need some advice from you all here thanks... During that few nights, i need some games or activities which can make her feel comfortable and yet improve relationship.. I dont want to act i just want to be normal...
what kind of games can make her feel not bored but still helps|? -
What she said that time was, like a little bit that type.Originally posted by UandMe:sometimes people might not just like one person only, but have good feelings for a few. The person she hinted that she likes might just be something like her dreamguy sort because of his exceptional good looks, capability etc.
Certainly doesn't mean u dun have a chance... and i will think ur 5 day trip is a wonderful chance for u two to progress further.
i didnt know what she meant and i dont wan read too much into it.
Yes that guy is exceptionally cute, i confirm lose to him but i dont think i look that bad too.
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Hah whacko? Anything that doesn't have long awkward pauses and can get her pulse and heart racing can le mah : ) But not advisable to play Truth Or Dare... Later will work against you if awkward questions are asked by inconsiderate peopleOriginally posted by kenny8787:nono its a different person...i dont know that person de...my friend's cousin.
i've thought about it!!! i need some advice from you all here thanks... During that few nights, i need some games or activities which can make her feel comfortable and yet improve relationship.. I dont want to act i just want to be normal...
what kind of games can make her feel not bored but still helps|?
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2 person only
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Orh Oh oops din see. Haha actually think if she's not backing out already means you already got good chanceOriginally posted by kenny8787:2 person only Go for it
But games for 2 like hard to find? Can go biking/skating?? -
2 person! 5 days 4 nights!!Originally posted by kenny8787:2 person only
I seriously don't believe that u're not going to get a gf soon. -
Ya lor Ya lor...if agree to spend 5 days with you in the same room... even when she knows you like her...Got big chance le mah. Can also think of very romantic stuffs to do during so many days... but of course cannot force it upon her la ... Don't scare her away ha
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you are not stupid. in fact you are brave to confess.Originally posted by kenny8787:This friend of mine, we talk alot and i liked her for a very long time already.
We even planned to go an event which lasts for 4 nights together.
Today, we were chatting online, she suddenly asked questions about the girl i like etc etc... After sometime, i realised that i am not the one she likes.
She at first was just forcing me to tell her my crush, then i told her i like a girl from my course. I ask her to do the same, she said the guy is not from my course. Thats the first blow. I knew that its not me.
Then she dropped another few hints while trying to persuade me to tell her who i like, and i am almost certain she is not talking about me.
Then i did something stupid. Knowing i will fail, i still confessed through sms as she got disconnected and went to sleep.
I think i got the wrong hints from her, even in today's conversation, her unwillingness to tell me who she likes although she wants to know mine etc etc, before i realised its not me. I still went ahead and confess.
I think i am stupid.
She have not replied me, most prob sleeping but well, its all over!
it's too bad if she don't like you. it's her loss.
u'll find a better one soon