what is he thinking?
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me & my ex planned to go out for coffee. i told him to inform his gf. he said "dont care about her" & i asked him, "does he love his gf? he sae "no". & i replied, "then y u want to b with her in the 1st place" his reply was "i Dont know". initially we planned to go out on friday night. he said he'll confirm with me on thurs but because it is public holiday, he has no idea what was his work schedule was like on fri. i waited until friday noon, he still hasnt confirm with me, so i called him to ask, he said he cant make it. thus i asked him why he didnt inform me. he said he plan to tell me after his work. thus i sae, ok see you on sunday. he paused a while and said ok!
on saturday i called him to set a time, he was busy working & said that he will call me after his work which he didnt. on sunday, afternoon i called him again to ask him whether or not he still interested. he said yesterday he forgot abt it & right now he is busying painting his house!! he promised again and again that he will call me back after painting his hse which he didnt...
right now i dont know what is going through his mind. i treat him like my frien, i think he is treating me as a friend too. he would talk to me on the phone like v close but somehow he is escaping from meeting me up. why is that so?? -
so are you a guy or a girl?
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sorry, you are his ex... must be ger since he has a new gf...
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but since you are his ex... just let him go bah...
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so what do u think he is thinking inside, why is he escaping? he is afraid or wat? anyway we are friend now, so what is he scared of then?
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guys are lazy one lah... and cowards... he is too lazy to go out and too much of a coward to tell you in the face... so he hopes you come into the forums and asks us... and we tell you to forget him...
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why must he be scared of something to avoid you?
perhaps he just isnt fond of meeting up with you. -
perhaps its becuz of the reason both of you break up?
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why do u wanna meet up with him ?
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dun think too much!
waste ur energy!
if u want to know the answer
use ur mouth to ask him lor! -
Why are you thinking so much? Could see that you're expecting somethings from him.
Let it go, it already your ex. If he is really interested to meet you, he will meet you... -
It's over already...
And, if a person really like/love someone, that person won't make empty promises... -
leave him alone and move on, unless u yourself can't
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I know what you are thinking, you are thinking of reunion with him again, why? Haven't you learnt you lesson 1 in love. Are there no other men/boys other than him. Of course it your life, you choose to be what you want, but the option is life is alway open, and it will be damn stupid to fall into the same pit twice.
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He scared of falling in love with you again then dui bu qi his current
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Why are you so insistent in meeting up with him?
If he can forget, that means its not important to him and besides,
if you have gotten over him, why do you care if he treat you as a friend or not.
Friendship should come naturally.
Don't care about what he is thinking. Think about yourself instead. -
u still like him right?
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TS,Originally posted by woho:me & my ex planned to go out for coffee. i told him to inform his gf. he said "dont care about her" & i asked him, "does he love his gf? he sae "no". & i replied, "then y u want to b with her in the 1st place" his reply was "i Dont know". initially we planned to go out on friday night. he said he'll confirm with me on thurs but because it is public holiday, he has no idea what was his work schedule was like on fri. i waited until friday noon, he still hasnt confirm with me, so i called him to ask, he said he cant make it. thus i asked him why he didnt inform me. he said he plan to tell me after his work. thus i sae, ok see you on sunday. he paused a while and said ok!
on saturday i called him to set a time, he was busy working & said that he will call me after his work which he didnt. on sunday, afternoon i called him again to ask him whether or not he still interested. he said yesterday he forgot abt it & right now he is busying painting his house!! he promised again and again that he will call me back after painting his hse which he didnt...
right now i dont know what is going through his mind. i treat him like my frien, i think he is treating me as a friend too. he would talk to me on the phone like v close but somehow he is escaping from meeting me up. why is that so??
Pardon me, but I think this thread's title should be "What am I thinking of?"
I do admire that you are able to still treat him as your friend after what had happened between the 2 of you. But I sure do not admire your guts here. I felt that you should at least keep your distance and move on with your life. Do you think that there will be anything else for you to remain and be with him?
Aren't you the least bit doubtful about his sense of commitment and trustworthiness? I just don't fancy the road ahead of you if you get what I mean. Think about it.
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X2.....what's with the pressure on meeting upOriginally posted by aremeis:TS,
Pardon me, but I think this thread's title should be "What am I thinking of?"
I do admire that you are able to still treat him as your friend after what had happened between the 2 of you. But I sure do not admire your guts here. I felt that you should at least keep your distance and move on with your life. Do you think that there will be anything else for you to remain and be with him?
Aren't you the least bit doubtful about his sense of commitment and trustworthiness? I just don't fancy the road ahead of you if you get what I mean. Think about it. 
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1st thing u need to ask yourself is who initiated this meetup? if he initiate one then he shld be calling u instead, y u bother so much?Originally posted by aremeis:TS,
Pardon me, but I think this thread's title should be "What am I thinking of?"
I do admire that you are able to still treat him as your friend after what had happened between the 2 of you. But I sure do not admire your guts here. I felt that you should at least keep your distance and move on with your life. Do you think that there will be anything else for you to remain and be with him?
Aren't you the least bit doubtful about his sense of commitment and trustworthiness? I just don't fancy the road ahead of you if you get what I mean. Think about it.
2nd is whether have you given up already? as in TOTALLY? ure still affected in some ways or the other by his actions n it bothers u.
3rd is are you hoping for anything? seems to me u still want to see him.
but dont take my word for it. -
Doesn't need to be afraid if he doesn't want to meet you...maybe he just doesn't want to be reminded of things in the past...
Some people are no good at becoming friends with their ex-es...I am one of them
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Wah lao...just don't bother la....why must you bring yourself so low to wanna meet him? To him its like you NEED him....don't give him that chance to think of that....and so what if you are friends...EVERYONE after a break up will treat each other as "friends"....aka...."i hope i don't see you that often kind of friend"...
Just move on....this kinda guys are not worth it.... -
That is why it is so important to let certain things go. To release them. To cut loose. People need to understand that no one is playing with marked cards; sometimes we win and sometimes we lose. Don't expect to get anything back, don't expect recognition for your efforts, don't expect your genius to be discovered or your love to be understood. Complete the circle. Not out of pride, inability, or arrogance, but simply because it no longer fits in your life. Close the door, change the record, clean the house, get rid of the dust.
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Maybe he is afraid that u like him or he will like u .. rem he got gf ?Originally posted by woho:so what do u think he is thinking inside, why is he escaping? he is afraid or wat? anyway we are friend now, so what is he scared of then? -
why bother?