helpp
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I kept it to myself a long time n always asked myself.
Im trying to b a nice person,cause im quite mean person bak den.
My fren make a sacastic remark/sound when i reject doing smth mean or smth.
saying "whoa"
makes me abit angry n down
Being a nice person isnt such an easy job afterall.
I patched up with some of my frens, altho now we stil talk like usual lah. but im uncontented like can feel abit distant from dem. Cos im hanging out with another person, if i get too close to dem, they cfm wil tink dat i jus take using dem as occupying boredom. so i dun dare to talk too much to dem or hang out with dem much.
Don't know why people also hav this kind of tot. -.-
Im trying here. Then at the end of the day, i ask myself "omg, was i being nice today? did i do anything wrong today? did i scold my fren?!" Now im so afraid of losing my own frens or smth. hmm
I hate trying to be a nice person n i hate being a mean person.
-stress -
be yourself don't need to be nice or mean
cause nice or mean also got friends just that different type
be yourself is what is most important -
sometimes act act too much can go insane & later on blow up, u'll be worse off
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Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh u don't own your friends. They are not a thing, u know? They have a mind of their own and if they want to leave you, you can't do anything about it.Originally posted by queen0ftiara:I kept it to myself a long time n always asked myself.
Im trying to b a nice person,cause im quite mean person bak den.
My fren make a sacastic remark/sound when i reject doing smth mean or smth.
saying "whoa"
RAH. IM TRYING MY BEST WHY CANT U JUS GO WITH IT.
Being a nice person isnt such an easy job afterall.
I patched up with some of my frens who we used to b so close, and nw is so hard to go close, like we're complete wurl people. Im freaking sad about it everytime i go n look at dos photo n think of last time. and think,"wonderful times, i wish i can go bak to the past...." I WANT TO BE CLOSE FRENS LIKE WE USE TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.
Can anyone tell me hw to b a nice person n get closer to others?
Im trying here. Then at the end of the day, i ask myself "omg, was i being nice today? did i do anything wrong today? did i scold my fren?!" Now im so afraid of losing my own frens. .... HELP!!
I hate trying to be a nice person n i hate being a mean person.
WHAT AM I SURPPOSE TO DO. STRESS AHHHHHHHH
Anyway, it is seems good that u are trying to improve on your flaws. However, at the end of the day you can't please everyone... so when you find yourself suffering by being too nice, then don't bring be loh. -
just be urself
if u wanna be a nice person, ur temper must be not easily affected.
be cheerful -
I think it's important to be urself yet not lose urself to ur devil's side =S wat am I talking about...?
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be nice is strong encourage doh
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Be urself is the best. but also u must use wise word to talk back to them.. not like an animal to bite when u pissed off
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x2Originally posted by thebunny:I think it's important to be urself yet not lose urself to ur devil's side =S wat am I talking about...? -
seems to me your nice but not really nice. if you get what i mean, ha.
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Just be yourself. True friends love you for who you are, even if it means that you are different to them.Originally posted by queen0ftiara:I kept it to myself a long time n always asked myself.
Im trying to b a nice person,cause im quite mean person bak den.
My fren make a sacastic remark/sound when i reject doing smth mean or smth.
saying "whoa"
makes me abit angry n down
Being a nice person isnt such an easy job afterall.
I patched up with some of my frens, altho now we stil talk like usual lah. but im uncontented like can feel abit distant from dem. Cos im hanging out with another person, if i get too close to dem, they cfm wil tink dat i jus take using dem as occupying boredom. so i dun dare to talk too much to dem or hang out with dem much.
Don't know why people also hav this kind of tot. -.-
Im trying here. Then at the end of the day, i ask myself "omg, was i being nice today? did i do anything wrong today? did i scold my fren?!" Now im so afraid of losing my own frens or smth. hmm
I hate trying to be a nice person n i hate being a mean person.
-stress
"It's not about being who everyone else wants you to be. It's about being yourself, and finding someone who loves every bit of it." <<--- Tat even includes your friends.
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most importantly just be yourself. At the same time, try to improve yourself.Originally posted by queen0ftiara:I kept it to myself a long time n always asked myself.
Im trying to b a nice person,cause im quite mean person bak den.
My fren make a sacastic remark/sound when i reject doing smth mean or smth.
saying "whoa"
makes me abit angry n down
Being a nice person isnt such an easy job afterall.
I patched up with some of my frens, altho now we stil talk like usual lah. but im uncontented like can feel abit distant from dem. Cos im hanging out with another person, if i get too close to dem, they cfm wil tink dat i jus take using dem as occupying boredom. so i dun dare to talk too much to dem or hang out with dem much.
Don't know why people also hav this kind of tot. -.-
Im trying here. Then at the end of the day, i ask myself "omg, was i being nice today? did i do anything wrong today? did i scold my fren?!" Now im so afraid of losing my own frens or smth. hmm
I hate trying to be a nice person n i hate being a mean person.
-stress -
wait for poly where you hatch a new life. try to be sociable.
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queen0ftiara,
Don't even try.
When people find out you are just "trying" they will know you are just pretentious and fake.
A pretentious person is worst than a mean person.
If your nature is mean, accept that it is part of your character, and go make friends with people who don't mind people like you.
Be true to yourself and others will be true to you.